MaryAnne, who posts as Maryannen, has been totally freed from haircolor, and is experiencing other freedoms, as well. Like subtracting 15 minutes a day from her AM prep, and 1 hour every 7 weeks from the hair salon. Then there's the freedom that comes from within, as she's gone short and sassy, receiving more compliments on her short pewter hair than she ever did on her longer “bottle” brown hair. That's gotta make a girl feel good! MaryAnne has been married for 37 years to her “best friend and business partner,” managing two home-based businesses: floorcovering installation and rental properties. All, in-between working full time as a Guest Service Agent for a local hotel. Next on her agenda: returning to her art room. MaryAnne is an acrylic artist and has painted landscapes, seascapes, florals, abstracts and portraits. She’s shown in 4 local art shows in the past 5 years. Now, add in 4 daughters and 3 granddaughters, and you have one busy gal!
Lainey G. is a graduate! And she’s so happy to finally feel true to herself again. At 56, she had been this route once before, but went back to coloring. But she always knew it was just a matter of time before she would transition again. So, with the help of a few highlights, she began her journey just after Thanksgiving ’09. Happily a grandma, with two little toddlers, Lainey loves the stage of life she’s in. She says the silver is definitely the “icing on the cake.” Lainey also loves the confidence she has gained by not following the crowd, and credits GGLG with playing a large part in this. Well done, Lainey!
Danielle, “Elly,” jumped right into the icy cold waters as a “polar bear” swimmer, and she jumped right into going silver, too. At the age of 41, she colored her hair for the last time in November ’09, and by January ’10, had gone for the pixie. Yes, that meant sacrificing her beloved curls, but it only took two more trims, spaced six weeks apart to get rid of all the dye. Elly was done! And thrilled with the color. Now she’s just enjoying all the compliments she’s getting on her newly silvered locks, more than ever before, and is waiting patiently to regain her curly wedged bob. "The curls are coming back!" she says. Elly’s done all the right things, too. She changed her makeup palette, and some of the colors she’s wearing. Women tell her all the time they “wish they could stop coloring.” Elly just smiles and says “Go for it."
Tami D. “Au Naturelle”, now an Alum ’09, is officially graduating with this great grad shot. Tami was one of our first hairstylists who actually chose to go gray. She received great support from her fellow stylists and clients, too, as she was going through the process. Meanwhile, back in Saskatchewan, Tami keeps busy at a thousand things. She’s a “storm chaser” in Canada’s “Tornado Alley,” and has captured funnel clouds and a land spout tornado. She’s also an amateur photographer, and loves taking lightning photos, as well as racing shots at the International Raceway. She says her life, with 3 boys and a hubby, is all about fresh air and fun. In the winter, she crochets afghans, paints with watercolors and acrylics, and takes care of their 3 Pomeranians. Since her father died last winter, Tami is aware that every day is a precious gift, and celebrates every sunrise and sunset. And did we mention – she love, love, loves her hair!
Ann, affectionately known as Annyo63, let her long, mid-back curly locks turn silver. It didn’t happen overnight (she cropped to a short shag to do it), but she says, after several attempts to grow out her gray over a 10-year period, she’s done it once and for all! After meeting the GGLG community, and receiving the constant support and reassurance that is so lacking in the “real world,” Anny turned into a beautiful Silver Sister. In her “spare time,” she’s a licensed RN, has been enrolled in the Fine Arts program at a local college, and plans to obtain her Masters degree. She is also a pianist, a gardener, and wife of 15 years to a man who loves her unconditionally, whatever color she plans to wear on her head! But Anny says her “best job” is being a mother to 3 beautiful sons. She loves taking them to rock concerts and day trips to the ocean and Cape Cod.
Sharon H., “Hallrunner,” has transitioned a head of curly locks into a gorgeous silver crown! She now plans to let it grow, but has received so many compliments along the way. Luckily for Sharon, her family, friends and “complete strangers” have been very encouraging. With a husband as a “best friend,” they have 6 children, 7 grandchildren, and the baby of the family is about to graduate with a nursing degree. Sharon and her DH like to run, bike, and swim. They have run 13 marathons and a few half-marathons together, as well as shorter-distance races, and Sharon’s done one trialthalon. She’s an educator, and has taught in elementary school, has been an elementary administrator, curriculum specialist in high-poverty schools, and next year will be a high school assistant principal.
Annie Shore, “annies,” borrowed her original color from the red wine of Northern California, and had been dyeing her hair for over half her life. She finally made the decision to go natural after a good friend got sick from a PPD allergy. Annie deferred her dream of acting, heeding the warnings to have “something to fall back on.” So she became a psychotherapist (after a lot of twists and turns along the way.) Now Annie is back to acting, “for fun,” and she still loves it. Currently, she is writing a solo autobiographical show, mostly about her relationship foibles. Annie also enjoys hiking in nature, knitting socks, and dancing. She just turned 50, and feels the time to be natural is perfect. Annie’s going to “wear this hair with pride because I earned every streak of white!”
Beth C., our “Shine On,” has graduated with flying colors! Switching from very dark to a very pretty silver, she says she feels like a whole new person! She chose to go natural because she was weary of an itchy scalp and the uneven results of coloring. But, knowing she was facing a move, Beth wanted to do it amongst friends. Little did she know, she would find a whole new group of friends on GGLG! Beth has been a counselor to children her whole career, and was pleased with their reactions during the “trickier periods” of transitioning. And she had the full support of her husband. Wishing you the best on your move, Beth!
Ruth E., “Underneath it All,” began her graying journey at the age of 40 by wondering if she could still play in a rock band and be perceived as cool. But she felt it was time to confront her fears about aging, and look to other role models. Women who were hip, creative, and beautiful, even with gray hair. Everything must have worked out. Because Ruth is still in that band, writing songs, singing, playing drums, guitar, banjo and piano. She’s also a writer, with published articles, and fantasizes about doing a funny, yet poignant, stand-up comedy routine. What a Renaissance woman! Ruth works from home for a music magazine, holds down another part time job in a kitchen, and lives out in the country, in a “big farmhouse” with her partner, Joe. They both love animals and have two dogs, 2 cats, and are currently fostering a mama cat and her litter of kittens.
Ruth S., our wise Ravenjourney, spent almost a year transitioning in a year full of personal transitions. She’s been busy having fun with her 5 year-old son, and two grandchildren, but is ready to leave the rural life in Taos, and will be returning to work. Ruth also plans to pursue a counseling degree with licensure, and says it’s what she seems to do all the time, anyway. As a great “counselor” to so many Newbies, she’s a natural! Ruth enjoys working with textiles, weaving, knitting, crochet and sewing, and says “it will always be part of me.” As she approaches her 50th birthday in August, Ruth looks forward to all of the new things to come.
Beth Aronson rejoins the Newbie grads after going through transitioning -- twice! First, she had to cope with the tricky tri-color grow-out of blonde, brown and silver as she transitioned. So she chopped. Not feeling comfortable with short hair, she began to let it grow in, and to listen to others. A friend and colorist convinced her to add highlights, just to even out the tone. It wasn't too long before Beth began missing her natural highlights, the silver ones! As her hair grew, she became more comfortable with it. She was doing finger comb styles, and just letting her curly locks shine, feeling younger than ever. Then she chopped again. This time, for all the right reasons. She's been working out, wants a low-maintenance cut, and says it's all part of her new lifestyle. Not her 'rootstyle." And she's determined never to color again. Beth works in Information Technology, went back for her Master’s in Information Resources and Library Science and is now a digital librarian.
Jude Cluff-Graham, our “sunnyliljude,” didn’t send in a grad shot right away. But now she’s here, and that’s what counts. Jude found GGLG and said “something just clicked inside of me.” She knew she was ready to do it. After being told she was probably 75%-90% gray, her hairstylist drew the line at “letting” her go all the way. Case closed. So Jude sent her the link to the site, and carried the book with her right into the salon! The hairdresser changed her tune. Jude was a little afraid of the “uglies” but it just didn't happen. She started with highlights, and never looked back. “I always thought that gray equals old,” Jude said, “but I don’t feel that way anymore. I feel confident.” And that’s the way it should be!
Jamie, known to all as “Silver Mama,” started her graying journey at the age of 32. Now she's just turned 33, and she sped right through transitioning. Jamie really is a silver mama, homeschooling two boys, two girls, and wants a bigger class! She looks forward to having more children. Did we mention – Jamie says she’s head over heels in love with her husband? In her spare time (is there any?) Jamie enjoys reading, crocheting, gardening, and “most of all” baking. She plans to take up quilting soon, too. A real preemie, Jamie has been graying since the age of 16, and finally decided to call it quits because she hated the upkeep and “root paranoia.” Not to mention the itchy scalp. Now that she’s dye-free, Jamie says “I feel like myself for the first time in years. I have more confidence than I have had since high school. And I love the color of my hair. I can’t wait to see what it looks like long.” Bet it will be beautiful. Keep us updated, Jamie.
Carolyn C., at 68, proves again that going gray means going younger. What a great light look around her face, as opposed to the red/gold “bits” that she couldn’t wait to snip off. And snip she did, all the way through transitioning! Widowed in her early 50’s, Carolyn had already gone gray, and was beginning to feel “invisible.” Now remarried to a husband several years younger, Carolyn figured it was a good time to let her silvers shine again, with the full support of her DH. Since she wears her hair short, it took only 6 months to go from dyed to gleaming silver. In a very “active” retirement, Carolyn and her DH share four grown children and “assorted” grandchildren ranging in age from 6 months to 23 years. They love their cabin in Colorado where they both do watercolors (he’s an accomplished watercolor artist, Carolyn is branching out to traditional and Chinese watercolor paintings) and her love of photography. Family, their dog, and travel complete the happy picture. Carolyn says she likes knowing that, no matter where she is, she never has to worry about roots again!
Nadine D. joined Newbie Class ’09 First Semester with a goal to being a great gray by her 50th Birthday in February ’10. And she made it! Although she believes she is still transitioning (aren’t we all?), Nadine’s silver locks are stunning. Her 18 year-old daughter and teenage twin daughters have finally come around, although they were “horrified” at first, and Nadine is happy that she’s been told more than once that she actually looks younger with her silver hair. “My hair is healthy, soft, and uniquely mine, and I LOVE it,” she says. Nadine has been a great supporter of GGLG, passing out cards every chance she gets, and she has thoroughly enjoyed being part of the Silver Sisterhood for this “incredible journey.” Now, she’s finding new groups to join, and new things to do with her time. In December, she joined a social network called Meetup, and has already joined walking, running/hiking, knitting, kettlebells, “staycation,” music/theatre, book, and women’s social groups. This gives her the opportunity to explore old interests and find new ones, too. We’re just glad she joined GGLG first!
Erin Fein, 34, joined GGLG as a Newbie ’09 First Semester gal, and promptly got her hair cut really short. It only took her about 9 months to transition, but it’s taking her a while to grow her hair in, and she’s still growing! Erin says she didn't get a lot of gray, but she’s very happy with what she does have. "This is what I REALLY look like, and it feels good," she says. Practically a bride, Erin and her husband Michael have been married for five years. Busy raising her two young children (James, 3, and daughter Kelly, 1), Erin began to realize that she was her daughter’s biggest role model. “It hit me like a ton of bricks.” That’s when the fact that she was covering up her natural beauty began to bother her. Erin decided to teach her daughter, by example, to love herself just as she is. What a great idea! As Erin puts it, "I want my daughter to know that I am comfortable in my own skin, that there is nothing about the way I look that needs to be hidden, that I am confident and happy to be me, naturally."
Janice Deardorff, 51, known as Heart to Heart, is a Summer Semester grad. It took just 5 months and a pixie, until she emerged “sassy and silver.” During Janice’s time in “Newbie School,” she wrote a wonderful musical tribute to her friend, and that’s a big part of her life. She loves singing, writing music, teaching and leading worship. Married for 26 years to husband Kevin, they have two beautiful daughters; Michelle, 22 and Sarah, 19. They homeschooled both girls and are “almost” empty nesters. The girls still live at home, but are gone “a lot.” And so are Janice and Kevin! She says her husband “whisks me away often on trips and vacations.”
Katie V. is a Summer Semester ’09 graduate, and seemed to speed right through in a matter of months. What helped was getting her hair cut right away, no nonsense. Her last cut was in July, still super short, with only a tinge of color on the ends. She’s let it grow since, likes the softer effect, and is getting lots of compliments. She’s also shed 10 pounds, and is hoping to lose another 30 as her hair continues to grow. Katie’s a very busy soccer Mom, managing her eldest daughter’s rep/travel team. She also works full time at a maximum security male prison! Married to her DH for 17 years, they have two teenaged daughters, are active in charity work and enjoy traveling – especially to warmer climes, as they live in Ontario. Katie is helping to set up a support group for newly diagnosed parents of children affected with retinitis pigmentosa, a disease her youngest daughter has. She hopes to launch this Canada-wide. In her spare time, she loves to garden, golf, and be surrounded by friends and family. As a thyroid cancer survivor, Katie feels “life is meant to be enjoyed.”
Maria P., known to all as Butterfly Dream, graduates just 9 months after her last coloring, and she loves being dye-free! Her teenage daughter cheered her on the whole time, telling her that her natural color was “cool.” Maria feels sure she never would have made it without the support of GGLG as well. She has another graduation in her future, an executive MBA program in December. After that, she’ll explore where life will take her next. So far, she’s been a Japanese and Mandarin Chinese translator, a technical / marketing writer for semiconductor chips, and a product R&D strategist for clean tech and Smart Grids (intelligent electric grids). Whew! And in her "spare time," Maria’s been in a series of bluegrass and rock bands; loves singing and playing banjo, keyboards, and percussion, is planning to start the blues harmonica next year, and is also studying improv acting with plans to use these techniques to train leaders, especially girls and women. Does this girl never stop? No. She sees traveling the world, roaming the funky Schwabing district of Munich, riding the Silk Road on a dirt bike, and climbing the peaks of Kilimanjaro in her future, “if my ship comes in.” If it doesn’t, Maria is off to join the Peace Corps.
Marisa D. cut her hair short when she began transitioning, not particularly by choice but because her “dull” dyed hair was so damaged, it was breaking off. And then she patiently went through the process for a year. Now a graduate of Newbie Class ’08 Second Semester, Marisa couldn’t be happier! She loves the softness, loves the color, loves the fact that she’s officially dye-free. And she also loves the compliments. Her mother says it’s beautiful, her son thinks it's cool, others have told her it looks like she spends hundreds to frost it. Even her husband notices she never got so many compliments on her hair before. “Now can you grow it,” he says. That’s the plan. Marisa runs a seamstress business in-between getting her two high school-aged sons to NJROTC, Spanish club, Boy Scouts, Lacross and various other activities. Married for 22 years to her truelove, she enjoys gardening, camping, doing anything outdoors, and being a “church lady.” She says she loves to go because it’s one of her favorite places to absorb some peace. Marisa loves pretty things and feeling feminine, and found that as her dye grew out, she felt much more girly. She feels blessed to have her silver cyber sisters, and thanks us all for helping her get through transitioning with her “dignity intact!” Good job, Marisa!
Marisa updated with her new long hair look, after being told she looked “exotic.” I’ll say!
Laura Hicklin, our “Runnergal,” began her transitioning journey at the age of 40. Now 41, she says she’s a bit embarrassed to be the last graduate of Newbie First Semester ’08. But her only true regret is that she ever started coloring in the first place! Laura was determined to keep some length (and keep her husband happy!), and now her dream is to have “beautiful, stylish, long silver hair” like the picture of the model who first inspired her. Happily married for 17 years, with two “awesome” teenage sons, Laura is indeed a runner. But she doesn’t do it for fun. She does it for medals. It’s all about the bling, she says. Laura runs in several half-marathons every year and is signed up for her first full marathon this February. She gets a medal in GGLG’s book for a beautiful transition!
Annette Wright graduates from the Class of ’08, saying her hair was the “slowest” growing of all. She feels letting her hair go natural is a big part of a continuing transformation. To wit, in three months she’s lost 25 pounds (with plans to lose another 25), is working out regularly at the gym, eating “super well,” getting massages, and taking better care of herself. One thing’s for sure – she definitely has a whole new glow! Annette says she’s heard that women come into their own in their 40’s, and “I finally feel it’s starting for me, like it’s finally my turn.” At 46, Annette is a stay at home mom, with two daughters in college and a son still in high school. But she doesn’t stay home for long! She and her partner are into Country Two-Step Dancing, and are considering competing. She’s also into garment sewing, with a great group of friends that she gets together with for chat and fitting sessions, after meeting at an online sewing forum. Annette’s goals are to be healthy enough to enjoy the life she has and to keep on dancing!
Eva M, our Silvercurl, is a Class of ‘09 grad, with a little help from her trusty Flowbee, at about the 4-month point. That’s after she got a nice blond-ish bob, but the “unearthly orange” was still driving her crazy. So she took matters into her own hands. After cutting her hair to pixie length, she felt truly liberated and never looked back. Her two college-age children and husband have been very supportive throughout the whole transitioning process, approving of both cut and color. Absence of color! When she’s not turning into her own stylist, Eva’s career is in botanical art, combining her two favorite passions: gardening and photography. She loves exploring the Chesapeake Bay by boat, and at 51, is very happy with where her life is going. As she says “Going silver is just a little icing on the cake!”
Ruth M’Gonigle, aka Ruthmgon, organizer of super Colorado events, has put off graduating until she reached just the right stage of “silverdom.” She figures it took her from May to December ’08 to fully transition (the last three months of that aided and abetted with a short crop.) And now she’s getting the “if mine grew in like yours” compliments she so rightly deserves. Ruth has loved having the chance to actually meet her fellow CO Silver Sisters, and feels this has been a great benefit of GGLG. When she isn’t planning mini meets, she’s busy working as a graphic designer for a college in Denver. Her previous careers included working with plants in nurseries and for the Forest Service, and she still loves everything about native plants and traveling around the west: roadtrips, camping, hiking. Then the artist takes over, and she also loves going to museums and art galleries, creating art and working on projects. Although Ruth’s not sure “what I want to be when I grow up,” she always sees change as an opportunity. Ruth is together with her long time love, Dale, whom she dated in high school and reconnected with 16 years later!
Ruth sent in this glam update with longer hair and shiny soft waves. Now she promises to turn her attention to more Colorado Silver Sisters Meets!
Staci C., 39, known to one and all as “Busterstaci,” went from dramatic redhead to striking silver in just six months! Her tricks? Going blonde, getting highlights, and a quick pixie cut. And just look at her now! Staci says belonging to GGLG has done an amazing thing for her – it helped set her free! During transitioning, Staci was always in the spotlight as Associate Conductor for the Melbourne Municipal Band and the Assistant Conductor for the Space Coast Flute orchestra, performing regularly with both, as well. She also teaches flute privately and plays the flute with several organizations: the Space Coast Flute Orchestra, Central Florida Chamber Winds and the Space Coast Symphony Orchestra. As she says, her “life is consumed with music.” Her husband David, naturally, is a musician (a Systems Analyst by day, a trumpet player in a swing band at night), and her daughter Emma, age 10, is learning mandolin, while son Ben, 8, is working on the guitar. Staci does all the “normal” Mom things, too, taking her kids to Scouts, Taekwondo classes, basketball games, and “whatever else we manage to squeeze into our schedule.”
Everything was going along fine until Staci was mistaken for a friend’s mother. Bad enough her friend was “significantly older.” She decided a new, funky re-vamp was in order! The purple streak came just in time for her new position as Principal Conductor of the Melbourne Municipal Band.
Sonja went from “mousy dark blonde” (that she hadn’t seen since the age of 16) to a wonderful shade of silvery white. But her transitioning goes deeper than that. She’s working on simplifying her life, keeping it real, and focusing on what is truly important (health and family). Bonus, she’s lost 10 pounds this last year through running and trying to eat right, gets more compliments on her hair than ever before, and has never felt younger or more beautiful! Sonja’s taking a break from worrying about acting roles, too, and is working part time as a “standardized patient.” That’s role-playing for medical students. She’s given a set of symptoms and history, and takes it from there. Interesting work. But it’s been an interesting few years for Sonja. She became a mother again at 40, and a grandmother at 47! (Her oldest is 24 and her youngest is 8.) Sonja loves watching her granddaughter, and taking her 8-year old daughter to plays. Says Sonja, “She is the joy of my life.”
Patty gives a big thumbs up to her new silver look! And it didn’t take too long at all. Her transition started in February, and by early May, she was done! Patty says she couldn’t have done it without the strength and support of all the women here at GGLG, sending a huge thank-you to all. Patty’s married to her high school sweetheart (first attracted to her long black hair and long legs!), who now he says he loves the silver. With a B.S. in Nursing and a teacher certification in Biology, Patty’s passion is all forms of nature. She currently volunteers at the zoo, educating the public on conservation and wildlife appreciation. She also volunteers time to WildEarth Guardians, an organization that encourages people to co-exist with wildlife. Naturally, you would expect Patty to have a “house full of animals” and two wonderful children. She’s recently moved to Colorado, where she will seek teacher certification as well, instilling new generations with her love of nature and science. Best quote: “As I was driving to a haircolor appointment one morning, trying to decide to go natural or not, I saw a license plate that said JustDoIt! That’s the best advice I can give to anyone.”
Update: Patty says "Cheers!" as she celebrates her growing-in locks. And don't they look fab? She's troubled by yellowing, and thinks about going back to dye, but would rather find a solution!
Dawn W. has been through quite a few changes since she joined us. Long hair, a bit shorter, a pixie, and finally, a very graceful transition. And now look how she glows! She’s been busy watching GGLG, but too busy to post for awhile. While she’s here “in spirit,” she works full time, takes care of her disabled husband and soulmate, and enjoys her flower garden, her bulldog Dodgie, and second-hand stores, her “therapy and obsession.” At 47, Dawn is helping to spread the word that silver isn’t so scary, after all. A 20-something co-worker calls Dawn her “little flower child,” and told her she better never color again! And her husband, who wasn’t happy at all about her decision now thinks she looks hot! Proving, once again, that husbands have to see it to believe it!
Who knew? Hiding beneath Ana Caroline Behm's dark, dark hair was a glorious crop of white! She made the decision to go natural at the age of 44, following the encouragement of two young girls, who told her she could always "go back" to the dye. Seemed sensible, as Ana had been coloring every two weeks! At first, she did it out of curiosity. But almost overnight, she had quite a dramatic two-tone effect, which she didn't mind at all. Ana just "laughed at every stage, with every cut, with every new product I bought. I truly enjoyed the whole process because of this site and the people who are so friendly and encouraging." Posting as Anab, she came to the US from Venezuela at the age of 17 to go to school. She fell in love, and stayed. When her two daughters went off to college, Ana returned, too, getting her Master's in Hispanic Literature, which she completed last year. Now she teaches Spanish at the University level. Ana also quilts, loves to garden, and enjoys reading books authored by women. This summer, Ana is kissing the cold Colorado winters goodbye, and moving to Florida to be closer to her aging parents. We're sure the Colorado Silver Sisters will miss you, Ana!
Helen Gibbons, posting as This Year, finally found the joy she wanted to capture in her graduation picture on her recent trip to New Mexico. Although she says she's not "glammed up," she radiates happiness. You'll remember Helen as the long, long ponytail gal, who kept her length so she could donate to Locks of Love. Then she got a great bob, and it was really at this point that her transition looked complete. Married with three kids, Helen's a true "hockey mom," driving her goalie daughter to rinks from September to April. Her oldest son is a teacher, her middle son is in college, and her daughter will be a high school freshman in September. Helen is a clinical pharmacist for a hospital system that provides care to underserved, underinsured people. A Bostonian for the past 24 years, (via Wisconsin and Long Island), Helen likes to travel, take classes, play in her little city garden, read, and "attempt" to exercise. All towards a goal of living to be a healthy 100 year-old! Helen says the whole "gray thing" taught her to have patience she never believed she had. Well, we had patience, too, Helen. Waiting for your shot! Helen just send in this glam grad update, and she's lookin' grayt!
Sandy began her transitioning at the age of 47, not quite realizing just how much silver she had "up there." At 5'10” tall, she didn't have too many people who could tell her. (Except her 14 yer-old son!) Sandy was just tired of the whole ritual – highlights, lowlights, more highlights. After letting it grow in for awhile, and eventually doing the chop, she was free at last, with just a bit of color on the ends. Sandy is married, with two wonderful boys, 14 and 12. She's been an environmental engineer for over 20 years, making sure that her company knows and follows EPA regulations. Always athletic, Sandy was on the crew team at the University of Wisconsin, biked across the state in Ride the Rockies a couple of years ago, and even took a bicycling trip to Romagna, Italy. This year, she wants to Ride Across Wisconsin with her 14 year-old. She also likes to read, is an accomplished knitter, and makes beautiful beaded jewelry. This summer will find Sandy at their new house on a lake, where they hope to sail and fish. Best quote: "I would rather spend time doing outdoor activities than dying my hair or fussing with it."
Sandy loves the natural highlights her hair has now. She’s getting lots of compliments and may even let it grow longer.
Dena, known to all as GraytNW, seemed to speed right through transitioning, going spiky, modern, and fun. The real timeline begins in October, 2008 when she added her last highlights to help with transitioning. So it all adds up to five months and out! A former long hair gal (waist-length!), Dena lost 75% of her hair to chemo in 2004. But it's back and better than ever! Dena works in Residential Property Management where she loves meeting a variety of people from all over the world. And naturally, in the glory of the Pacific NW, she loves being outdoors, her 2 Basenji's, and 2 grandchildren (not necessarily in that order!) Free time finds Dena reading, shopping, or holding monthly restaurant meetings for Sister Breast Cancer Survivors, focusing on fun and lots of laughter!
Lois, or as all know her, Lulubell, has gone through many stages to finally get her GGLG degree. First, wondering if she would miss the "old me," to glowing orange tips, to "wings and Elvis!" Although she said her first cut would be her last, it wasn't. She went for pixie 1, then pixie 2, a short-short chop she didn't feel comfortable with. But through it all, she held onto her determination, and the support of all her silver sisters here. She loves logging in, watching the transformations, and laughing out loud at some of the stories that are shared. Lulu and her husband travel to Florida each winter, and are retired from work, "but not from life!" They enjoy their wonderful friends, both in Florida and Canada, and their grandchildren are a huge part of their lives. Lulu's transitioning took a mere six months, but it's not over yet. She intends to let her hair grow and grow, back to the curlilocks she started out with. Lulu says, "Being a part of the GGLG Sisterhood has been one of the most memorable times in my life."
Our Scottish lass Helen, Silverlake, shows how a natural blonde can transition beautifully in a little less than a year. She started in April, 2008, adding highlights in June to breakup the root line. On March 1, 2009, she had the last of the dyed ends cut off! Now she's happy to be 100% natural, is thrilled that it's so much shinier than ever before, and has received lots of compliments! Helen says the advice and support she got at GGLG made the whole thing a wonderful experience. Professionally, Helen's a scientist, doing editing and project management for a medical journal. In her spare time, she loves her garden, keeps 4 egg-giving hens as pets, takes a weekly class in textile art and embroidery, and is just learning to play the harp. Her husband is a musician, and they have three grown sons: one musician, one sportsman, and one IT specialist. She confesses to loving science fiction because it gives her some street cred with her boys! The Mediterranean is Helen's favorite place to travel, but on the UK homefront, she loves having coffee with friends, socializing, book club, Tai Chi, and theatre. Busy gal!
Our sassy SSaS (Sophisticated, Sexy and Silver), preemie Karen M. began coloring her hair at the age of 16, when a chunky white skunk stripe appeared. By the age of 41, she was ready to say good-bye to all that. Originally worried that her super-curly hair would end up looking grandma-gray, Karen happily discovered the straight-iron, and knew she could make the move to natural, cutting her hair as close to a pixie as she could go. A Florida native, Karen moved to Virginia 15 years ago to be near her (now) husband, and worked as a nurse in CVICU, PCU, ER, and ambulance squad. She's back in Florida now, raising 4 children, all adopted internationally, with her husband and "best friend" of 10 years. She's homeschooling, too, and occasionally misses those "kid-less" moments she used to have. In fact, one of the things she loves most about GGLG is adult conversation!
Louann, the gal who keeps us all laughing, is now receiving her degree in great graydom! This LA native, who was at first afraid silver would make her "stick out like a sore thumb in Tinseltown," transitioned almost effortlessly after deciding that color + highlights were no longer "her." Today, she is a happy camper non-colorer, and says this transition has been a total blast, from the first picture sent in on August 13th to now. And in these short 6 months, she can't believe the amount of personal growth she has experienced, as well. Louann is a "mom, wife, and friend," and in her professional life has gone from working with the sick elderly to bandaging scraped knees for her three "quasi-adult" kids. She's been married to the love of her life for almost 32 years, and wants to thank the Academy, and the "gang ALL over the world for coming on this journey with me!"
Update: Who's hiding behind the Foster Grants? (OK, the Maui Jim's.) Louann's more silvery and glam than ever. She absolutely loves all the shades of gray, and says she hasn't had one nano-second of wobbling. Why should she? This hair color is gorgeous.
Suzanne, our "grayincali" decided her 40th year was time for a change, after battling chocolate brown dye that grew more resistant to color. She found us, and "there was no turning back." Now that her silver is shining through, she loves it, and even more, loves the double-takes she gets. A young, fashionable woman with gray hair? Imagine that! Suzanne worked in the entertainment industry in Hollywood, but became a stay at home mom when their first child arrived, and has been for almost 8 years. She thoroughly enjoys her new life, is active in school activities, their local yacht club, has discovered her "crafty" side, and is the #1 groupie to her husband's band. Suzanne's before pic was snapped June 1, 2008, just after having highlights put in. She hadn't a clue it would be her last appointment! Now that she's said "Good-bye Orange," she's waiting for long, lustrous silver!
Suzanne is both glowing (and growing!) in this fab April update.
Petra, aka "catweezie," is our gal from Holland who went against the tide of color, and came out a winner! The only color left on her ends is her true color, and the rest of her silver is shining brightly! Petra's been married for 28 years to the "love of my life," has two sons, 14 and 16, and lives near the IJsselmeer lake, where she loves to run. After 30 years of dyeing, she's extremely happy being natural (especially after a severe PPD reaction), and loves to be free of the "itchies." Petra works with the elderly, taking care of those suffering from Alzheimer's and other mental illnesses. In her spare time, she likes to shop and have coffee with friends, and loves to read. In this new update shot, Petra shows us her hair is really growing, front and back!
Dara, our "greeneyes," is a Newbie Grad! One year to the day since she started transitioning, all the old color finally hit the floor. Dara never really wanted to cut her hair short, but did want to lose the reddish-brown dye. After going with lowlights to start the transitioning, she went cold turkey all the way to gorgeous! Like many of you, Dara had her doubts, did not get all the "silver" she thought she would have, and battled her stylist. But in the end, she got what she wanted, her stylist came around, and she has no plans to ever color again. As Dara and her husband are approaching the "empty nest," she's trying to decide what she "wants to be when I grow up." Her life is full of change and new beginnings, and she is pursuing her passion for writing by taking some courses. Dara also enjoys hiking, playing piano, gardening, quilting, crocheting and sewing vintage-inspired aprons.
Dara just updated with this glam shot, proving that going gray means going gorgeous!
Rosa is now an official Newbies Grad! She joined us on July 16th, and her husband promptly gave her her first "buzz" cut. In no time at all, her pretty shade of silver was showing, and she kept her hair short and sassy from that point on. Rosa says she's "totally satisfied with my hair and will never color again. I am me and proud to be 100% all me." The mother of three, and grandmother of 3, Rosa is usually surrounded by children. But she's used to that, being one of six kids. She does in-home daycare for 5 children, ages 3 months to 5 years. And she has 3 black labs to add to the mayhem – or as Rosa says, she loves being in the "thick of things." She loves sports, her Colts, and the races at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway. And she hunts, fishes, and sews. Whew!
Karen F, known to all as SBKaren, began her transition in October '07. She approached transitioning by going to the pros, and when highlighting was recommended, she went for it. For the first and last time. This was just the beginning of the journey for Karen, one that led her to taking control of her health, and losing 25 pounds in the course of 6 months! After finally cutting all the old color off and having layers put in, Karen has a more modern look, and at the age of 56, embraces the idea of "being your authentic self." A part-time Media Center teacher and tech advisor at a local elementary school, Karen says over 700 students and 50 staff members have gone through the transition with her! And all of us, of course. In her free time, you can find her biking, camping, swimming, and crocheting.
Deb Burcin stopped coloring her hair in March, 2008, after asking her colorist for years about going gray. He always told her she "wasn't ready," but she was! Now she couldn't be happier with her stunning steel color, and the way her hair feels softer and thicker. She's even getting a little curl in it! Originally from Central Kansas, Deb and her family moved to Lancaster County, PA in '85. She's been married for almost 34 years to her husband, Mike, and they have two grown children and a daughter-in-law. She says being an "empty nester" has been quite an adjustment, but now retired from work in the medical field, she's found fun in gardening, photography, knitting, quilting and embroidery. Volunteering with an after-school program, Deb puts her photography and video skills to work!
Christie S., 32, is our first Aussie grad! She's the mother of three children, ages 4, 3, and 2. And if that's not enough to keep her busy, Christie and her husband grow a lot of their own vegetables, have a couple of hens for eggs, and plan on adding fruit trees and a goat someday. They like to harvest and cook food in season, avoiding additives, and pursuing a natural lifestyle whenever possible. This wasn't the whole reason she chose to go natural with her hair, but after doing chunky highlights, Christie decided to just go gray the natural way. With a little anxiety every time she got a cut, she finally went for a Jamie Lee. And wow! A whole new polished Christie, with eyes that seemed to get bigger as her hair went shorter. Total transitioning time: 6 months.
Debbie O'Keefe, known to one and all as "Debdo," had been coloring her hair for 13 years, when she decided to "let her true colors shine" at the age of 44. And she did it in record speed, after a few quick short chops. On July 15th, she wrote she had gone 11 weeks without coloring, so the whole transition took around 20 weeks in all, with a lot of it spent in silvery territory. She says she's not all white (yet), but her hair has a lot of dimension and interest, and she's received more compliments on it than she has in a long time, including the famous "if mine would come in like yours. . ." Debbie's a legal assistant in a large law firm in Cincinnati, has been married to Kevin for 18 years, and has two teenage daughters, Shannon and Kelly. Her favorite vacations take them skiing out west, but this year, she's taking the girls on a cruise to the Caribbean for Spring Break. Sail on, Silvergirl!
Catherine Thibault, also known as GardenMimine, was our very first "buzzer," chopping off her long raven black locks practically the minute she decided to go gray. This in spite of a bit of bf drama. He wasn't as much against the gray as he was the haircut. Now he thinks she's the "cutest elfish-looking girl ever!" After donating her hair to Locks of Love, Cat sat back and got all kinds of compliments on her new, modern look. Most importantly, Catherine loves the gray and says she'll never go back because it makes her feel free and complete. Now, at 35, and just recently graduated with a masters in marketing, Catherine is self-employed in marketing research, the mother of two teenage daughters, a health food vegetarian nut, and a true "cat" lover (has 7 of them!). Great update: Proof that a Buzz does grow in! Catherine said she felt impish and strong with her buzz cut (see Alums ’08), but now feels sexier. And what a great, silvery shade!
Dede Runnels, also known as wtxgray, completed her transition in about 9 months. With the full support of her hubby (also a great gray) and "wishy-washy" support from her kids, Dede plowed ahead. Now all she wants is for it to grow long enough to flow and shine from underneath her motorcycle helmet! Dede, soon to be 42, says she's a "hippie-wanna-be DELUXE!" An earth-mother, nature-lover, and bad biker chick all rolled into one. She rides 4-5 days a week, 8 months of the year. And when she's not riding, she's working with 5 male scientists who all try to take credit for the "big ole' bike sitting in front of the office." Dede says she's ready to start a new chapter in her wonderful life. One that will include travel, adventure, and new life –an almost-due first grandchild -- and she looks forward to every bit of it.
Dede sent in this glam update, and that ain't no grandma!
Dede’s definitely going glam (and long!) in this update. But she says she's heading to Dallas for a trim in November.
Jennifer Black, 48, is our first “Newbie” graduate! We've watched her go through curly mid-length brown hair to supershort, to this chic, modern look. She started coloring her hair at the age of 30, and 18 years later got tired of the skunk stripe that "appeared after 3 weeks without an appointment." As a doctor, Jennifer's conscious of appointments, as well as the reactions of her patients "who don't like me to look too young." Jennifer's the mother of two, is a runner, a cyclist, and teaches an occasional aerobics class, so she loves the short do – and the color. Still thinking about steely curls. . . someday. You can see, it's starting to get a little longer already!
Lisa Baker, our original "Newbie2," transitioned to a softly natural look after a year of waiting, watching, and cutting. Although her hair didn't go as gray as she thought it would, Lisa's committed to being dye-free. At 42, she's not only learned the art of patience, she's discovered how liberating being a natural beauty can be! Little known Lisa facts: she loves to have friends over and play Rock Band, letting them play the guitar and drums as she sings "sometimes badly," into the microphone. Lisa recently earned her Bachelor's degree, starting when her son was three, and finishing when he was 15! Today, she works as a program assistant for a university medical department, and lives blissfully with her fiancé, son, "stepson," and three pets.
Ellenina Gaston, an accomplished artist who works in fiber, mixed media and acrylics, loves to do something creative on a daily basis. And this summer, she went creative with her hair, going natural in just 67 days. Blaming it on impatience, she transitioned from deep auburn to pure platinum, going "biker chick," then buzzing. Now Ellenina's just going to relax and let it grow again. Bonus: both her husband and hairstylist approve! Congrats, Karate Mom, on being a Newbie grad! Ellenina is now 9 months post-buzz, and her hair is coming in naturally. Without any special cuts, this soft, feminine look is exactly the way the buzz is growing out. Ellenina celebrates two years in August since she buzz cut. And look how glamourous silver hair can be!
Carole D. Denney is a Newbie grad who had "been there, done white hair" before. Silver since the age of 37, Carole had a fabulous icy white going on by the time she was 53. And that's when she got lowlights put in on a "whim." Bad move. Now she's worked her way back to glistening white, and vows she's never going to color again. Update shot! Two great grays here, Carole and her friend Chloe.
Diana! I LOVE this page! It will be an on-going inspiration for all of us, and an answer to those wondering how it may change them if they go gray. (The answer is “better than ever!")
You all look beautiful in your shades of gray! It’s amazing how your natural colors soften and give a glow you didn’t have with the dye.
Posted by on 08/31 at 03:01 PM
Thanks to all of you!!! You all look so beautiful and at peace with your decision and commitment. I am just out of my first haircut and NO color...you all inspire me.
Posted by on 08/31 at 04:01 PM
love this page!! thanks again for all your hard work…
everyone looks so lovely and i too love seeing all the different shades of “gray” out there!!
happy and safe labor day to you all out there!!
louann
Posted by on 08/31 at 04:13 PM
Guess you could all tell, we were having “technical difficulties” with the posting part of this page today. One comment was posted prior to the problem, but it got lost in the fixing. 
It was saved, just couldn’t be posted again. So here it is—from DianeW:
“If I ever feel like I’m wavering, I will return to this page and look at all of you, knowing that if I stick with the plan, I can get there too! Thank you!”
Posted by on 08/31 at 06:41 PM
Hey! We’ve got a Newbie Grad Page!!! WOW...you work FAST, Diana!! You’re all looking great, Ladies! Lisa, thanks to your support and encouragement, I finally got my pictures in! And I can’t believe how WHITE my hair looks! I really thought it read more sterling gray until I saw these pictures!
I’ve loved this process so much more with the support of this site and Diana’s book! I can officially say now that I’ve GONE GRAY AND I’M LOVING IT!!!
~dede
wtxgray
Posted by on 08/31 at 09:35 PM
Very nice! Especially the striking before and after photos...see how far each of you has come! Congratulations!
Posted by on 09/01 at 01:52 AM
Who would have thought that I could be even MORE inspired to keep up my transition, BUT INDEED I AM!! I love this page, everyone of you look beautiful. I think the smiles, even more than the silver, make you shine. Thanks Diana for your website and thanks to all the lovely ladies who send in transitioning photos, it takes strength to put ourselves out there for all to see! September 8th will be exactly 2 months since my LAST dye-job and I feel even stronger now, especially since viewing all of you on this page. 
Posted by on 09/01 at 02:45 AM
Hey Dede! You made it here! You look fantastic. I bet your hair does look sterling in other light; outdoor light shows the gray on me more, too. In this photo you almost wouldn’t call it gray because it blends so much with the brown hair I have left. Guess we’re both ready to do some growing now! We’ll have to send in updates after a couple of months to see how that looks.
Posted by on 09/01 at 04:31 AM
Thanks to all for the nice words. Funny to be one of the older Newbies now since this all seemed like a crazy, unthinkable move just over a year ago. “Stop colouring my hair?? Do I dare??” What a blast and what freedom!
Posted by on 09/01 at 04:32 AM
All of you ladies look so amazing in your “after” pictures with your lovely hair ranging from lightly frosted to grey, pewter, silver and white! Congratulations to all you BEAUTIFUL women!!! All the best to you!
Posted by on 09/01 at 04:59 AM
Thanks so much, Lisa! You’re right, it really does change colors according to light...and I agree...let’s just watch it grow and keep sending our pics in as we hit length milestones!
I just LOVE scrolling down through all of our pictures and noticing the look of pure contentment on all of our faces! This is so GREAT!! Hang in there all of you shining star newbies...I can’t wait to see each one of you here!
~dede
Posted by on 09/01 at 06:10 AM
Congratulations Dede! You are absolutely beautiful! And, thanks Diana for the new gallery.
Posted by on 09/01 at 11:11 AM
This was a great idea! It is so much fun to see the before and after, and what “afters”. You guys look great..can’t wait to be there.
Posted by on 09/01 at 12:08 PM
Thanks, Carole...right back atcha! I can only hope that my hair will be the same color as YOURS SOMEDAY!!
Rosa-Thanks so much! You’re well on your way! You’ll be in here before you know it!
~dede
Posted by on 09/01 at 12:13 PM
This is AWESOME!!!! I love this page. So inspirational.
Posted by on 09/01 at 01:52 PM
Hi everyone:
How wonderful to find this website;your support means so much to me. After 4 months of growing out my roots, this Friday, I will be getting the last of the old ugly color cut off. Yes, my hair will be short...shorter than I would like, but at least it will be authentic and natural. October 15 is my 60th birthday, and my lovely silver hair will be my birthday present to myself. Without this inspirational website, I don’t think I could have held out as there were times when I felt very discouraged about going gray...not anymore, thanks to you great ladies.
hugs, Maria
Posted by on 09/01 at 03:56 PM
Hi Maria,
Good for you! I have to run back to the Newbies page to see if you’re there...I have lost track now that there are so many. If you’re not, hope you send in a pic…
Posted by on 09/01 at 04:27 PM
Hey everyone!
I like the page, Diana! everyone looks great.
Ruth
Posted by on 09/01 at 04:39 PM
Diana~ Kudos to another job well done in putting this part of the website together. Dara, I loved how you managed to put a “committee” and vote together to do it
Rosa- so, can you bet K_Moms’ record to the gallery page? haha If anyone, I think you have the best chance.
I’ve been away so am catching up on the posts...this is such a community you’ve built, Ms.Jewell...hope you really know how much we all love you for it.... txs, Helen G. (thisyear)
Posted by on 09/01 at 05:57 PM
Yeah, let’s give credit where credit is due—to Dara/Greeneyes, her “committee,” and the strong-arm tactics. 
Nah, it WAS a good idea whose time had come! Lulubell mentioned the power of this group in a recent Newbies post. And it’s so true. When you guys get behind something, you can make things happen.
And speaking of this community, Helen, I put a chat in about it back at the Café. It’s called See You in September, and it expresses how I feel about you all. The feeling is completely mutual!
Posted by on 09/01 at 06:50 PM
You look fabulous Dede! Your silvery locks suit you so well. Still pretty in whatever color hair you had, you really have such a beautiful shade of natural! Enjoy your new look as the photo shows you already are 
Lisa! Wow...that didn’t take so long. I’m so envious. I’m sure I still have at least six months to go til I’m totally dye free. What’s really striking to me is how your face just pops! I’m saying this in a good way. While you were, of course, lovely before, somehow your skin, your eyes...just the whole shabang looks even lovlier. Maybe it’s about how when your hair was darker, that’s what I was drawn to first...but now with this gorgeous natural shade of yours, you can’t help but notice your pretty features. Truly!...and isn’t it interesting how your hair looks different depending on the light. I’ve begun to notice that already with my 3 or so natural inches...such fun...I feel like a kid!...so who said going gray is about getting old!?!?!
Posted by on 09/01 at 07:34 PM
Helen G. - Yeah, it was a really tough job but someone had to do it. hee hee hee…
Diana - You’ve welcomed us into this community and sometimes it’s easy to get a bit carried away. Thanks, as always. The page is even better than I imagined. Anytime you get bored, just let us know and we’ll try to think of something you can do. :o)
Posted by on 09/01 at 07:41 PM
Shara! You’re so kind!! Thank you so much! You’re right, I am enjoying it so much! And hang in there Sister...these next 6 months will fly by!
Helen...love your new bob! You’re almost here too! Thanks for all of your kind words!
~dede
Posted by on 09/01 at 07:42 PM
Awesome page, Diana! Thanks for putting it together. Everyone looks so beautiful! Congrats on graduating Dede!
Debbie
Posted by on 09/02 at 05:03 AM
Thanks, Debbie...can’t wait to see you in here too! Don’t you have a haircut coming up soon? 
~dede
Posted by on 09/02 at 05:29 AM
Yep, going in for what I hope is the final chop this Thursday!
This has been an amazing journey, that’s for sure.
Debbie
Posted by on 09/02 at 05:52 AM
Yeah, Debdo—you were almost there on your last cut. So when are we going to get a “graduation” picture???
And Greeneyes—be careful what you wish for! Instead of thinking of things for me to do. . . I’m thinking of things you guys can do! Oh, yeah. You know, that changing header story on the homepage is such a chore. Sometimes I have zero ideas. Hmmmmmmm. Suggestions welcome. 
Posted by on 09/02 at 05:59 AM
Diana - You make it look so easy. I’m sure I don’t realize how much work this site really is. And who knew you needed more ideas!? Surely we can all put our silver heads together and help out! :o)
Posted by on 09/02 at 06:16 AM
Hi Shara,
Thanks--the before and after really helps me see the improvement, too. I have had my hair that shade since I was about 25, following my blond phase, so I really had a hard time imagining myself with any other colour. I am surprised that it doesn’t wash me out, but the bright lipstick sure helps : - ) You will get there soon and it will be wonderful to see you in the new gallery!
Posted by on 09/02 at 07:41 AM
Helen, it will be close!! My join date was 7-16-08. I go for a haircut on Thursday. Hopefully, all of my brown tips will come off. Would have let my husband do it again but I need some touch ups around the ears and neckline. lol
That would make it around 50 days!! We’ll see what it looks like. I know some people don’t like really short hair but truthfully, I’ve never had so many compliments on my hair! I will probably keep it pretty short from now on. No use in letting it grow cause it’s really fine and straight...so.....I’ll live on the edge
Posted by on 09/02 at 02:11 PM
hi Rosa, glad you understood my typo 
I think you look great with that short cut...not many people can pull it off but I think you are definitely one of them!
all the best- Helen
Posted by on 09/02 at 03:42 PM
Yea Rosa!
It will be fun to see if you get the tips gone with this weeks cut. I am very excited for you.
I am having so much fun with the reactions to my silver, I think I will stay in the short hair club for a while too. I see a bunch of new folks today at a breakfast work event. Still cataloging the commentary for my pals on GGLG.
Ruth
Posted by on 09/03 at 03:43 AM
Ruth, I think it’s great that u just casually walked into work with not only a new “do” but also the new color. I bet that was soooooo much fun 
Posted by on 09/03 at 10:45 AM
Hi Newbie2 (Lisa) Many times, I’ve looked at your pictures and admired your dedication and courage to forge ahead as a single mom. I havn’t sent in any photos yet, but I personally think I look prettier and (ironically) more youthful with my naturally gray hair. Thanks so much for your inspiration and the example of your courage.
All the best, Maria
Posted by on 09/03 at 01:34 PM
Hi Maria, your comment got me all veklempt! Thank-you. Sometimes I do not give myself as much credit as I should for single parenting and working while continuing in school. I bet you do look better au naturelle. Send in those pics!! Lisa
Posted by on 09/03 at 02:19 PM
Rosa and Debdo we are going to see you in here so soon!
I can’t wait! Thanks for all your great support.
Maria, we want to see you too! Send in those pics.
Grads:
Lisa and Dede you both look amazing!
Carole your hair color is truly stunning.
Jennifer I love the contrast in your photos between before and after. I had not seen your before shots, I really prefer the after on you!
Kmom, you have set the bar pretty high for all of us choppers… you were truly on the fast track to graduation, and you look fabulous and ready for some new adventures!
Ruth
Posted by on 09/03 at 03:16 PM
i have found by telling people that i am gorwing it out they really can’t say too much...other than “that’s too bad “ or i bet yours will be really pretty...we shall see...it is funny some reacitons ...went to a bbq on monday and one gal was like mad that i would even think about doing this...as i looked at her and thought wow your hair is really toooooo blonde...but like my wonderful white haired mother said ..."if you have nothing nice to say...say nothing at all..” !! i think they are afraid it might actually look good and then what will they do!!!
the ones that yell the loudest also have the most extreme color either really dark or really light…
anyway enough of my blathering
see ya later “silver sisters”
louann
Posted by on 09/03 at 05:26 PM
Thanks Ruth! I’ve got to tell you that one of my favorite pictures is of you! I love your braids and can’t wait until my hair gets long enough to try it!!! But I’ve never braided my hair before...so you may have to give me lessons!! Your hair is looking absolutely fabulous too! Love the short cut...it looks great on you!
~dede
Posted by on 09/04 at 05:21 AM
Louann, it seems most people have a pretty strong opinion about what we’re doing. It really gets some people riled up! I like comments like: “Oh, you don’t want to do THAT!” to “You won’t like it.” Wow--how do these people think they know us better than we know ourselves??
Posted by on 09/04 at 10:20 AM
Dede,
My boyfriend wants to see braids again, but that is some time away! I never had done them before this summer...I wasn’t very good at doing them either.(You can’t see the back views of my head!) I did learn that you need to be able to part the hair pretty evenly, and those combs with the pointy end....that is what they are for! who knew!
ruth
Posted by on 09/06 at 03:16 AM
I have found a new home. I made the decision to stop dying my hair last October 07. I have certainly been in transition mode all that time. It was very difficult at first, walking by mirrors and seeing that person with the gray (white) hair looking back and thinking - who is that? But I love the freedom of NOT dying. I’ve received many compliments on my color.
I have a huge question. I have very thick hair, and while it’s almost grown out, I am still in transition mode. If I cut it short, the transition would all be gone, but I’m scared! I’ve never had hair shorter than shoulder length my whole adult life, but because of it’s thickness and wiriness I hesitate to wear it all down. I can blow it out, calm it down, but step outside (I live in a beach environment and there is always moisture in the air) and it’s like I never did anything. So I usually have somewhat of a pretty heavy ‘bush’. I generally where it in a pony tail, or clip, or half up/half down. I’m scared if I cut it short, I’ll have a short ‘bush’. My hair stylist, who I really like, encourages me - I’m the one who’s hesitant.
Has anyone else gone from longer to shorter with thick coarse gray/brown hair and seen a difference?
Posted by on 09/06 at 06:08 AM
Hello and welcome SBKaren! You certainly have found a great HOME for support and warmth!! I have natural curly hair but it is not thick or course, but my oldest daughter does. She has had it very short, almost pixie and it works well for her, she has also (and right now) wore it quite long and that also works. She just can’t seem to handle the growing out stages very well. My advice, or should I say my daughter’s advice is to do your homework and find a top-notch hairstylist who specializes in your hair type. It may be a pricey venture, but worth it in the long run if you are happy with the outcome! It sure can’t be much more expensive than hair coloring, highlighting, etc.,etc. Good Luck to you
Posted by on 09/06 at 06:24 AM
I’d love to post a picture of my transition...so I’m looking throughout the site to find out how. Maybe I could get some suggestions?
Posted by on 09/06 at 06:27 AM
Hi again, just scroll to the top of this page and click on THREE REASONS TO SEND US YOUR PICTURE.
Posted by on 09/06 at 06:32 AM
O.K. just one more suggestion SBKaren, Diana’s book would be a great buy for you, I have it and it is my gray bible to say the least! There is a multitude of information on all hair types and what to do about them or with them I should say. You can order the book right from this site in fact. Just go to BOOK BOUTIQUE at the very top of the page and click, once again welcome and good luck.
Posted by on 09/06 at 06:52 AM
i wish i had ordered the book throughthis site...i overpaid on ( i probably can’t say)…
sb karen…
i have always had thick rather coarse hair..i had it long all thru high school...then slowly added layers etc then ended up with the dorothy hammill bob before she had it..ha
i wear it short now and really find it just so easy to wash blow and go!!
welcome to this great site enjoy the weekend!!
Posted by on 09/06 at 07:07 AM
Hi Karen,
I also have very thick full hair. I know what you mean when you say that the minute you walk out you look like you have done nothing to your hair. Mine’s the same whenever I go visit my parents in Venezuela. Here in Colorado, it is so dry, my hair plays nice. So if you cannot move here then getting a short hair style might work. It is easier to manage even in 100% humidity. A little bit of gel is all you will need. Try it. You might like it.
AnaB
Posted by on 09/06 at 07:29 PM
Catherine - love the new look. Any one ever told you you look like Ani DiFranco? M
Posted by on 09/11 at 07:58 PM
MsMika, nobody ever told me that but she is georgeous so compliment taken
I must admit I am the kind of person who shines in person but looks a little odd on pictures, it’s called personality I think
thanks dear, I feel very privileged to be amongst the newbies graduate.
Great bunch of women indeed!
Cat aka GardenMimine
Posted by on 09/12 at 03:51 AM
Congrats on another graduation, Cat. You look ma’aavalous indeed.
Lisa
Posted by on 09/12 at 04:46 AM
Catherine - You already were beautiful, but now even more so - a more natural, stylish beauty. I’ve enjoyed the drama of your transition...in the beginning I wasn’t sure what was going to happen! :o) Thanks for sharing it with us, and congratualations Graduate!
Posted by on 09/12 at 06:03 AM
Congrats Catherine! You look amazing and I love the color!
Posted by on 09/12 at 06:43 AM
I went gray a couple of days ago. Really did. I just buzzed it off--took it down to the 1/8” root. My husbands reaction was priceless. He yelled to our daughters “I told you Mom looks great in short hair” After the hullabaloo died down and all opinions were in, I started looking for a support group on line. When I found this site and took a look at pictures of recent graduates, I knew I made the right decision. All of them are so much more beautiful, soft and radiant with the gray hair. WoW!
Posted by on 09/14 at 07:26 AM
Debbie - Congratulations! You look great!
Posted by on 09/14 at 09:35 AM
Oh My Debbie! You look amazing!
Welcome Schabla!!
Each new graduate, each new person who joins our group helps me know that I’m on the right path. I can’t wait to get there (graduate gallery), but I’m enjoying the whole process of getting there.
Have a great Sunday everyone!!!
Posted by on 09/14 at 09:58 AM
Jennifer - Thanks for the update! I think your hair is getting excited about those curls getting longer! :o)
Schabla - Pictures! We need pictures! :o)
Posted by on 09/14 at 10:49 AM
Fantabulous (is that a word?) Debbie!! I can’t wait for my turn 
Posted by on 09/14 at 01:03 PM
Debbie! Your natural color is stunning! Enjoy! You certainly did do this in record time. I’m envious but I guess I’ve chose to go the slow route...six months now and I’m probably only half way to natural. Looking forward to the day!
Jennifer! I love the curls! Of course, the color as well. You do get me thinking. I think our hair texture is actually similar and it’s tempting to cut shorter after seeing how great you look. Hmmm...decisions, decisions....have a 12 week haircut coming up this week so we’ll see
Posted by on 09/14 at 01:31 PM
Hi Debbie: There’s that post-transition glow! You look fantastic!
Posted by on 09/14 at 02:36 PM
Shara--it took me the full year, too. You’ll get there. Although this 12-week appt may be the perfect time to ramp things up and really go full speed ahead. You have a gorgeous charcoal colour coming in and I for one can’t wait to see it all around your face. It will be so flattering.
Posted by on 09/14 at 02:38 PM
Hi Jennifer,
You’re getting some nice curls now--looks great. I’m going to send in an update in a couple of weeks myself because my hair really does look more gray than it looks here. Lighting makes all the difference.
Posted by on 09/14 at 02:39 PM
Debbie, you look amazing, so soft and beautiful!
Wow, we did it (high five to all graduates)
Looking forward to welcome more!!!!
Catherine
Posted by on 09/14 at 04:47 PM
Wow Debbie - your transition is fabulous! I love your “now” hair better than your before hair!
Posted by on 09/14 at 04:55 PM
Your look is so polished, Debbie, congratulations on getting through the tough times!
Posted by on 09/14 at 05:55 PM
Thanks Lisa for the kind words. I am ramped up for my appt this week. It was supposed to be tommorrow but long story...suffice it to say I had to find a new stylist and after much research, I’m going to try a new person in San Francisco. I hear she’s great with cuts so here I go. It’s either going to be another inch and a half or who knows??? I did see a picture in this week’s Chico’s brochure with one of the models wearing a short sassy cut...she has a similar face structure so I’ll bring the ad and get her feedback. I should have an updated photo coming by next weekend.
Posted by on 09/14 at 10:45 PM
All, thanks for the compliments! Yuck—I hate my “before” picture. My hair was so stressed, fried and lifeless (not to mention the bug eyes, but that’s another story). Love my hair and my color! Hang in there ladies, you’ll be on this page soon . . . it is SO worth it!
Shara, good luck with the cut!
Posted by on 09/15 at 04:22 AM
Congradulations to schabla on her bold new approach to going grey quickly. It took a lot of guts on her part and wasn’t without much consideration. I should know as I’m her identical twin sister and have been sporting white hair for the past eight years. This was one of the best decisions I have ever made and know you are going to have a lot of fun with your new look. Once again, congradulations sister.
Posted by on 09/15 at 11:45 AM
debdo,
I LOVE the sweater! I think it makes your eyes really stand out! How exciting to be a graduate...hope to join you soon.
Ruth
Posted by on 09/15 at 07:07 PM
debdo,
You look wonderful! The color of your hair is striking! I love the transformation!
Posted by on 09/15 at 11:46 PM
Thanks Ruth and Elizabeth! Ruth, you will be here soon. I do love the sweater; bought a long-sleeve polo of the same color and I’m seeing this color everywhere. Can you have too many different items in the same color???
Posted by on 09/16 at 04:31 AM
Nope—purple is a big HUGE color this fall, so go with it. Besides, it looks great with our “new” hair color. Yesterday, I even saw some deep purple nail polish. Hmmmmmm.
Posted by on 09/16 at 04:38 AM
Debbie-Congratulations! You look amazing! I love your color! It’s been so great getting to go along on this ride with you! I think you look much younger now...and let’s hear it again for healthy hair! Well done!
Catherine! I’m so glad you’re here! I love your color, it really fits you perfectly! High class, Lady! Congrats!
~dede
Posted by on 09/16 at 10:26 AM
Hey Debbie, I’m not far from you in Indy. My son lives in Lexington so I go thru Cinci to see him. Maybe we should meet up for a football game.
Posted by on 09/16 at 11:02 AM
Thanks, Dede! Our color is just about the same. Love how it makes us look so young and happy.
Rosa, that would be great. Be sure to let me know if/when you will be passing thru Cinci, although I’m not sure the Bengals are worth watching . . .
Posted by on 09/17 at 04:51 AM
i still say i love this page…
everyone looks sooo great...it is a huge inspiration!!
there are so many “shades of gray” (does anyone remember that monkee song??) and the fun part ofthis whole process is the new colors and accessories...i have gone back to wearing hoopy earrings...just found a great argyle sweater with fun colors running through it...anyway enjoy and celebrate the new “us"…
louann
Posted by on 09/17 at 05:44 AM
Hey Louann,
I so agree. I am having so much fun with clothes and make-up. It’s like a rebirth for me--I haven’t felt so ‘girly’ in a long time. I think I got into a bit of a rut fashion/make-up wise and now I’m really enjoying finding new things that work for me. I bought a new skincare regimen and I am wearing colours that I had abandoned for years in favour or brown and black. It’s too fun!
Posted by on 09/17 at 06:05 AM
Debbie - I love the new picture & the color is fabulous.
Cat - -I think Ani D. is gorgeous as well, so it was a definite compliment. I also suffer from the personality affliction in photos, so I can relate, but I think you look great.
I am really enjoying watching all these graduations, you all really make me hopeful that mine will look as good.
Posted by on 09/17 at 12:26 PM
Debbie, will do, and guess what? The Bengals play the Colts here in Indy on the 7th of December. But we’re pretty beat up right now. Not doing so hot.
Posted by on 09/17 at 04:10 PM
Rosa, here’s hoping that both of our teams start playing better!
Posted by on 09/18 at 05:08 AM
Well, I have an appointment today with my stylist to have a hair cut. I took some before pictures last night. I’ll take some after when I’m home. I’m still not sure if I’m cutting all the ‘extra’ color off. For me, it would mean a lot of layering. The last time I had highlights put in (back in November 07, and that was actually the 1st time I ever had highlights put in) I did it do help with the growing out as I was whitest on top/in front. When I lift up my hair in back, to get the top layer out of the way, there is very little color left on the bottom. When I drop down the top layer, there is still lots of color. We’ll see how brave I am. While some days I think I’m more than ready, other days I not so sure. Believe me, coming here is what has made me even consider cutting it all off at all. When I see the ‘afters’ of all of you, I think yes, yes yes!!! But when I think about me - I’m think - WAIT! I need you all to come with me to the salon!
Posted by on 09/18 at 06:14 AM
Oh - I wanted to add one more thing. When I first began growing my color out I thought I would be white, white, white - as my skunk line sure reflected that. The longer I go without coloring, the more of my dark natural hair color is returning. I thought that was odd. Was anyone else surprised by that? When I pull my hair straight back now, I actually have a brown skunk line going down the middle - who would’ve thought???
Posted by on 09/18 at 06:16 AM
Hi SBKaren,
I am one of a few of us who were surprised at how much pigmented hair we still had. Just like you, I was sure I was 90% white given what peeped out every 3 weeks. Surprise! One of the revelations of transitioning--you’re not as gray as you thought you were.
I was totally against layering my hair, too, because I’ve always worn my hair in a blunt cut with long layers only. But it really did help me to cut off the dye; I just wanted to get to the natural colour faster. There are others, though, that have taken the longer road that requires more patience, but that was the right way for them.
Do what feels right. It does grow back, and faster than you’d think!
Posted by on 09/18 at 06:41 AM
SBKaren, No need to rush into a short cut if you’re not ready for that! Take a page out of Ana’s book and go for a slightly shorter cut than you’re used to and then if you think you can go shorter still, you can go for it! Do what makes you feel comfortable! For me, the longer I thought about going gray and how much I hate my hair, the shorter the cut was going to be; by the time I got to the salon, it was a pixie.
Posted by on 09/18 at 10:35 AM
Good luck with the cut SBKaren!
Posted by on 09/18 at 11:57 AM
OK - I’m back and I love, love, love it! It’s longer than I thought I would be able to have it, with just the slightest of touch of blond on the ends...and only in front. Wow I LOVE the color! It’s all me!!! It makes me think ‘why did I color so many years ago?’ While there is definitely silver/gray in there, not nearly as much as I thought. What was I trying to hide???? As soon a hubby gets home I’ll get some pictures and send my before and after pics.
Posted by on 09/18 at 02:57 PM
That’s WONDERFUL, SBKaren!! Can’t wait to see it!! I know you look GREAT!
~dede
Posted by on 09/18 at 07:50 PM
Vibrant, sophisticated, free-spirited, elegant, glowing… What else can I say? Every one of you looks just absolutely amazing. What a gorgeous bunch of women. Inside and out. This group ROCKS!
Posted by on 09/23 at 06:50 AM
Thanks to all of you for the nice compliments. I don’t think I’m getting emails abut follow up comments, so I’mlate. Anyway-- I do need encouragement for the growout, as my hair is at that stage where I don’t what to do with it- behind the ears? in front of the ears? Aack! It’s sticking straight out!--Shara, I think we do have similar CURLY hair. But yours looks so soft! I just bought the Ojon starter kit today to try to bring on the softness and shine-- I’m looking forward to trying it.
Posted by on 09/29 at 09:09 PM
Hi Runner! I’ve been away for almost a week so haven’t been able to read emails, sorry. Is there a picture of you somewhere for me to see. Seems we all try to find the perfect product so it certainly helps to share experiences with our attempts. I am going to try the Ojon products as well since I also feel I need some pick me up shine. It’s tough having the red ends with the salt/pepper thing going on behind it. One thing I tried for softness and it seems to make a difference with curly hair is the Kerastase leave in mask I use twice a week for conditioning. It is a bit pricey but you don’t have to use very much and it makes my coarse curly hair much softer and more manageable to style. Maybe worth a try?
Let me know your thoughts on Ojon products. Thanks!
Posted by on 09/29 at 09:36 PM
Shara, Runner is Jennifer Black, above…
Posted by on 09/30 at 08:59 AM
My “After” picture above is just a different one than the original post-transition photo, and shows a little more length and curl-- though it’s not the best pic. Oh well. Shara-- thanks for the tip on the Kerastase product-- I’ll try it. I always end up with a graveyard of hair products when trying a different style and I guess this process is no different!
P.S Tried the Ojon shampoo, conditioner, leave-in conditioner and styling cream so far-- VERY nice and they smell good too.
Jennifer
Posted by on 09/30 at 07:18 PM
Thanks Lisa. Now I realize runner is Jennifer....all these graying gals, newbies and names....whoa...we definitely are growing every day!
Jennifer, I’m heading over to Sephora tommorrow since I understand they carry Ojon. Thanks for the info. I want to try their glossing cream. I am also interested in trying Aveda Blue Malva just to see if I can add a little “umph” to my charcoal and tone down the red a bit.
Posted by on 09/30 at 07:52 PM
Shara—I would be surprised if it did tone down the red. Blue and lilac shampoos counteract yellow. It’s about opposites on the color wheel. Green counteracts red. Look at some of the cosmetic toners while you’re at Sephora (especially Smashbox), and you’ll see this principle in action. There’s a green one to adjust underlying redness in the skin, and a lilac one to balance sallowness.
As a blue shampoo does deposit color, I’m wondering about red+blue=purple! 
But keep us posted!
Posted by on 09/30 at 08:17 PM
Christie,
You look awesome! I think alot of us have the same haircut! I guess we are making the pixie cut tre chic! You made it..congratulations!
Ruth
Posted by on 10/01 at 03:31 AM
Christie,
You look AMAZING!!!!!!Your hair and eyes look like a perfect match! Your face glows! You are a wonderful example of a “preemie”! What an inspiration! Had I found this site when I was your age you would have convinced me hook, line, and sinker to go for it!!!
Congrats on your graduation! You are a youthful beautiful gray!!!
Many Blessings to you and your family!!
Posted by on 10/01 at 04:00 AM
Gosh thank you so much Ruth, and Elizabeth; what a lovely thing to say! I feel great and I actually feel very proud of my grey.
Ruth I definitely got my inspiration for the pixie cut from quite a few of you ladies on here!
You two have put a smile on my face, I’m off to bed - happy
Posted by on 10/01 at 04:29 AM
Congratulations, Christie! I love your short cut; it’s adorable on you and really brings out your eyes!
Posted by on 10/01 at 04:40 AM
Christie--what a fantastic transformation! You really look great!
Lisa
Posted by on 10/01 at 05:05 AM
Christie - While you are sleeping, I write this. :o)
Congratulations on your graduation to a full fledged gray! You really look wonderful. I have to agree about your eyes. They look larger and prettier than before. You still look young, and I think even younger, now that you are rid of the darker dye around your face.
Another example of a quick, extremely successful transition!
Hey, what about your kiddo? Didn’t he think only grandmas had gray hair. :o)
Posted by on 10/01 at 06:22 AM
Hi Christie--you look wonderful--definitely young and so pretty!!! Congratulations on your transformation!
Posted by on 10/01 at 07:00 AM
Wow Christy! You look fantastic! Your cut is great, your natural is beautiful and without those bangs you started with, you can really see your pretty face. I’m sure although at times during the six months you wondered if you were doing the right thing, I’m glad you followed it through. Congratulations!
Posted by on 10/01 at 08:02 AM
Christie, you have inspired me to seriously consider the pixie, it looks lovely on you, congratulations
Posted by on 10/01 at 08:35 AM
love the look!! congrats! my how time flies when you’re having fun
i really do notice your eyes and you are STILL young and very pretty!!
louann
Posted by on 10/01 at 09:25 AM
Christie, I love the cut on you. It shows off that beautiful face and those eyes. And of course, it will always grow and that will be another adventure.
Posted by on 10/01 at 09:52 AM
Christie-GOOD SHOW!! You look Fabulous! Just looking at your before and after photos really shows how lovely your complexion is. You skin tone in your “after” shot is so clean and pure...yes...NATURAL! You are beautiful, and have a classic look that is the envy of thousands of women!
~dede
Posted by on 10/01 at 10:53 AM
Christie,
Okay, I’m going to say it again .... in spite of your 5’9 height, I must say that your new cut is very “CUTE” on you!!! I will further say that it is polished, chic and very complimentary to your eyes and face also! You look fabulous! Seeing you and your new do has definitely made me think again about the possibility of a pixie for myself! Watch out Jaime Lee!!!!!!!
-Suzanne
Posted by on 10/01 at 12:42 PM
Christie. I have to say it too - the cut & color both really complement you. You look fantastic. I am jealous that it only took 6 months (since I’ve been at this for 10 or so myself).
best, M
Posted by on 10/01 at 12:55 PM
I feel so positive about my grey hair, thank you all for helping me to achieve this attitude and for the fantastic compliments, can’t wait to see you all in here feeling wonderful about your hair!
Posted by on 10/01 at 02:52 PM
it’s all a state of mind!! i admit i loved when i would get my hair freshly colored with a new cut...so what the heck is the difference now??? i am excited about the NEW color comming in!!
enjoy the change!
louann
Posted by on 10/01 at 04:10 PM
Christie,
Wow! Congratulations on graduation! You are stunning with that new pixie
cut and wonderful hair color. I enjoyed reading about all of your gardening
practices. Good for you! I’ll bet the kiddos love to help out in the garden too.
Posted by on 10/01 at 05:17 PM
Beth! You’ve Graduated! Congratulations! You look STUNNING!! I absolutely love what your natural color has done for you skin tone and coloring! You look great! Glad you’re here!
~dede
Posted by on 10/01 at 06:46 PM
Thank you dede! I’m honored to be here with you and of these beautiful women, in spirit and appearance. It feels great to know I never have to color my hair again!
Posted by on 10/01 at 07:29 PM
Hey, great to see you here, Beth! I agree with Dede, your skin tone looks superb with your natural colour, congrats!
Posted by on 10/01 at 07:44 PM
Beth,
You look great!
And your job sounds really cool. Digital Librarian! (I could learn a few things from you.)
We had the DNC here in Denver and one of the topics was how would future generations preserve or be able to access current convention memorabilia and artifacts? ( I think They would need you!)
Happy hair graduation day!
Ruth
Posted by on 10/01 at 08:34 PM
Congratulations Beth on your move to the Newbie Grads gallery! You look great! What a great group of grads we have on this page!
Posted by on 10/01 at 09:07 PM
Beth - You made it! Congratulations! Your natural color is so much prettier than the blonde. And as we all are finding, your natural colors enhance your complexion and natural beauty. I have enjoyed watching your transition and chatting along the way.
Posted by on 10/02 at 05:56 AM
Beth, how soft and lovely you look, you’ve come a long way indeed Do you plan to keep the short style?
Posted by on 10/02 at 06:12 AM
Congrats, Beth! You look fantastic! Isn’t it great that a new attitude seems to come along with our new hair? It’s been a pleasure transitioning with you!
Posted by on 10/02 at 06:13 AM
Thank so much!
Christie-thanks! I have to say again how great you look with your natural hair color!
greeneyes-I’ve enjoyed chatting along the way too. You have been such a great help to me during this process. You are looking so good!
lulubell-that is the question! LOL. I do like the short hair and think it looks fine, but I am just so curious to see what I would look like mid length with my natural color--maybe just long to put in a pony tail again? I need to find a good stylist. I know a good cut is so important! The one I was going before is not there anymore. It was so short I don’t think I will need a cut for while yet? ...And I figure I can always go back to shorter anytime.
Thank you Debdo, it has been a pleasure for me too! I love your beautiful white hair and the short cut. It looks great on you!
Ruth-thank you! You are looking great too! On the work topic--yes this is a big issue--what will be here for future generations--both the physical items and the sometimes ethereal digital information.
You’ve all made my day!
Posted by on 10/02 at 07:00 AM
Grayincali--Thank you! You are coming along wonderfully. Your latest cut is so cute! I look forward to seeing you here!
Posted by on 10/02 at 07:06 AM
Beth, congrats! Yet another woman who proves Mother Nature does know what she’s doing and we should never fool with her. It is fun to see what your hair will look like longer. You just look so great and happy dating. I love dating stories.
Posted by on 10/02 at 07:48 AM
Thank you Sallee--your hair is beautiful!! Maybe I’ll report on some of the funnier dating adventures in the Talk On area..keeping people anonymous of course...if that would be OK...I never thought at this stage in my life I’d have much to report on...LOL Thanks for your interest!
Posted by on 10/02 at 08:26 AM
Thanks, Beth. I’ve said before that when I went natural I didn’t have any issues like I’ve discovered on the site that women have with going “gray”. I just never thought about it and how it could impact so many areas of one’s life. Or the length of ones hair. I know most men have the long hair fixation and if one is married I understand how that could be an issue and it’s scary to go really short if you’ve never done it before, which I had about 10 years before I stopped coloring, so I knew when I decided to stop I was just going to have it chopped off and I had long hair at the time so it was a drastic change but most everyone I knew had seen me with short hair, and to be honest, I didn’t really care what anyone thought. I just wanted my own hair back and never wanted to think about that appointment every three weeks.
I think Talk On would be a great place for dating stories. Oh, you’ll have lots to report, trust me, I’m 55 and hope to be reporting for a long time yet. You go Silver Sister. 
Posted by on 10/02 at 09:07 AM
Beth, you look truly beautiful with your natural hair colour! I echo everyones’ comment that it just lights up your skin tone and your face just comes to life!
Your job sounds really suited to you. Congrats on that and on getting your masters.
I for one will be watching for the dating stories, girls. I am committed so no exciting stories will be coming from me, although I will report back from my first cruise in December...and my first “real” vacation in over 16 years.
Posted by on 10/02 at 09:19 AM
Wait a minute, everybody!!! I love the idea of dating stories, but I think it deserves its own blog. For singles, committeds, or marrieds. Heeee—a general let’s dish about guys blog. I’ll start one today. It will be called Silver & the City, natch. Hold off on all those juicy stories ‘til I do!
Posted by on 10/02 at 09:30 AM
For a minute there I thought Diana was beginning a dating service...like yoursilvermatch.com. :o)
Posted by on 10/02 at 09:41 AM
Oh hahahahah. No, no advertising, please. But the blog is up. Go look, go talk.
Posted by on 10/02 at 09:44 AM
A dating blog! Great idea. Lisa, see you’re going on your first cruise in December! I’m going on my first cruise next April. Where are you going? I’m going to the Western Caribbean—Grand Cayman, Belize, Roatan and Cozumel—and I cannot wait.
Posted by on 10/02 at 10:29 AM
Debdo...I’m going to all the same places!! Is yours a Carnival cruise? Ours is. That is wild.
Posted by on 10/02 at 10:36 AM
Yes! Carnival Valor, how ‘bout you! You’ll have to give me the scoop about all you see and do there.
Posted by on 10/02 at 10:38 AM
Ours is Carnival Legacy. That is quite a coincidence. I will report back..so far we’ve decided the cave tubing in Belize is a must, and snorkling likely in Roatan. The rest is up in the air. Too exciting!!
Posted by on 10/02 at 11:14 AM
Great minds do think alike! We’re planning on cave tubing in Belize, tho will probably snorkel on Cozumel and just hit the beach in Roatan. My girls want to go parasailing . . . not so sure about that one.
Posted by on 10/02 at 12:43 PM
Hi ladies. Had to chime in here. I just did my first cruise in August. We did 7 days in Alaska. The absolutely most fun shore excursion was ziplining. If you get the opportunity, you gotta try it. What a rush! AND, it’s safe for kids. There was a 7 year old girl zipping through the trees and she had a blast.
Posted by on 10/02 at 01:23 PM
Ziplining...I read what you wrote about that somewhere else and it sounds really cool. Our kids are both 15 year old boys and I know they’d love that.
Debdo...we WERE going to snorkel in Cozumel but I thought I read that Roatan offered it too and it looked great there. Better decide soon I guess.
Posted by on 10/02 at 04:13 PM
AAhhh vacation fun! My hubby and I honeymooned in Central America, and we didn’t do any cave tubing...but we did do some major caving! It is amazing!
~dede
Posted by on 10/02 at 05:56 PM
what i am finding when i look at everyones pics is how it softens everyones looks and how much better the skin tone etc looks…
it really is this simple “mother nature” knows best!
you all look soo great!!
welcome to the grad site beth
louann
Posted by on 10/03 at 02:52 AM
Louann, I so agree with you. Everyone in the graduate’s gallery just glows and if I haven’t told you all that, I’m tellin’ ya all now, you look fantastic. It amazes me everytime I scroll through.
Posted by on 10/03 at 07:46 AM
Ellenina, I don’t seem to be able to send you a pm.
I wanted to let you know we will miss you on the 18th. Trying to figure out how to send you a pm I found your website. You are sooooooo talented Your home must be quite something with your art and your hubby’s singing and performing. Hope at some point we will meet. I would love to hear how your art came about. Have a great weekend. Looks like it might rain and that would be a good thing.
Posted by on 10/03 at 08:55 AM
Congratulations Beth, You did it!!!!! and you look great!
AnaB
Posted by on 10/04 at 08:17 AM
Thanks Ana--are you the Ana in the newbie section? If so I love your pixie cut--you will be there soon!!!
Posted by on 10/04 at 08:45 AM
Thanks louann! I’m so glad I did it. I look forward to seeing your transition!
Posted by on 10/04 at 08:49 AM
What wonderful, fabulous transformations! You all look younger, happier and truly vibrant!! Janey xx
Posted by on 10/04 at 11:42 AM
All you women look fabulous. I’d have to call myself a graduate as well, as all my old color is cut off. Maybe I’ll be moved soon? I am still somewhat of a newbie.
Beth - I need to speak to you! I am a media center teacher in an elementary school- I teach research skills as well as deal with technology on my campus! For many who might not know - media center = library/computer lab.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:49 AM
Hi Karen--I love your natural hair color!
I did field work in an elementary school media center when I was getting my degree. It was amazing how much those very young students knew about web surfing. Very interesting! They had already had their favorite websites!
I would say feel free to email me but I don’t want to put my email address on a public site--not sure--can you pm my profile? I’ll go check. ( :
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:19 AM
Karen, hi again--I just checked--there is a PM feature.
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:22 AM
Beth - don’t worry about it, I’ll figure it out when I get home. Believe it or not I’m on a mini-vacation. Brought my laptop to keep in contact with family as my dad is in the hospital. Also to keep an eye to the weather. We’ve had a bit of rain - which has been welcome, but I don’t like to drive in it - and it’s a gorgeously clear day - perfect for driving home.
So - I see my email too and all the responses and this morning just had to check.
I’ll get in touch with you this week. I actually reopen my media center this week - we’ve undergone modernization and this will be our first week open to students - glitches and all!
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:24 AM
Beth—no, don’t even THINK about posting your email address here. Mon would remove it instantly. It’s extremely simple to email a Member who is in the Member Album, Karen. You can do it by clicking on the link, whether it says Read Full Bio, or Create one. You’ll go to their page, and you have the choice to send a PM or an Email—click on one or the other “button”. You won’t see their email address, but your email will be sent. That’s the neat advantage of being in the Member Album!
Otherwise, it’s still do-able, but you’ll have to scroll through the long Member’s List, which you can click on in Your Account. You’ll find an email button there, as well.
Just know, everybody, if you do send an email, the Member will now have YOUR email address. And if you answer an email, the original sender will have yours. That’s how email works. If you don’t want that, use the Personal Message feature.
Posted by on 10/05 at 07:09 AM
Thanks Diana, The member album is a great feature of your website!
Have a good trip back Karen and I’ll look forward to hearing from you next week.
Beth
Posted by on 10/05 at 08:49 AM
Lisa, I love your photo in the Member’s Album, your hair looks so silvery! It must be due to different lighting. You look lovely
Posted by on 10/06 at 05:59 AM
Thanks Lulubell--it is so strange how it can look brown in indoor lighting and so light and silvery in natural light. I wanted to send one in where you could really see the gray, although it’s not a great photo of me, in my opinion.
Did I read that you were going to get a cut soon?? Looking forward to seeing an update from you.
Have a great day!
Posted by on 10/06 at 06:10 AM
Yes, I plan a crop on my birthday next month, although I must admit to being a little apprehensive My old highlights were very blond to begin with and now have taken on a very “ICKY” shade. I may as well get them cut off and just start growing out once more. There was a moment a while back when I thought I could outlast this part of the transition but now it appears I just may not be able to. 
I would like the new growth to be long enough to curl just a bit. Wish me luck.
Posted by on 10/06 at 06:22 AM
Hi Lulu, I do wish you luck and I think that it’ll look just fine. It will be long and curly before you know it!
Posted by on 10/06 at 06:31 AM
Lisa I know..I had to bring my laptop into the kitchen with the bright overhead lights to show the silver. Your member photo is beautiful.
Lulu--I understand..I went through the same thing with the fading and “icky” blond highlights. I’m also sure you will look fine and yes, it grows back before you know it!
Posted by on 10/06 at 06:53 AM
Thanks Beth! I’m heading for shoulder length hair but not crazy about this in-between length. Are you keeping yours short (which looks fantastic) or in grow mode as well?
Posted by on 10/06 at 07:02 AM
Hi Lisa,
Well I’m in grow mode again. LOL I’m going to see if I can let it get to a midlength--maybe between chin and shoulder, so I can pull it back into a pony tail. It’s a hard decision because I do like it short too! But I figure I can always cut it short gain later if I want to.
While I think you look great, I also understand about that in-between length. I would say keep going with that grow mode! It’s very easy to cut it as we know! (:
I’m starting to get to that stage now where the sides do go over my ears but I push them back because they don’t look good over my ears yet. I’m also starting to use midsize velcro rollers for a bit of volume and body, but it only takes a few to blow dry it. I am wondering when I will need a shaping cut even though I am in grow out mode?
Thanks for asking...it’s so nice to be able to chat about this.
Posted by on 10/06 at 07:43 AM
Well, I didn’t even find this web site until I had already taken the cold turkey plunge and gone gray, so I’m afraid I can’t post any “along the way” photos. I am posting in another section, although I apologize, I don’t know where. It’s the ones with pictures of gorgeous ladies who have completed the transition already. I don’t know how many days it takes for the photos to appear, but I sent two in. These photos remind me of my own transition period. I still have brown tips in back where my hair is longest, but I did not color or highlight or anything to let mine grow out, I just stopped. I got the Mrs. Pepe LePew comments and others, but laughed it off. I’m single and have not dated in a while, so who am I going to impress? I am happy I did it, and have inspired others to do it, too. I wish I had found this site 9 months ago, right about the last time I dyed my hair and made this decision. YOU GO GIRLS!!!!!!
Posted by on 10/07 at 03:12 PM
Welcome Rocksister! So glad you’re here! Sounds like you’ve just about graduated!! You must have been able to maintain a great attitude about it since you’ve inspired others to go gray too! WAY TO GO!!
~dede
Posted by on 10/08 at 08:03 AM
Karate Mom-Love your new picture! You look Fantabulous!
~dede
Posted by on 10/09 at 11:37 AM
DITTO Karate Mom, you look G R E A T ! !
Posted by on 10/09 at 03:53 PM
Lisa, just want to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. Do you plan to take a few days and get away? We are staying home and enjoying the beautiful weather that has been forecasted. I do plan to cook a Turkey dinner with all the trimmings!! ENJOY!
Posted by on 10/09 at 03:57 PM
karate mom...love the way it is growing in...you look so YOUNG !! and your hair is wonderful...i am sure you must be getting tons of compliments...your skin looks wonderful with your natural color!
louann
Posted by on 10/09 at 04:02 PM
Okay, why am I not seeing Ellenina’s newest pics? I only see the two that have been posted. Is there something I’m not doing? I WANT TO SEE THE NEW PICS
Posted by on 10/09 at 04:39 PM
karate mom ... your hair is growing fast and looking so fabulous! Love your color ... you are really glowing in the photo!
Posted by on 10/09 at 04:40 PM
Sallee just scroll up to the top of this page and you will see her new photo.
Posted by on 10/09 at 05:47 PM
Deb B., welcome to the Newbie Graduates, I can not wait until I can join all of you. You look wonderful, what an amazing transition!
Posted by on 10/09 at 05:52 PM
Congratulations, Deb B! You really are a great advertisement for going natural. :o)
Posted by on 10/09 at 06:20 PM
Sallee —did you see Ellenina’s new pics finally? If not, we’ve got a mystery on our hands. Please let me know. 
Posted by on 10/09 at 06:45 PM
Deb B,
Looks like you made it! You look great! And what a beautiful shade of silver you have! Is it me or do you look thinner too!?! Awesome!
Posted by on 10/09 at 06:48 PM
wow!! this is all so encouraging…
louann
Posted by on 10/10 at 04:57 AM
Deb B:
Congrats on being a Newbie Grad! You have a fantastic, inspiring before and after--and I so envy your great, metallic hair colour!
Posted by on 10/10 at 04:58 AM
Congratulations Deb B.! Your hair is a beautiful color naturally. I love it! You look beautiful! So glad you are here!!!!
Posted by on 10/10 at 06:05 AM
Karate Mom--I love your new pic! Your hair is so cute the way it is growing in and you look fantastic!
Posted by on 10/10 at 06:08 AM
Deb B., such a great smile, one of the things I notice about the grad photos. You look great. Will you let it grow for a while now? I’m always curious about that.
Good morning Diana, still can’t see Ellenina’s new pic. Guess my computer just doesn’t want to recognize it. 
Posted by on 10/10 at 07:24 AM
Deb, I love your color, style and smile. Congratulations! Karate mom-is your new pick somewhere else? Can’t seem to see it either, but would like to.
Jennifer
Posted by on 10/10 at 07:35 AM
The new pic of Karate Mom is in the newbie graduate gallery above--are some of you still seeing the “old” photo?
Ellenina, you look wonderful.
Posted by on 10/10 at 08:08 AM
I just scrolled to the top of this page and there is the new photo of Karate Mom, I have been able to see it since yesterday
Posted by on 10/10 at 08:10 AM
No, still can’t see it. Diana said there is something in the computer (mine) that won’t recognize the new pics because it thinks they’re the old ones. Good figure. I’m just going to take everyone’s word that Ellenina looks great.
Posted by on 10/10 at 08:27 AM
Well, there is a technical explanation for this strange phenomenon, which I just found out last night. To wit:
“When an image has the same name as the image that was there before sometime the browser thinks it has already seen it and copies the old version from the hard drive rather than downloading the new one from the web page.”
I apologize for this, and we are working on it. It is true that some people can’t see it yet, no matter how many times they scroll up and down. So please be patient and hopefully the glitch will be fixed soon. 
Posted by on 10/10 at 09:38 AM
you guys this is her new pic!! it’s just a bit longer!! c’mon grannies get your glasses on!!!
louann
Posted by on 10/10 at 09:46 AM
Oops, I meant go figure- 
hate it when i do that, drives me crazy---i’m just glad there was an explanation cause when you get to my age and you’re not seeing something everyone else seems to see, it’s extra scary
Posted by on 10/10 at 09:47 AM
Know what you mean! Rest assured, there is an explanation. And, Louann, it has nothing to do with glasses! Trust me—for some, the picture does not appear. It is stuck in a time warp. I’ve been reading up on this, and I wonder if cleaning out your browser cache would help. But don’t take my word for it!!! I’m not your best techie around.
Posted by on 10/10 at 09:59 AM
Oh Deb, you look so gorgeous!!!
Posted by on 10/10 at 10:06 AM
Deb...Looking GREAT! You’ve have got a fabulous color! AND LOOK AT THAT SHINE! You look younger, healthier, happier and HOTTER!
~dede
Posted by on 10/10 at 10:23 AM
To All,
Thank you very much for the wonderful compliments, ie. younger & Hotter!! Wow! Re: questions - I don’t know if I will let it grow. If I could look like Maureen’s, I might, but my main problem is patience. I let it go for a while and then all of the sudden it has to be cut. I think I drive my hairdresser crazy. But I do believe I may give it a try. Re: Weight - just as fat as ever. Menopause is a killer. Black does wonderful things. I walk, ride bike, some weight lifting, but I still love to bake. As I have heard, I am not fat, I am just too short!! Again, thanks to each one of you. I think this would have been very difficult if I hadn’t had the support of all the gray girls! - Deb B
Posted by on 10/10 at 11:53 AM
Hi, all. Thanks for the compliments. Next time I’ll wait longer before I send in a pic! I didn’t want to cause confusion. I was just happy my looks had “softened up” with 2 months of growth since the buzz!
Posted by on 10/10 at 12:24 PM
WOOHOO, I can see it now 
The glitch is fixed, Diana. And Ellenina, you look as fab as everyone said.
Posted by on 10/10 at 12:53 PM
hey deb
the whole menopause thing will pass and then the weight will come off..that is what happened to me...i started early and gained slowly but surely almost 30 lbs..then in the last 3 years it has all come off and a little more..whooo hooo!! thanks too with all the walking up and down the hills in the neighborhood!! so now i am topping it all off with the hair!! new clothes and new hair do!! as soon as i have fully transitioned i will do the makeup thing..although i am a minimalist when it comes to makeup…
enjoy your new silve side!!
louann
Posted by on 10/10 at 02:13 PM
Louann,
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I made it thru menopause and didn’t even know that I had since I had a hysterectomy when I was only 29. So a blood test showed I went all thru it and was lucky enough not to have some of the side effects that some women experience. But this weight has really been a struggle, not coming off like it used to. I am like you, in that I have never really worn any makeup other than doing my eyes up and maybe a little blush. I have never put anything else on my face for the concern that it would break out and be a mess, although I have always been faithful with using a moisturizer. But I have changed eye shadow colors since I now have gray hair. I am using gray eye shadows and really like the softness and subtleness of them. It’s so nice to talk with women who know what you’re going thru. Thanks again - Deb B
Posted by on 10/10 at 04:47 PM
Is anyone else having difficulties with GGLG site today?? I can’t find 2nd semester newbies. 
Posted by on 10/11 at 06:53 AM
Hi Lulubell - Yes, lots of crazy things happening for me on the site. This page is even acting strange. Maybe they are updating or something? I know absolutely nothing about such things, though. :o) Hope you are having a nice holiday weekend!
Posted by on 10/11 at 07:44 AM
Thanks for the feedback greeneyes, and I will most certainly have a nice holiday! Enjoy your weekend!
Posted by on 10/11 at 08:21 AM
Hi guys—NO we are definitely not updating! I put a Technical Difficulties post up on the homepage to explain it (as well as it can be explained!). But I’ve been looking for places to post where others of you might go. Aha—found this.
Seems the host I’ve been using decided without notice to switch servers in the middle of the night. Things disappeared. Some things cannot be accessed. Now, they are all “in there.” But unfortunately, the host did not work out the “bugs” involved in a major move. This is definitely NOT our doing. We are on the case, and hope to have it running smoothly as soon as we can. But we are definitely over a barrel with this webhost. Waiting to hear from them as we speak.
This is outrageous, maddening, and I have steam coming out of my ears, you can be sure. 
All I can ask is that you have patience, stay with us, and find good places to post. Like here, Wild Gray Women, and various other places on the site under the Great Gray and Gray Today tabs. The Café Gray is not even operating properly. I apologize, but feel rather victimized at the same time!
Posted by on 10/11 at 10:46 AM
We completely understand Diana, you could never lose me that’s for sure, or the others! Stuff happens, I am forever saying “I HATE COMPUTERS”! Not really, just love to yell it out load sometimes.
Posted by on 10/11 at 10:54 AM
Thanks, Lulubell—that’s encouraging. I used to scream that at my computer, too. And that was BEFORE I entered the wild world of hosts and servers. I think I hate them more! 
Posted by on 10/11 at 10:59 AM
Hi Diana,
Thanks for the update--as a former network admin I do understand and empathize!!
Beth
Posted by on 10/11 at 11:37 AM
Diana - totally understandable, even though I don’t understand! :o) Too high tech for me. But no worries! You know how patient we grays and grays-in-waiting have learned to be. :o) At least it happened on the weekend when it seems the site can be quieter as people are probably enjoying more family time and being out on the town, etc…
Try to have a good weekend in spite of your challenges. Thanks for doing so much for all of us and giving so much of your time. We all appreciate what you do for us! :o)
Posted by on 10/11 at 12:06 PM
Diana,
Definitely do I understand, I get so irritated with internet/computer malfunctions...I get a bit irrational. Our service was down for three days and I feel like I have been through the ringer getting it back up. Not as big of a deal as your issue of course.
By the way, I am really Looking forward to tomorrow’s lunch with my fellow GGLG poster Ana, (anab) More soon!
Ruth
Posted by on 10/11 at 01:35 PM
Oh brother!
Bad time for this site to go toes up. Ruth, I forgot to write down the place we’re meeting tomorrow and cannot get to my Private Messages. Please, if you read this post which location we are meeting at. If I don’t hear from you I will be wondering around all the Panera’s in Highlands Ranch.
AnaB
Posted by on 10/11 at 05:24 PM
Ana,
Not sure if you will get this but I hope so!: As I type in the address and phone number, I am not sure what is allowed on the site, and I am not seeing everything I typed yesterday either...It is the Panera Bread on University, South of C470. There is only one Panera Bread in Highlands Ranch! You can Google Colorado Panera for the phone number and address if it does not appear here in my post.
Panera Bread (9579 University Blvd, 80126-)
Ruth
Posted by on 10/12 at 04:17 AM
Day 2 of “technical difficulties.” Here is what’s happened SO FAR. The webhost answered our inquiry (3 hours later) saying, “We’ve been to your site, it seems to be operating fine.” My web designer replied with all the specifics, codes, etc. of why it was NOT acting “fine” and was informed a response could now take up to 24 hours! 
Apparently, they have bigger fish to fry as their mail service is down across the entire system. Yeah, I’m not getting notifications of postings or any mail you might send me, either. This is also the second day for that.
We are currently investigating switching to a new webhost. Naturally, that will require doing it, then testing it, so we may still be a few days away from having this site working right. We may even have to shut the site down to finish this.
So, keep checking here—the only place I know how to update everybody. Sorry, again. . . NOT a happy camper. 
Posted by on 10/12 at 04:55 AM
Hang in there, Diana! We’re hanging with you! :o)
Posted by on 10/12 at 05:17 AM
I have plenty of patience Diana! This site is so amazing and I am happy to wait as long as it takes to get it fixed so no worries there. Janey xxx
Posted by on 10/12 at 05:34 AM
Ruth, I got all the info. I will see you this afternoon at 1:15pm as planned.
AnaB
Posted by on 10/12 at 05:54 AM
Hi Deb B! Congrats on being a graduate! I’ve been waiting to see more than the “eye shot” and have admired the really cool color of your hair from the first pictures you posted.
Beautiful! and I love the confident smile! Hope you do the NY event whenever it is.
all the best, Helen G
(p.s I’ll be joining you in a few months hopefully- still growing out...damn those root touchup kits (haha)
Posted by on 10/12 at 01:51 PM
Deb B! Congratulations. I’ve been gone for awhile and just checked to see the latest. What a fabulous transition! Your natural color is fantastic and you look so happy. Don’t you just feel sooo free?! I can’t wait to be where you are! Maybe by February or March…
Posted by on 10/12 at 10:37 PM
Ellenina,
Just had to write and tell you I have now seen your newest photo and you just look great. I love your haircut. It just looks so natural. - Deb B
Posted by on 10/13 at 04:13 AM
Diana, this page is like split in half on my screen. Pics and postings on the right and the overhead menu on the left but blank underneath. Just letting you know in case you need to pass it along to the web fixer-upers. So we’ll all hang tough.
Posted by on 10/13 at 07:46 AM
Heee, I will respond about the “page split in half”, but I know you guys will only see it in your email notifications. Strange things happen when you go behind the OZ curtain. Even I don’t know what’s going to go screwy next! My page isn’t split, but the top header tabs seem to have gone missing. Oh well, all in a day’s work!! Let’s all look at this like a visit to the Fun House with funny mirrors. That’s the only way I can—and keep my sanity! Love ya all.
Posted by on 10/13 at 08:21 AM
Test posting by sys admin (please ignore).
Posted by on 10/13 at 09:27 AM
Hi- Diana, you know you can’t get rid of us no matter what the technical glitches!
Deb B- I’ve been looking forward to you graduating since the first “eye shot” pictures of that beautiful color you have...Gorgeous! I love the confidence in your eyes!
Helen G
(p.s will hope to join you soon… thought it would be sooner but damn those root-touch-up kits...grrr
Posted by on 10/13 at 02:46 PM
Don’t know if this will post, but the page is back to “normal” as far as everything being where it’s supposed to be.
Posted by on 10/13 at 02:51 PM
It’s posting in never-never-land right now! Web designer needs a break, but promises to tackle the pagination of this blog tomorrow. In the meantime, if you’re receiving notification of postings, you’ll see this. Thanks for letting me know your page is looking normal again.
Posted by on 10/13 at 03:18 PM
Well, lookie there! Our posts have appeared from the never-never land! Way to go! :o)
Posted by on 10/13 at 04:33 PM
Heeeee—Greeneyes, you were first to notice! Before me, even. Guess you can’t keep a good web designer down! I’m just so happy to see everybody in print! I didn’t know WHO I was answering there, for awhile! 
Posted by on 10/13 at 04:51 PM
Hip, Hip, Hooray!!!! We’re Back!!
Posted by on 10/13 at 04:54 PM
Hi! Looks like posts are up but dare I mention I’m still not seeing all of the header tabs. At least we’re still on the upswing!
Thanks again Diana for all that you are doing to keep us all in touch!!!!!
Posted by on 10/13 at 04:57 PM
You’re welcome, grayincali! I’m as happy as you guys. The credit really goes to my web designer who can figure all this stuff out! And, sure, you can say the header tabs are still partially missing. I noticed that too, on Firefox. But not on Safari, if you have that. Tomorrow is another day. . . And there’s still a bit more fixin’ to do.
Posted by on 10/13 at 06:11 PM
Helen,
Boy, am I glad that I didn’t use anything for the root touch up. I had it and thought about it, but then I wanted to get thru this as soon as I could and I have not been committed during the last few months that I felt like I needed to hide them. As I said in the other comment section, I am really bad about trimming my own hair over the bathroom sink and I did some trimming again just before I went to get the last color cut off. I was just too impatient. And I don’t know about other people, I have a lot of hair and I am constantly shedding, now it is much easier to see where I have been sitting. It’s like having a cat on the furniture! The white and gray colors show up so much easier. - Deb B
Posted by on 10/14 at 04:15 AM
Good morning to all,
I have to tell you a story from yesterday. I have to say first it’s a little disconcerting. I started a class this week on traditional rug hooking. I was told now that I can be referred to as a “hooker”! But anyway… I went to the Salvation Army yesterday to look for 100% wool to use for rug hooking. I found 4 skirts of colors that I thought I could use in the future. The Salvation Army has certain days when you can receive discounts for specific items and I was not sure I was there on a day when there was a discount. So I went up to check out with my newly found skirts and when I got up to the register, the girl at the register was looking at me and sort of stuttered a little and asked if she should be giving me a discount today. I asked what kind of a discount and she stuttered again looking, I could tell, at my hair and said that if I was 55, I could get half off for my purchases. She was really not sure just how old I was. I told her that I am still 54 for a few months and tried to make her a little more comfortable with joking with her and then she explained that if I come on Wednesdays every week I could have half off on clothing even though I wasn’t 55. I paid for my skirts and then she said she would see me next Wednesday.
This was funny to me. I have never before been asked if I was old enough to receive a discount! As I said this was a little disconcerting, but I have to say I feel a real peace with having my hair the color that is is naturally. I am glad to be a real 100% gray just as my new 100% wool gray skirt!! - Deb B
Posted by on 10/17 at 03:59 AM
Deb b....I’ve been away a couple of weeks so just catching up.....did I tell you, YOU LOOK GREAT....your natural really brings out your lovely features and I just love those wispy bangs. Congrats on your great transition!
Posted by on 10/17 at 02:01 PM
Thank you, Shara. I have to tell you, I just love your hair and the curls. That is exactly the type of curl that I wish I had. Can’t wait to see your color when you are finally there - Deb B
Posted by on 10/17 at 03:31 PM
Thanks Deb B. It’s funny how we think the “grass is greener on the other side.” I, too, always wished I’d have straight hair:-)
Posted by on 10/17 at 05:42 PM
Hi ladies and WOW! I’ve been gone for a few months and was surprised to see many of you have “graduated”. Hope to be a graduate myself soon. EVERYONE looks stunning with their natural colors! Will have to do some reading and catch up…
Donna
Posted by on 10/19 at 03:59 PM
Catherine - Love the update. Your shirt and jewelry look great with your hair color(s).
Posted by on 11/09 at 03:55 PM
Yeah Leeja! You have arrived! Looking good! I think I might end up with a very similar color and I think we also have a similar texture. Time will tell for me! Looking forward to seeing you as the length continues!
Catherine - I love your new pic and your hair looks great! It’s growing and it really inspires me that one can be young and look hip with the gray! You sure do!
Posted by on 11/09 at 04:14 PM
Thank you greeneyes and grayincall!
I really like the way my hair turned out, the white on top gives it a lot of character indeed. There are days when I miss the length though.
I almost gave up multi-colored patterns and I now stick to solid colors or black and white geometrics.
Posted by on 11/09 at 04:44 PM
Hey, Welcome Leeja, you are looking good, and I think my hair is also a similar shade of grey
Lovely to see your picture Catherine; you are working it!!
Posted by on 11/09 at 05:26 PM
Thanks Christie and Suzanne. I still can’t believe it’s been such a quick transition. Yep, we all three look to have the same shade of gray, or gunsmoke with ice highlights as I like to call it (thanks Diana). Believe it or not, in my before photo, I had actually straighted out my hair, lol. I’m much more of a curly top then that picture shows. I can’t wait for it to grow, especially since my youngest daughter misses my curls so. I’ll keep everyone updated with the grow-in process. And of course I’ll keep cheering y’all on!
Leeja
Posted by on 11/09 at 05:34 PM
Catherine,
On not wearing patterns .... I’ve always been more of a solids kinda girl. I do like the black and white geometric on you though ... good choice! I guess it’s just all in finding the right patterns to go with the new shades in our hair. Many of my old printed pieces have brown in them which doesn’t seem to look very good with my gray anyway. Oh well, time to gear up for some shopping!!! Maybe I’ll be done transitioning by the Friday after Thanksgiving and I can hit the sales! I’ve never been too much of a shopper either, but a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do!
Suzanne
Posted by on 11/09 at 06:34 PM
Leeja - Look at you! Congrats on being finished with transitioning. Gunsmoke with ice highlights! How cool is that! I’ll be watching as your curls return. :o)
Posted by on 11/09 at 06:46 PM
Wow--popped in to the Newbie gallery to see what was new and there was Leeja looking wonderful with her natural hair and all this colour and glow to her skin! And a new photo of Cat looking stunning as always. Leeja--it is fascinating to me how true your quote is. There is something about this process that makes one look inside a little more. Cat--I sometimes miss a little length, too but the good news is, it’s achievable! Your hair will most definitely keep growing. And what you’ll have will never need touch-ups. That just never gets old for me…
Posted by on 11/09 at 06:59 PM
wow...y’all look FANTASTIC !!!
louann
Posted by on 11/09 at 08:05 PM
Catherine and Leeja--you both look awesome!!!!!
I am so...well, proud I guess is the word I am looking for…
and really, congratulations!
Ruth
Posted by on 11/09 at 08:42 PM
Congratulations Leeja on transisting into the Newbie Graduates! You look beautiful!
Catherine--You look wonderful--I love your new pic!
Posted by on 11/10 at 04:25 AM
Congratulations Leeja! Great help for me to go on for the gray.
Petra.
Posted by on 11/10 at 09:29 AM
Thanks Everyone!
Catherine, great photo, you look so chic! Your hair is growing so fast! Great color!
Leeja
Posted by on 11/10 at 10:08 AM
Leeja~ Congrats! You look gorgeous!
Catherine~ I love the updated picture~ love the style and color
Posted by on 11/10 at 10:26 AM
Did anyone transition with henna? I’ve just bought some .... thought perhaps it might help with the cold turkey v dyed hair - kind of somewhere in between. Hope I’ve done the right thing!!
Posted by on 11/10 at 10:28 AM
Jane—EEEEEK—stop—don’t do it!! Henna stains the hair. You’ll be back to square one. Please go read the article under Transitioning called “Choice 5—The Un-chemical Quandary.”
Posted by on 11/10 at 10:31 AM
Hey Jane,
I’ve never tried henna, but I don’t think that it washes out. I think it stains the hair. I’m also not sure if you can use it on gray hair. I think it may turn it pink, unless you have a special formula for gray hair.
I’m sure someone knows more than me though. I would wait and get some feedback first.
Leeja
Posted by on 11/10 at 10:33 AM
No, Leeja, it turns unpigmented hair ORANGE. Bright orange. And you are right, it doesn’t wash out. You have to wait for it to fade—4-10 weeks. There are all sorts of caveats about henna, which are mentioned in the article I referenced above. Bottom line—it stains the hair. One of our original Gallery Girls, Sandra (who posts as Summer)said she was “patiently waiting for the orange to grow out,” and was looking forward to “Henna-free hair.” Does that tell ya what you want to know, Jane?
Posted by on 11/10 at 10:40 AM
Oh girls, you are the best! I am going to the Caribbean on holiday next week (so sort of wanted to not look like a tabby cat which at the moment I do - I have 2 colours of lowlights growing out and my own colour growing through plus grey!). I thought it would make me look better on holiday with one colour hair but I hadn’t realised that I would end up with brown hair with bright ORANGE streaks! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Posted by on 11/10 at 11:03 AM
Well, you know what we call that around here? Not tabby cat—but tortoise. Sounds more like a very interesting shade.
Posted by on 11/10 at 11:16 AM
I just told my husband the fabulous advice I have been given on here and he agreed and said DON’T DO IT!! It only cost £12.00 so I’ll just write that off as a mistake. Far better that than orange streaks and stained hair! This is certainly a learning experience for me. Clearly the answer is, leave well alone!! I am just reading Choice 5 - the un-chemical quandary.
A huge thank you yet again to Diana for this truly amazing website. I no longer feel alone and I truly appreciate your advice and insight enormously.
Posted by on 11/10 at 11:20 AM
i personally am having a ton of fun with my tortise hair!!!
i am telling you people think i am doing some type of highlighting...nope all i am doing is paying 25.00 for a haircut...!! and honestly i am going for that again in the next week or so!!
louann
Posted by on 11/10 at 05:32 PM
The enthusiasm on here is really spurring me on! Left to my own devices I think I would cave in quite early on, but I am persevering thanks to you all lovely ladies. I know it’ll be worth it! I was admiring my own hair colour coming through this morning. The other amazing thing is the texture - it’s very soft and it doesn’t have that thick feeling to it. I have dyed my hair for so many years I am used to that feeling and thought it was normal! My hair is naturally curly but I don’t know whether the dye is making it curlier or whether my own undyed hair unleashed from chemicals will be even curlier or will maybe go straighter. I can’t wait to see the end result - the colour and the texture. I definitely won’t be using the henna - after speaking to you all yesterday I treated myself to a natural organic hair conditioning treatment instead!!
Posted by on 11/11 at 12:03 AM
Leeja, congratulations!! Your hair looks lovely and I am still amazed at how fast it grows! Catherine, you look fabulous!! I can’t wait until I can join all of you here in the gallery!
Posted by on 11/11 at 03:16 PM
Leeja-I have to say again how great you look! I wish I had been as brilliant as you and quit coloring when I was 35!!! Think of all of the money I’d still have!! You look fantastic, and I’m sure are the rave of the neighborhood!
Catherine...great new growth! Looks incredible! You’re absolutely beautiful!
~dede
Posted by on 11/12 at 11:46 AM
All the ladies on this page look incredible - some of you are in your 30’s like me and are HUGELY inspirational!! I thank you all for sharing your stories with us.
Posted by on 11/12 at 11:52 AM
Thanks Lulu and DeDe. Y’all just make my day.
It won’t be too long now till your pic will be hanging out with us over here Lulu. Your almost here. I bet we are about at the same place as far as new growth. I stopped coloring mine on July 3rd. Wasn’t your last color aroung that time?
Leeja
Posted by on 11/12 at 11:53 AM
I know what you mean Jane. I wouldn’t have gotten this far for sure without GGLG and all the inspiration and motivation I get from these great ladies here.
Going gray in your 30’s has some unique challenges and advantages I think and it’s great to have such good role models.
Thanks Ladies!
Posted by on 11/12 at 12:03 PM
There are so many more reasons why NOT to colour hair than to colour it, it’s so damn liberating - the money, the regular appointments, the £££££, the chemicals, the weird changes in colour, ruining hair, drying hair, dark hair colouring which actually makes you look older rather than younger as you age ........... I have realised from this site and ladies like yourself, that grey hair actually makes women look younger and furthermore you also save money, save time and end up with wonderful quality hair rather than dead chemically laden dull hair! It’s amazing!!!!
Posted by on 11/12 at 12:23 PM
Hi Leeja, yes we are close. I had my last color on the 8th of July, I hope my next cut will be the last and all of these neon orange tips will be gone. Once I settle in with this new short look I may just go and get the rest taken off. I think 8 weeks will feel more like a year to me! My hairdresser definitely feels it will be all gone in 8 weeks time. “God grant me patience PLEASE!”
Posted by on 11/12 at 02:03 PM
Well, look at it this way, Lulubell. Seven weeks from this very night is New Year’s Eve! So maybe you can push it up by one week, and start the new year with fireworks!
Posted by on 11/12 at 02:15 PM
Yep Lulu, when you’re waiting on hair to grow, 8 weeks does seem soooooo long. You have had so much more patience than I ever could muster. My colored ends were begging me to cut them off, lol. Either way, what ever you choose, the short cut looks great on you. I think the ends will be gone in 8 weeks too cause I’m about 2 months since my 1” buzz and I have a lot more hair now. Hang in there
Leeja
Posted by on 11/12 at 02:15 PM
New Years Eve, Hmmmm, that is a great idea Diana, however, “God grant me patience PLEASE!!! LEEJA your hair grows SOOOOO fast. I think I have average growth, but I certainly will try to hang in there. All kidding aside, I really do love this new look of mine and will enjoy it for good stretch I’m sure.
Posted by on 11/12 at 02:41 PM
My mom has a sweet saying “God, please grant me patience but could you do it now?
Posted by on 11/12 at 03:02 PM
Leeja & Catherine,
Congratulations on the graduation. You both look great! And don’t you just feel so different knowing you are really the real you! - Deb B
Posted by on 11/13 at 04:48 AM
And one more thing, I don’t about any of the rest of you, but my hair just feels so completely different. Of course, it is softer, but there is just so much of it. I always had pretty thick hair, but this is something. With having straight, it just always fell flat with any humidity, but not now. I scheduled my next cut two months after the last and I have another month before I go and get a trim and I will have to decide if I want to keep it short or let it grow, but there just seems to be so much of it. This is an expected benefit to not coloring! - Deb B
Posted by on 11/13 at 04:52 AM
Catherine you look awesome. Love your hair. I really like the short cut too. Your face is too cute to cover up with all that long hair.
Posted by on 11/14 at 11:40 AM
Thanks Rosa! I am having yet another bad hair day today so your comment feels sooo good.
The problem with my hair is that since it is very thick and has way too much volume, when cut short it tends to be really “pooffy"…
Gels, pastes, mousse and hair straighteners only go so far in my case.
Today, I have what I call garlic hair, my head looks like a giant garlic clove
Posted by on 11/14 at 11:56 AM
no bad hair days allowed!!! (well maybe one or two that’s it!!) catherine i think your latest cut is fab! are you going to let it grow?? and if so how long???…
right now my hair hasn’t been this short in awhile...my gal told me tonight she thinks she will just trim off some of the color in dec and then by jan maybe we can get rid of all of it...but i like what i see commin’ thru…
hang in there..this whole thing is a process!!
louann
Posted by on 11/14 at 10:10 PM
Yeah...a process…
My plan was to let it grow but the in-between stages are tough.
I have a very important interview next week and I am thinking of getting a little trim before in order to look professional...i will see…
Hang in there you too Louann
Posted by on 11/15 at 06:54 AM
Catherine, garlic hair? lol… Seriously though, I think you look really good with short hair. You have a nice,long neck which is good for short hair too. Kinda gives you that Audrey Hepburn look. Walk tall and keep your head up, you look great. My hair is still short but to only have a head of thick hair. I have plenty of hair, it’s just that it is so fine and straight. But I will be sending in pics for the newby graduate gallery soon, just haven’t had the time to do so yet.
Posted by on 11/15 at 11:49 AM
Looking forward to see your pictures Rosa!
Posted by on 11/15 at 11:56 AM
Just want to share an aha moment that I had today. I was just getting ready to leave work and ran into a teacher who stopped me and said to me that she’s been wanting to tell me for the longest time now how much she likes my hair. She thinks the color looks great and loves how healthy my hair looks.
I had no idea she colored her own - but she said she is getting so gray. I told her about this site, as it is a huge support system, but she’s just not ready yet. Her kids are still young (youngest is just 10), but I told her I had met some gals on here that we call ‘preemies’. One was only 19 years old! She couldn’t believe it.
I’ve often thought what some of my peers at work think and while some have been very supportive, others I guess I tend to think that silence means they don’t agree. This gal had been pretty silent, but I guess she was just waiting for the right time!
I’m very comfortable with my hair color now and would never go back even if someone encouraged me, but it was nice to hear just the same!
Posted by on 11/17 at 03:38 PM
Welcome to the graduates, Karen. Your hair is very pretty! - Deb B
Posted by on 11/21 at 01:51 PM
Karen - Good for you, you made it to the graduates!! Your hair is lovely! Love the new cut and the color!!
Posted by on 11/21 at 02:00 PM
Karen, congrats to you!! Your hair is so lovely and so healthy looking, you must feel great. 
Posted by on 11/21 at 02:30 PM
Thanks everyone - I hate taking pictures of myself...I never think they turn out good enough. I’m still loving my hair. It’s so easy to manage and just so healthy now. I would encourage anyone who is ready - to go through the transition - it’ll be worth it in the end!
Posted by on 11/21 at 02:37 PM
Karen!
Your wonderful blue eyes are so put forward with your true hair!
You look simply amazing! Soft and beautiful indeed!!!
Posted by on 11/21 at 04:08 PM
yea ...you look FANTASTIC can’t wait to see it in PERSON !!! congrats...hasn’t this been soo much fun with all of these great gals behind ya??? like suzanne said the verizon guy (can you hear me now)…
have a wonderful thanksgiving ..and let the compliments roll
enjoy EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM you earned it!!!
louann
Posted by on 11/21 at 06:16 PM
Karen - Congratulations on your overall makeover - hair and losing weight. Your natural color looks so pretty with your skin tone and eyes, and I like the new style also. I’m with you in “embracing your authentic self.” It’s just so much easier, and the results are always amazing! :o) You look wonderful!
Posted by on 11/21 at 06:47 PM
Thanks everyone - you gals are just the boost we all need once in a while. I wish I would have found this site sooner, at the beginning of my transition. I would have taken more pictures of my hair while going through it, knowing that perhaps I could have helped someone else. As it was I felt pretty alone and didn’t like any of my photos, so that old delete button came in pretty handy. I knew it was something I was going to do completely, but if I’d known about all you guys sooner I sure could have had more fun!!
My husband of 36 years was very supportive. He actually encouraged me a long time ago to give up the hair color. Should have listened to him, but who ever thinks they are right??!!
Posted by on 11/22 at 06:43 AM
it really makes things easier when the husband is on board!!i know mine really didn’t care at all and if he did i did not have a clue...but i know he really is liking how it is turning out...i think he was most afraid of a obvious grow out “line” which thank heavens i never seemed to get...there is still some “orangey” stuff in there but no obvious line…
does hair grow faster on parts of your head than others???
anyway...really enjoying this and watching all of you guys out there too!!
louann
Posted by on 11/24 at 06:35 AM
Jennifer, wow, your hair looks great, I love finding up-dated photos!! I really do feel that our hair grows so much faster than before going natural, not to mention that it looks so VERY healthy!
Posted by on 11/30 at 05:36 AM
i second lulu...wow it is stunning!! are you enjoying it?? you look fab!!
louann
Posted by on 11/30 at 08:35 AM
You know I don’t know if hair grows faster when it isn’t treated all the time, but if you really look at my hair....that second ‘after’ photo is about 5-7” long (I’m such a poor judge of measurement). That was at 11 months. I stopped coloring end of Oct. ‘07, and had my ‘final’ cut in Sept. of ‘08. That means it grew that much in 11 months. Don’t they say that our hair grows about 2” a year? If so, then it was super fast...but I could be way off on that.
Other than I feel a need a sprucing up cut, my hair feels good. It doesn’t feel frayed or split on the ends like it usually does after about 6 weeks. I am using a lower temperature on my blow dryer - so I’m sure that helps too.
Posted by on 11/30 at 08:55 AM
Thanks, lulubell and lainla3-- although I can’t see my new photo, not sure what I’m doing wrong. I have really been enjoying it-- until I went to Italy on vacation (11/1-11/16) was surrounded by nothing but incredibly glamourous women, all of whom (and are always dressed elegantly in heels despite the cobblestone streets) and endured many stares. Had a ready-to-color moment or two. Here at home, though, all is well. Jennifer
Posted by on 11/30 at 10:03 AM
Jennifer - Nice update. You look great. Maybe those glamorous women were staring at you because they were surprised that silver hair can be so beautiful. (That’s what I tell myself when I find ladies staring at my head.) :o) I read on another thread where you said you were biking and not prepared for dressing up, so you shouldn’t compare yourself to these women...unless they were also on bikes. :o)
One thing that bugs me about having gray is that we seem to be held at a higher standard. Other colors of hair can have an off day, or go unfixed, and no one seems to notice...but a gray lady is called old or frumpy or “letting herself go” if we aren’t always at our best. I suppose it’s just one of the things we have to endure until the perception of gray hair changes.
Posted by on 11/30 at 11:50 AM
Thank you, greeneyes. I still can’t see my new pic. Are you looking at a photo of me in a blue blouse? That’s what I just sent to Diana, didn’t think it was up but I’m getting nice remarks on the “update” so… I don’t know! Anyway...I agree about the higher standard thing. I work much harder to keep my hair, skin and wardrobe up to par than I did before my transition. Hardly fair… True about the bike trip, except that I was the youngest cyclist in the group of 17 we went with, and THEY (in their 50’s/60’s/70’s) were also glamourous (not a gray in the bunch)--and fit cyclist as well. To me, the requisite “casual attire” the trip required does not mean heels, skirt, leather jacket, etc. From now on I pack at least one thing in which I will feel sexy, no matter what. It was a wonderful trip, though-- and yes, I did make it home without giving in. But, I still have to convince myself that at times about all of this and I’m still undergoing a transition about how I see myself, and gray, and aging in general…
Posted by on 11/30 at 12:28 PM
Jennifer—when I first went to this page this AM, I saw your “old” picture as well. Then I hit “Refresh page”—that little circular arrow—and up the new pic popped. Try that.
Sigh. About that trip. Well, you learned. Just pack one sexy thing for when you climb down off that bike, and you’re home free. I do agree with greeneyes—I bet a lot of those “cool” ladies were looking at your glorious silver and thinking—hmmmmmm—maybe I’ll try it. A great crop of silver hair always outshines the rest.
Posted by on 11/30 at 12:36 PM
Yes, Jennifer. You’re in a blue blouse - definitely an update. I’m obsessive about watching the pics, so trust me, I notice. :o) Can’t remember who, but someone else had trouble seeing an update for awhile once. I don’t understand why not, but I know it has happened before.
Posted by on 11/30 at 12:39 PM
Aha! It worked. I hit refresh-- and I am now refreshed. Thank you Diana!
It’s hard to tell what people are thinking when they are looking at our hair. I think much about Europe is just different-- even the dyed hair colors are different (they seem to favor darker colors, less highlights). I’m not going to let it get to me, since I live in good old California… Thanks for the encouragement, everyone.
Posted by on 11/30 at 02:28 PM
Jennifer - love the new pic. If people were staring at you it IS just because of your beauty. Runner - are you in the southern CA area? Can you make our gathering?
Posted by on 11/30 at 02:38 PM
I’m in the central valley- so, maybe! When and where is the gathering? I was out of town for the last one, so didn’t try to connect-- but it looked like fun! Let me know…
Posted by on 11/30 at 02:48 PM
Jennifer,
You look awesome! It shouldn’t be hard to pack something that makes you feel sexy either.
Next time you feel close to grabbing the bottle: Check out Sharon’s story. I think somewhere in there is her great tale about getting a fun wig for when she felt a bit deflated about her natural color. She went out on the town with it, and got feedback from her pals. (they all liked the silver better!)
Posted by on 11/30 at 08:27 PM
Rosa,
Looking fabulous in your silver!
Ruth
Posted by on 11/30 at 08:28 PM
Rosa - You look wonderful in your natural silver and your great short style. Such a beautiful transition! :o)
Posted by on 11/30 at 08:33 PM
Rosa, looking good!
Posted by on 11/30 at 08:48 PM
Congrats Karen and Rosa!!
Jennifer~ You look great! Thanks for sending updates!
Posted by on 12/01 at 05:06 AM
Rosa: you look so sparkling and beautiful. Your hair color, your skin tone, your beautiful eyes...you sure put the “looking great” into the Going gray, looking great!
Jennifer:what can I say, another home-run picture!
Posted by on 12/01 at 05:09 AM
Rosa, congratulations!! Another beautiful gray grad, you look stunning!
Posted by on 12/01 at 05:34 AM
Rosa and Jennifer you look AMAZING!!!
Posted by on 12/01 at 07:33 AM
congrats rosa now you have your “diploma”!!! i love the short hair…
i know what you guys mean with the “have to keep ourselves up now” feeling...went shopping with my neice who came in from out of town ...hit Urban outfitters which is a very hip and trendy store for the YOUNGER SET for sure!! caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and thought uh oh...need a little something...looking a little washed out ...even with the makeup on!!! so my daughter and i found some new brighter lipstick yesterday and she taught me a little bit about the eyeliner stuff…
gee this “keeping my self up” is going to take a bit of work!!
louann
Posted by on 12/01 at 08:05 AM
Rosa,
You look great. It’s just like everything goes to together perfect! - Deb B
Posted by on 12/01 at 11:31 AM
Rosa and Jennifer, like everyone, you both look just incredible.
Posted by on 12/01 at 11:51 AM
Rosa, you look wonderful! I was in step aerobics tonight, missing my ultra-easy short-short do and you make it look tempting… Thanks for the photo compliments, all-- Expressly Portraits (one of those one-hour places) did a great job and the 20-something photographer complimented my hair. Again, one of those compliments that must be sincere, as she did not know me at all.
Deb-- I understand the temptation to grow (as you can see) but you really look GREAT with your graduation-photo short length.
Louann-- you are so right. I have become a Sephora regular since going gray and have a veritable product graveyard. Still looking for the right make-up look, not to mention a pair of somewhat-sexy jeans that actually fit me…
Posted by on 12/01 at 08:03 PM
Ruth-- just saw your comment about the wig-- funny you should mention it-- I bought a sexy highlighted-brown Raquel Welch wig when I started this process because I was afraid my hairdresser would refuse to do the chop. Maybe I should take it out for a spin just to see.
Elizabeth-- as do you. You are so beautiful and an inspiration all around-- hair, kids, tattoo and especially spirit!
Posted by on 12/01 at 08:10 PM
Jennifer~
When I was in AZ I walked past a huge hair/wig store, it was amazing! I had never seen anything like it, I just wanted to go in and try them ALL on I wasn’t able to cuz we were on our way to the tat studio.
Anyway...you gave me an idea, I think it would be a riot if ALL of us brought our “rats” to New York and played around with them doing different looks! I guess it’s my inner child who liked to play “dress up” coming out I have 6 different pieces 3 gray,2 brown,1 auburn/brown,and I have my bright hot pink extensions!!
By the way, I love the shimmering soft curls of your hair! You look so beautiful!
Have an amazing day!!!! E
Posted by on 12/02 at 02:25 AM
Thanks to everyone for your nice comments and support thru this whole transition. I am loving my hair and will probably keep it pretty short and even shorter in the summer. I am so glad to be rid of the bottle color. My hair feels so much healthier and so do I. Keep up the good work everyone!
Posted by on 12/02 at 11:25 AM
Today I got the first sort of compliment, I think, from a complete stranger. I was at Walmart and getting ready to check and I noticed that this woman kept watching me and I had no idea who she was. She finally came right up behind me and said that she can’t wait until her hair is completely gray and asked me how long it took. I told her since March and that is the whole complete conversation right there! That’s it. Is that a compliment? Maybe not, but I’ll take it that way! - Deb B
Posted by on 12/03 at 05:14 PM
Debbie-You BET it’s a compliment! She said she can’t wait for her hair to be like yours!! And here’s another one from a distant nonstranger...YOU LOOK GREAT!
Welcome Home Rosa! You’ve got such a super color! And I have those EXACT earrings on in my photo above...they just aren’t visible...I think we’d have a BLAST together!
Love the curls, Runner...you look like a MILLION BUCKS!
~dede
Posted by on 12/04 at 06:27 AM
Dede, how funny is that? My daughter asked if I was reverting back to the past, I told her No, but they really look nice with my hair. lol
Posted by on 12/04 at 11:35 AM
Rosa - your hair looks fabulous. So far, everyone that I have seen on this site, looks as good or better than they did before. Just goes to show that silver/gray/charcoal ROCKS!
Posted by on 12/04 at 02:00 PM
Thanks Karen! Right back at ya! I don’t know why I wasted so much money and time coloring. It’s not like it looked natural or even good. lol
Posted by on 12/05 at 01:54 PM
Rosa, I ask myself that question all the time. Just imagine what we could have done with all the money spent on salon color visits!
Posted by on 12/07 at 05:48 PM
I just want to say that you all look very beautiful with your natural colors!! I hope i may join you one day,it sure makes me going!
Petra
Posted by on 12/09 at 05:34 AM
Hi! Each one of you looks so great as the natural you! I am really encouraged. Just beginning my process. Instead of going for my coloring appointment to get my auburn refreshed, I just put a semi-permanent ash brown on, and I didn’t leave it on even the full amount for non-gray hair, because I didn’t want a stain. Result, I can still see gray, but it isn’t as obvious, and it will start to rinse out, I assume. I was going to get it lightened all over as a first step, but a huge plumbing disaster caused me to rethink the budget! 100.00+ or 6.00...hmmm. When this starts to fade, then I’ll have another decision. Should I go cold turkey at that point, or put on another light neutral rinse, and then cut my hair soon after that to get rid of some of the darker, redder hair? To dye, or not to die, that is the question...I don’t really want to cut my hair very short,,,it just isn’t becoming on me. I don’t have good bone structure!!!
Posted by on 12/09 at 04:55 PM
WOW! I think all of you grads look much better with your natural hair color! Makes me wish I would have just left mine alone in 1999 long with all my streaks!...but lessons learned and with the help of this site I look forward to joining you in 2009!
Posted by on 12/13 at 09:49 AM
Dara/greeneyes - LOVE your hair!!!! Hurraaay for you! You go girl!!!
Posted by on 12/14 at 06:52 PM
DARA!!!! You made it! Your eyes are the clearest, prettiest green! And, wow, do they sparkle against those shiny silver highlights flowing through your hair! You sure made the right choice to hang tough through what I know was a difficult process at times! Can’t wait to join you here!
Posted by on 12/14 at 07:00 PM
Dara~ You are absolutely gorgeous!!! Congratulations!! (and thanks for the cookie receipe!- I’ll be thinking of you!) woo hoo!!! Way to go! - Helen
Posted by on 12/14 at 07:06 PM
Dara, you look beautiful! Congratulations! You look great and I know you’ll be an inspiration to many would-be GGLGers. Jennifer
Posted by on 12/14 at 07:07 PM
Thanks so much, ladies! I appreciate all of the sweet and encouraging comments.
I’m so excited to join you, Jennifer. And to the rest of you, I’m watching for the day you all graduate! :o)
During this transition I would look at my before picture and wonder if I would be as happy with my gray as I was with the dye. I have to tell you, I am so much more comfortable in my own natural colors. I’m not a dramatic transition, but I think it’s so much better than the fake dye.
Posted by on 12/14 at 07:23 PM
Dara!
Wooo! yippie! You look amazing! That year was so worth it...thanks for sharing everything with us!
Ruth
Posted by on 12/14 at 07:33 PM
Fantastic Dara!
I think you & I actually will have similar ‘highlights’ when I finally graduate - but mine are taking longer than a year. It looks great on you! Thanks for sharing.
m
Posted by on 12/14 at 07:38 PM
Dara, I hope you will still hang out with us newbies who are still growing out, chopping off or just struggling with the decision to continue. We will need you! Your many words of wisdom have helped so many of us during times of uncertainty. You are to be congratulated for staying true to yourself and wow it has paid off, your look lovely with your long, shiny silvery hair!!!
Posted by on 12/14 at 08:00 PM
Thanks Ruth, Mika, and Lulubell. :o) Such kind words.
And yes, Lulubell. I’m still hanging out with you all. :o) You can’t get rid of me that easy.
Posted by on 12/14 at 08:13 PM
Hi Dara! You look wonderful! I am where you were a year ago, just starting out. And my hair color is about the same, although my eyes are not! Last week, as I was headed to a business weekend, I put a temporary color, ash brown, on my roots, but I was in a hurry and didn’t leave it on the full time, so it didn’t really cover, and after one washing, I have just as much white as before! So, for the time being, I"m going cold turkey, I may experiment with some low lights, as I really don’t want to cut my hair much shorter. But, seeing you, with such similar hair, make such a nice transition, and graduate, gives me added hope that I’ll actually come out on the other end!
Posted by on 12/14 at 08:54 PM
Way to go, Dara, a transition done with such finesse (despite the few wobbly moments that we all have)and elegance. Looking great!
Posted by on 12/14 at 09:02 PM
Thanks, Becca. I’m so glad my transition gave you some encouragement. :o) At times the year seemed to crawl, but looking back, it really wasn’t so bad. To me, it was worth hanging on to some length.
You can do it! Just stick close to this site and enjoy the journey! Are you joining the newbies? It really helped me to just let it all hang out and jump in. :o) I’d love to watch your transition!
Posted by on 12/14 at 09:09 PM
Hi Christie. Thanks! Yeah, there was some teetering and tottering at times. :o) I guess it just makes the accomplishment of finishing even more gratifying.
Posted by on 12/14 at 09:14 PM
Congratulations Dara
What a great Christmas present to yourself
Posted by on 12/15 at 01:47 AM
Dara wow, you are stunning!!! Your hair sparkles and this has really lifted your face and makes you look a lot more youthful than the dye. I’m so thrilled for you! Jane xx
Posted by on 12/15 at 03:08 AM
Dara~ You look amazing! I’m so happy for you! You are an inspiration to many! Enjoy the Christmas gatherings...the compliments are gonna be plentiful
Posted by on 12/15 at 04:53 AM
Dara, although everything has been said about how great you look, I just have to say it again because… YOU LOOK AMAZING!
Wow, what a gray inspiration you are, beautiful all the way!
Posted by on 12/15 at 05:05 AM
Dara, my sweet Texas friend! You look so amazing! I am so proud of you! You are a classic beauty and your natural color is like icing on the cake! I hope you have a wonderful holiday!! I’ll be in your neck of the woods from the 19th thur the 23rd...give me a shout and maybe we can double date!!
peace
~dede
Posted by on 12/15 at 06:59 AM
Thanks, Sharon. :o) Yeah, it does feel like a wonderful gift. One I had to work for, though...so maybe it’s more like a reward instead of a gift??? :o)
Ooooh. Jane. A face lift. :o) Your comments definitely lifted my face.
Thanks, Elizabeth. And thanks for being one of my main inspirations along the way...and of course, you still are. I feel like you held my hand some of the earlier days. :o)
Thank you, Catherine. I feel the same about you! :o)
Posted by on 12/15 at 07:03 AM
Oh Dede! I’ve missed you! :o) Thank you...you know I wanted to have your Paula Deen color… oh well… :o) It would be fun to see you! What a nice Christmas present.
Posted by on 12/15 at 07:06 AM
Simply lovely, Greeneyes. Congratulations.
Posted by on 12/15 at 09:05 AM
Dara, I’ve always thought you were so beautiful the first time I found this site and saw your pics. You’re so striking and you look just amazing. How cool is that to know it’s all you. I’ve always loved reading your posts, you have a way with words. What a grayate way to start a new year.
Posted by on 12/15 at 09:12 AM
Stunning, Dara, simply stunning! Your color and your beautiful spirit SHINE! I so admire your patience through the process. Congrats on your graduation!
Leeja
Posted by on 12/15 at 09:31 AM
Dara congrats on your graduation day!! It looks beautiful.
I can hardly wait until Im there. and I think keeping your long hair is great,Im considering going shorter because Im too impatient to wait for the gray to catch up.
But on a happy note,I met Friday with some ppl I havent seen in a year and they were all very supportive of my transition. I cant remember who made the statement the other day about looking at other’s hair but,Im always checking women hair out when Im out and think I want my gray to look like that or yuck I hope it doesnt look like THAT! haha. I hope they dont think I’m really checking them out,my husband tells me to stop staring:)
Posted by on 12/15 at 10:51 AM
Thanks so much, all, for making me feel more confident about going gray. :o)
Posted by on 12/15 at 10:59 AM
You are so very Welcome!! Hey, go check out Mary’s new photo in newbies 2nd semester, she looks so different, in a fantastic way of course!!
Posted by on 12/15 at 11:07 AM
Dara,
You look fantastic! I think the silver highlights are much more natural looking than the dyed stuff any day!
Congratulations!
Mary
Posted by on 12/15 at 06:00 PM
Thanks, Mary. I agree...dye is no match for the true, natural colors we all have! :o)
Posted by on 12/15 at 07:29 PM
Dara - what a beautiful final transition! And you kept your length too - that’s hard to do! Your eyes, which are beautiful no matter what color hair surrounds them, really stand out now. Sometimes mother nature knows what’s best for us, we just don’t listen.
Are you surprised by how much of the natural color returned? The part that isn’t gray? Mine doesn’t show much in my photos because it’s mainly in back, but I’m surprised....I thought I would be ALL white! Not so!
Posted by on 12/16 at 01:16 PM
Hi Karen. I’m so excited to join you here on this page. :o) I feel that your eyes also really stand out with your natural colors...your beautiful blue eyes seem even blue-er. It’s an amazing thing.
I am very surprised at how much dark I still have left. When dye-ing, those white roots seemed to tell me I would be pure white. :o) When I began the transition, I honestly dreaded watching the whites grow. Then when my new growth got longer, I was disappointed I was so dark. Now that the dye is gone I’m just gonna sit back and watch my hair grow awhile and turn lighter with each passing year. :o) It’s so much easier to just let nature take its course.
Posted by on 12/16 at 02:57 PM
Dara - I was quite surprised by the amount of dark hair I still had. I sent Diana a different picture...I’m not terribly pleased with the one above - I think I look too washed out. I sent her one with me outside, with my dog. That’s where I am the most comfortable and I think that is reflected in my face!
Posted by on 12/16 at 03:04 PM
Karen - I like your picture, but I look forward to seeing the new one, as well. I love seeing updates. I don’t think pictures do our color(s) justice. Wish we could see everyone in person. :o)
Your color is so pretty. I thought I would be as light as you. :o) Isn’t it strange that most (maybe all) of us have so much more dark in the back? My white is really odd. My bangs are darker and then I have some funky white patches in the middle of my head, then dark in the back. I don’t seem to have the whites surrounding my face like many do.
It’s really fun to see all of the patterns and shades of gray and silver and white. I never realized how different everyone’s colors are.
Posted by on 12/16 at 03:15 PM
Dara,
You look stunning! I haven’t been around for awhile and have to catch up on the site changes...but have to say how you look so elegant! Your cut, how it curls under and how the slate gray is fantastic with your eyes… I recall you wishing at some point that your color would be more silver but isn’t it great to know you are color free and how your natural will be always changing!? Congratulations...I’m a few months behind!
Shara
Posted by on 12/18 at 12:01 AM
Thanks so much, Shara. Yes, though I wanted more silver, I’m happy to be color free. I’m becoming more comfortable with my darker hair, and the feel of highlights it gives me. I always loved highlights before I began the overall dye in ‘04, so now I get that sort of look again for awhile. :o) For years, I suppose? I think it will be fun to watch our hair do its thing and get lighter throughout the years.
I’m looing forward to having you join us here! I know you are getting so close. I can’t wait to see your before and after picture side-by-side. :o)
Posted by on 12/18 at 07:20 AM
Whoa Dara! It almost sounds like we are looking forward to getting older so we can see our color grow more silver!! Isn’t that a hoot?! Who would think some years back we would be looking forward to a silver mane...makes me
I’m trying to hold on to some length and at 10 months now, I am not quite there. My next (hopefully but not definitely) final cut will be February. It’s hard to believe that almost a year has gone by since I started this new adventure.
Posted by on 12/18 at 08:56 AM
Yeah, it’s pretty unbelievable that we fought the gray so much and now we celebrate it. Don’t you feel like so many of your perceptions have changed? I know some ladies say they look in the mirror and don’t recognize themselves. My hair is still dark enough so I don’t have that issue. My issue is “looking” at my mindset now and not recognizing myself in that way. Does that make sense?
It sounds like you will be finished at a year, then. It took me an entire year, too. I think we did pretty darn well hanging onto some length and still finishing in a year. :o)
Posted by on 12/18 at 09:26 AM
Yep Dara, you make perfect sense.
An entire year may seem long to some but it’s interesting to look back and see how our perceptions change throughout. For myself, this has been an event-filled year on a personal level and the decision to go “natural” was a step in a positive direction of a mid 50’s new adventure.
Posted by on 12/18 at 09:57 AM
Dara, you look great! Congratulations on graduating.
Liz
Posted by on 12/20 at 08:40 AM
Thanks, Liz! Just think. One day you will join us here! :o)
Posted by on 12/20 at 08:51 AM
Karen,
What a stunning graduate photo of you! Wow! You look awesome!!!!!!!!!
Posted by on 12/25 at 12:57 PM
I"ll second that Karen, you have the colour we all want!!
Posted by on 12/25 at 01:00 PM
Love the new photo, Karen! Great color, style, and I like the outdoor shot.
Posted by on 12/25 at 01:41 PM
Karen, you look years and years and years younger. No kidding, it’s incredible! WOW!
Jane xx
Posted by on 12/25 at 02:29 PM
wow karen…
that is a really great shot of that gorgoeus silver/white!
mother nature once again doing her job!!!
enjoy the rest of your christmas day!
louann
Posted by on 12/25 at 04:05 PM
Karen, amazing, how beautiful, you definately look at least ten years younger. Gorgeous transformation! There is no doubt that this is the look for you and the color that nature intended, I also love the length and style on you.
Marisa
Posted by on 12/25 at 04:36 PM
Karen! You are shining! beautiful! stunning!
Posted by on 12/25 at 05:32 PM
AWESOME Karen!!!!!
Posted by on 12/25 at 05:49 PM
Dara: You made it! You look absolutely fantastic! What a journey, and I know you had some frustrating moments. It was definitely worth it, though, wasn’t it?
Karen: You look stunning and wow--so much younger. You must be very happy you did this, too!
Posted by on 12/25 at 06:24 PM
Congrats Karen,def turned into a lovely butterfly,luv everything about it.
Posted by on 12/25 at 06:32 PM
Karen,
You look incredible! Can I look like that too?
Posted by on 12/25 at 07:56 PM
Thanks, Lisa. And yes, definitely worth it!
Posted by on 12/25 at 08:06 PM
Wow - I’ve been feeling under the weather this week - a slight intestinal bug of some sort, but feeling better today. Not enough to knock me totally out - just back a bit.
Thanks so much for all the compliments - they boosted me even more! I love my new color. Saw my SIL over the holidays and she said she thought my natural hair color made me look older...first negative comment I’ve received. But you know what? Her comment didn’t bother me in the least. I know better - I’ve never felt freer about what I did and what I’ve accomplished. My husband said he thought she was nuts (I think I’ll keep him around ) and I actually felt sorry for her. To think that a hair color, and only a hair color, could make that kind of statement told me where her head was.
As I’ve always said, I look at a person’s eyes first...and that tells me tons. She must look at hair color 1st! It’s like judging someone on the outside, for what they have on the inside...I learned a long time ago never to do that - you can so misjudge people.
Now that the sun should be shining around here - I plan on getting outside more and breathing in all that clean fresh air - and exhaling the rest of those bad bugs out!
Can’t wait to meet up with my silver sisters - it’s only a few weeks away now!
Posted by on 12/26 at 07:10 AM
I also wanted to comment on my length. I’ve received a few comments on it. I was beginning to think I might need a cut, but quite a few have commented on the length. It’s been 3 months since my last cut - so it’s grown out quite a bit. I think when I go it next, I’ll just say ‘reshape it’. I like the length too! I swear it’s growing faster....is it just my imagination?
Posted by on 12/26 at 07:12 AM
glad you are on the mend karen...i have a family party tomorrow and fully expect to hear “nothing” about the color which means thumbs down...i have been thinking about the “power” of the bottle...(uh oh) some PEOPLE (men included) think by coloring their hair they have taken care of “that” issue(aging) one still really needs to follow thru with style etc...this is such a work in progress… man oh man what happened to all those bra burners??? how did you let victoria secret convince you that cleavage up to our chin was what really wanted all along??? (ahhh i digress...)anyway aging is a reality and i intend to do so GRAYCEFULLY ...and with MY OWN style (hey maybe i will buy those dumb jeans that make your butt look smaller!!!...is there such a thing???)…
back to the SIL(ly) comment...i fully expect that most of us will have people thinking the same thoughts… that is because of what we have all learned here PEOPLE THINK GRAY=OLD...simple as that ...i too fell into that same category ...so there is hope (with how much this site has grown… i have no doubt)that once people see more and more of us in our full fighting gear (white haired and armed with makeup and bright colors!!) they will see the light ...so to speak and leave the “dark side” and join us or at least CELEBRATE our chouce!!!
well take that all you commenters out there...and you know who you are!!! with your silly comments like “if mine came in like that....someone has to go FIRST...when i turn 60 i will let it “go” (go where?)..etc
happy day after....
does anyone else out there think they gained about 25 pounds in 24 hours?
louann
Posted by on 12/26 at 08:20 AM
Hah! Not in 24 hours, but it started with those candies greeneyes absolutely forced me to eat before making the cookies. Uh, then the cookies (which I am obviously eating single-handedly), and let’s not forget the whipped cream and caramel sauce on top of every hot beverage. I have to tell you—it all showed up on my holiday “glam” shot—although I couldn’t understand why that outfit “made” me look fat! This has gotta stop! I hate “I will work out” New Year’s Resolutions, though. Someone tell me there’s an easier way!
Posted by on 12/26 at 08:30 AM
There are jeans that make your butt look smaller??? 
Just where does it all go anyway?
Seriously, Karen glad to hear you are on the mend and getting outside in the fresh air will be wonderful medicine for you. Yet again, nature at work.
Louann, I’m realizing that each persons gray/silver is unique, like a birth mark, there are no two alike. So, when people say “I’d do it if mine came out like yours” maybe we should encourage them to see how God intended their’s to come out and maybe we’d be wishing ours came out like their’s.
Hopefully that makes sense.
Oh, and about family. My side is getting together tomorrow also, although there is only one brother and my SIL who haven’t seen it. My younger brother has seen it but I think he was too busy to notice so we’ll see. Luckily my parents will be there and my dad loves the idea of me going gray and my mom is loving the idea that I’ll be joining her soon.
Enjoy today and may it be stress free.
Diana, your amazing in your glam shot. I only see how TALL you are. I on the other hand look like.... Oh never mind...just think of it this way. I had two bed rest pregnancies in which my Dr. told me to eat, eat, eat so that my “early” babies would have a fighting chance. I folowed the dr’s orders and of course gained a ton of weight. I just kept reminding my self “healthy babies now and I’ll worry about the weight loss after.” So, for holidays it’s “eat and be merry, with a little excercise in between just to be able to wear what clothes I have.” I just kick it up a notch or two after the holidays and eat healthier but rarely “diet” after the gorging!
Marisa
Posted by on 12/26 at 08:52 AM
Oh, why did you have to bring up weight?! I DID gain 5 pounds, AT LEAST! And I weighed the day BEFORE Christmas Eve. I haven’t weighed since, let me tell you! :o) I was already eating too much candy and cookies. And then after all of the eating on Christmas Eve and Day...I don’t have the heart to step on the scale. And we have so many left-overs. Oh dear.
Oh, but I made the best coconut cream pie from scratch - our family’s favorite. The crust was great, the filling perfect, and the meringue...oh my! My mom would have been so proud! Usually we have to get out the spoons for my “cream” pies...or worse yet, my kids have been known to get out straws. :o) Somehow, I pulled it off...and we still have half of a pie in the fridge. Here comes another pound or two.
Diana - Sorry I force-fed you the candy and cookies. hee hee hee… I didn’t want to be the only one gaining weight.
I’m not a diet person, but like Marisa just eat a bit healthier and then I am on portion control. But I’m gonna need a couple more days while I work on all of these left-overs. :o)
By the way, Diana, I loved seeing how trim and fit you were in the hairstyle videos. You’re gonna be fine. :o) Just stay away from the Ferrero’s.
Posted by on 12/26 at 09:08 AM
ummm dara...4 cookies last night with green tea...(isn’t that supposed to make me LOOSE weight?)after the chianti brisket...and amaretto sours…
tomorrow is the family lasagna dinner...at least on new years we just do prime rib...and the best dang brussell sprouts ever...(now how easy was that)
anyway by the time we all meet on the 17th any wrinkles we have should be nice and plumped by the post hoiliday celebration!!
louann
Posted by on 12/26 at 09:28 AM
Lainla3, yes I’m sure I’ve gained a huge amount the past couple of days! In the 6 weeks leading up to Christmas I lost 9lbs through healthy eating and plenty of walking. I wouldn’t be at all surprised to find I’ve regained the entire 9lbs by the end of the holidays… so many leftovers and boxes of chocolates to get through!
Posted by on 12/26 at 10:01 AM
I have the trick to weight loss during the holidays. Get this intestinal bug that I picked up! I’ve lost 2 pounds! Not a lot - but usually I gain about 5! I wouldn’t wish anyone to feel this way and I’d rather be complaining about the weight gain - believe me!
I also do not diet. When I lost the 25 pounds this year I did it by changing my eating habits. Still eat the same stuff, I just really watch portions and I kicked up the exercise a notch. Today, I went for a nice long walk with my daughter and dog in the blustery chill- but the sun in shining! First bit of harder exercise I’ve had all week! The snow on the mountains is stunning. This is my favorite time of year - when I can stand on the pier at the ocean and look back towards the mountains covered with snow!
Posted by on 12/26 at 10:22 AM
Karen,you look BEAUTIFUL!.
Posted by on 12/26 at 10:26 AM
Karen, you look so pretty in your new picture! Beautiful.
Liz
Posted by on 12/26 at 12:22 PM
Karen, another huge WOW, what a great pic, you look so beautiful, your hair is such a great color. Mother Nature proves again, don’t mess with her, she knows what she’s doing!!
Posted by on 12/29 at 08:23 AM
wow is Debbe new,love the new look on you,if I’ve missed it before. I just cant keep up,good job girls,a 24 yr old nurse told me today she loved my gray,cuz a medical records lady told me the cut is nice but I should color it and the nurse told me not to touch it! Rock on....
Posted by on 12/29 at 10:23 PM
Dawn,
As an RN I would’ve said the same thing! Keep the gray! Could be that I’m gray too though. We GGs have to stick together or “dye” separately. (Borrowed and poetically licensed quote from Ben Frankling in “1776” upon the signing of the Declaration of Independence.)
Okay, big, big groan!
Mary
Posted by on 12/30 at 06:15 AM
Petra, you look INCREDIBLY STUNNING!!! Look at those EYES!!! Congratulations on a beautiful transition, and the confidence that you radiate for all women ready to pitch the bottle of dye! GOOD SHOW!
Karen! Your new growth is fantastic! Looking GREAT!
~dede
Posted by on 01/01 at 05:37 AM
Petra and Karen, I just love your new look. Happy New Year to all!!
Posted by on 01/01 at 05:53 AM
Petra WOW. You look young, young, YOUNG! Time and again I notice how terribly ageing dyed hair - and we all used to dye our hair to make ourselves look younger. Oh the irony of it!
Posted by on 01/01 at 06:03 AM
Petra - I am so excited to see your smiling face in the graduate gallery! You look younger, healthier, happier, and more beautiful in silver than with the dye. Another wonderful transition!
I just LOVE this page. There is nothing more fun than having the proof before our eyes that our natural colors are more kind to us than the dye!
Posted by on 01/01 at 07:56 AM
Petra, welcome to the graduates! You look so bright, confident and pretty, congrats!
Posted by on 01/01 at 01:05 PM
Yeah Petra! Loved seeing your pic here!!! Congrats on a speedy transition! You look bright and beautiful!
Posted by on 01/01 at 03:40 PM
Petra - you are another example that gray does not equal old. You look years younger! Your smile is so much brighter! Love the cut too - just fits your face so nicely! Welcome fellow graduate!
Posted by on 01/01 at 03:50 PM
Petra....love your story and also how terrific you made it to the Graduate section so quickly. I echo the others who say you PROVE that gray does not equal being old. You look fantastic. Enjoy the real you!
Shara
Posted by on 01/01 at 04:29 PM
fantastic...isn’t this the most fun?!! ever?!!
congrats again ms petra...you wer it WELL !!!
louann
Posted by on 01/01 at 10:20 PM
Thank you so much!! Yes this is a great site!!
Ha ha about the jacket:yes, its cold, but its all for a nice picture!!(Though i dont think its so cold as in us)
Ruth, what a lovely length!
Petra.
Posted by on 01/02 at 01:21 AM
Congrats, Petra! You look marvelous!
Mary
Posted by on 01/02 at 06:51 AM
Petra, you look amazing. Freedom, woohoo!!
Posted by on 01/02 at 08:45 AM
I cannot believe that I just discovered this page. It was so cool to see Dede and Dara (ladies that I met at the Texas Silver Sisters Meet). You guys all look amazing. I love the before and after.... After is definitely better.
Posted by on 01/04 at 02:53 PM
Hey Lynn! Long time no see! Hope you had a wonderful Holiday! Looking forward to the Texas gals getting together again sometime! Have a great week!
~dede
Posted by on 01/04 at 04:29 PM
Hey Petra (Catweezle)
Look how fast your transition went! You look lovely and your natural silvers really bring out the blue of your eyes. Stunning! Well done!
Posted by on 01/07 at 04:05 AM
Hi Dara, just to say congratulations on your graduation, I hope you’ll still keep posting to this site, I always enjoy hearing from you.
Your hair looks wonderful, so full of shine and body. I think I will be looking at May or June for a full grow out while keeping the length in my ‘bob’ hairstyle. Happy 2009!
Posted by on 01/07 at 04:13 AM
Hi Silverlake. Thanks for the congrats. I will still be hanging out and posting. It’s too much fun to leave.
I continue to watch your transition. The bob looks perfect on you so I can understand why you want to keep it, along with the length. Sounds like a late spring or early summer graduation is in store for you! :o)
Posted by on 01/07 at 07:14 AM
Hi Silverlake, thank you for the lovely compliment!
Petra.You have a beautiful bob,and that looks soooo good on you.
Posted by on 01/08 at 03:32 AM
Dara your hair looks great!
Posted by on 01/09 at 01:54 PM
Karenlme - Thanks so much! This pic was taken almost a month ago so I’m a bit longer now. I’m growing until I hit my pre-transition length and then I’ll decide whether to stop or keep right on going. :o)
Do I know you? :o) Seriously, there are so many new members here I sometimes get confused. Are you transitioning? Are you already a great gray? Any pics of you on this site? Inquiring minds need to know. :o)
Posted by on 01/09 at 02:50 PM
Hi Greeneyes, No you don’t know me yet. I have only made the decision about 4 days ago, and stumbled across this website in search of way to do this. I am finding this site so interesting, and supportive as well. I have about 6 weeks growth and find myself picking away at my scalp every morning to see what kind of a grey I’ll actually be, but I think it’s a tad premature to be figuring that out! I have quite long hair right now as well, so not sure what I will do while transitioning. I will see what I can do about getting a picture on here though.
Posted by on 01/09 at 03:48 PM
Karenlme - Hopefully you’ll see this in your inbox because it seems your last message isn’t showing up on the graduates gallery page.
Welcome to the wonderful world of transitioning! I’m so glad you found this site. I don’t think I could have made it without the support since I didn’t personally know anyone my age going gray.
It took me a full year to transition since I wanted to hang on to as much hair as possible. I went as short as I could without feeling completely naked. :o) Since I still have a lot of natural dark hair, my transition wasn’t as difficult as those with lots of white. I did have some lowlights the first couple of months and then just let nature take its course.
Sending in pictures will help so much as you get feedback and encouragement. I’ll be watching for you in the newbies 09. :o)
Posted by on 01/09 at 06:31 PM
Petra! Wow! How your face and features shine with your new look!
I now can see your beautiful face, so natural and great.
Congrats! I am sure you will inspire more women to get on the gray train.
Posted by on 01/10 at 05:56 AM
Hi Dara, no you don’t know me yet, I’m brand new to this site, that I found by chance while looking for ways to grow out gray hair. I am amazed at how great these women look, and finding it such a source of support for the decision I made just days ago! I have about 7 weeks growth, and hopefully I’ll get my before picture on here soon!
Posted by on 01/10 at 06:54 AM
Karenlme - Our messages are back. I sent you a personal message while it was on the blink which you hopefully already found. :o)
Anyhow, Can’t wait to see your pics in the newbies! I’ll be watching! :o)
Posted by on 01/10 at 12:22 PM
I’m new to this site too. I’m so impressed by how wonderful everyone looks. I stopped coloring in November. The growing out phase is tough for me-I’ve tried once before. I’m so tired of touching up the roots, because my hair is currently dark brown-closest to it’s natural color. Anyhow, your courage and support is of tremendous help to me. Thanks all.
Posted by on 01/11 at 06:21 AM
Petra you look grayte!! lol Love your cut and color.
Posted by on 01/11 at 07:40 AM
Welcome, Kim. Are you going to send in pictures for the newbies? You’ll get even more support! And this time you transition will be easier… this time you have this site. I also recommend Diana’s book. It is great while transitioning and beyond. Anyone who is gray needs it!
Posted by on 01/11 at 07:43 AM
Petra, you look great! You encourage me in my process, having just started the process in November, adding light ash highlights to blend the “line,” in December, plus a cut. Now I’m due for another cut, and need to decide whether to continue to blend with some more highlights, or just let it happen. Going from dark red-brown to gray, it is a real temptation to try to soften that line. I can see that my hair is not all that light yet from the roots, more like a charcoal color. I’m not really thrilled with that, as gray has never been a color I think looks good on me (Color Me Beautiful generation!). But, I am sick of the every 3-4 week chemicals and expense, and I’d rather not be hiding my gray. It makes me feel fake, more fake than make-up, or just high lights (or low lights) that enhance rather than hide. You look younger and more beautiful, so like I said, it gives me courage to hang in there!
Posted by on 01/12 at 06:35 AM
Hi Becca,encouraging is what we here for...You have right to go for your health...And health is always beautiful.
So go for it!
Petra.
Posted by on 01/12 at 09:09 AM
Hi greeneyes. I am planning on sending pics as soon as I figure out how to use my new camera! Hopefully in the next few days I’ll have some. I have a copy of Diana’s book and I love it! It’s so nice to see that others have the same transitioning issues that I have. I certainly can use the support. I gave into peer pressure last time. I was amazed by how offended others were by my gray hair. I can honestly say I don’t miss the dying process. My hair is dark brown, so my roots show within a week of coloring. My scalp feels much better too.
Posted by on 01/12 at 12:38 PM
Happy New Year to All,
Haven’t been on here for a while. Been so busy with holidays, anniversary, birthdays, flu, sprained ankle,etc., all kinds of fun! It all happens for me in a two week period and then I am finished for the rest of the year!
Mary, sorry to read about your classes, hope it all works out. I know how you were looking forward to getting started.
Welcome to the other grads. Doesn’t everyone look so so good! My hair is growing like crazy. You know I have complained about my hair being so stick straight, well, now I can actually use hot rollers and have been for a few days now to give it some life that lives all day! I have what I consider a short bob. I think I like it a little longer, little more feminine. My husband doesn’t say much about it, no real comments, but I know he doesn’t want me to cut it. So we will see how long this lasts. It is so much fun to watch everyone’s progress. I can’t believe I have been on here now since March. It will soon be a year and time has just gone so fast. - Deb B
Posted by on 01/12 at 04:16 PM
So nice to hear from you Deb. How did you hurt your ankle?? I agree, a little length does make you feel more feminine, although I have been vamping up the make-up to make myself feel more girlie!
Posted by on 01/12 at 04:31 PM
Deb,
I hope that you, Ruffdiamond and I can get together sometime in the spring. Another Pennsylvania Silver Sisters Get Together! RuffDiamond can get her hat and maybe this time you’ll wear yours!
And just so you won’t think I’m ragging on you, this time I’ll actually have gray hair to go with my gray hat!
Posted by on 01/12 at 06:57 PM
Lulubell,
I fell into a rabbit hole while on a hike a long time ago and am just now starting to recover from it. It was a very severe sprain and could hardly even wear shoes comfortably for almost 2 months. Much better now, thanks for asking.
Mary, ready for a get together whenever we can. - Deb B
Posted by on 01/12 at 07:24 PM
You fell into a rabbit hole??? Like Alice?? Did you say hi to the Mad Hatter and Cheshire Cat?
I’m sorry. I bet it hurt. Been there, done that, only it was my back I sprained. It does take a long time to heal. So glad you’re on the mend, Deb.
Posted by on 01/12 at 07:36 PM
Catherine - Nice update! Your hair is such a pretty silver.
Posted by on 01/13 at 06:28 PM
Catherine - looks like your hair is the “icing on top of the cake” with your silver getting longer and shining brighter and even more lovely than ever! Is it me, or is it true in your case that it continues to look lighter as gets longer?
Posted by on 01/13 at 08:09 PM
cat...it looks great!!! enjoy the freedom...love the color....you wear it well!!
louann
Posted by on 01/13 at 08:38 PM
Catherine,
The color is so lovely! Have you gotten many compliments on it? I mean outside from our group that is.
Mary
Posted by on 01/14 at 02:51 AM
Catherine,what a beautiful color you have...it goes so well with your skin!
Petra.
Posted by on 01/14 at 03:13 AM
Thank you GreenEyes!
GrayinCall: It just looks like it is lighter depending on the picture. On the one featured in the Great Cuts, my hair was still wet so it looked pewter or something On the last picture, I styled it differently so the silver didn’t show as much. As you might be able to tell on that picture, I definitely have “icing on top” (what a sweet expression!), my hair is still black on the sides, in the back and all around my face.
Louann: Yes! The freedom! That picture was taken on vacation in Cuba and I didn’t blowdry or style my hair for a week...wash and go!
Petra: thank you, you also look great!!!
Mary: Many compliments...no...a few...yes...I think some people are still recuperating from the shock of me cutting my hair short and being gray at 35 is not understood by many. My business associates told me they love the look though. It does give me an edge and a very distinctive easy to remember look . But Mary, I LOVE IT! And it’s all that matters really.
Thanks Diana for posting the new picture!
To all the still transitioning sisters: go ladies! Get inspired and don’t look back!
Posted by on 01/14 at 04:10 AM
Hello ladies - I seem to forget to check some of the pages ... and look at what I missed! Catherine, love, love, LOVE your beautiful silver!
Mary and Deb - yes! I’m looking forward to a mini meet with you guys! As for the hat? I am just NOT a hat girl ... through the winter I wear a heavy knit ski band .... so I’m just going to have to embroider GGLG on all my bands !!
I love reviewing all the “finished” photos on here ... everyone looks so fantastic!
Posted by on 01/14 at 05:29 AM
I think we’ll wait unti it gets warmer! I don’t think my head can take it! Maybe we could all go to Longwood Gardens. RuffDiamond, you can google it if you want to. It’s a pretty nice place.
Posted by on 01/14 at 01:25 PM
I love Longwood Gardens ... I go there at LEAST 4 times a year to catch the different “seasons” !!!!
That would be a great trip for us!!!!
Posted by on 01/14 at 01:27 PM
Catherine - if I’d only seen your previous picture I would have thought you to be a lovely lady. But when I see your transitioned photo - Oh my gosh - you are so lovely! I swear there is definitely a sparkle in everyone’s eyes - especially those that have ‘graduated’. Perhaps it’s that sense of freedom and truly being who you are!
Just lovely!
Posted by on 01/14 at 01:46 PM
We’ll go then. I know that Deb B. has been wanting to go as well. We’ll make a date when the time gets closer. Looking forward to meeting you in person.
Posted by on 01/14 at 01:48 PM
If we wait til warm weather, I’ll at LEAST have enough silver to be legitimate
Posted by on 01/14 at 02:08 PM
Thanks SBKaren!
I agree there is definitely a sparkle in everyone’s eyes...I hope mine shows up...I guess I need another coffee
Posted by on 01/15 at 04:35 AM
Lana and Laura --
You both look FANTASTIC with your pixies ... and as we keep seeing on here, both of your faces simply glow with the beautiful silver hair.
Posted by on 01/15 at 12:49 PM
WoW!! Petra you look sensational!
Posted by on 01/19 at 11:45 AM
Dara,
Great pic1 congrats!! I am having trouble also about not wanting to cut my hair yet wanting I guess I’ll have to hang in there and pullit back alot.
Judy
.925
Posted by on 01/19 at 11:47 AM
Hi Judy. Good to hear from you! I’m sure you are in a bit of a dilemna with your very long hair...trying to decide whether to cut or not. You should be getting some long roots by now, right? Will you be sending in an update soon? We want to see what’s going on! :o)
Posted by on 01/19 at 12:47 PM
Judy, hang in there girlfriend. I didn’t have long hair until my gray grew out, but I’m wondering if you have a long shag that it might help. I gave up and did the very very short cut, but regreted it immediately. Then I had to grow my hair out once the color “hit the floor”. As I was transitioning I started using Pantene Silver Expressions shampoo and conditioner to take the brassiness out of the blonde hair. I had done the blocks of color on my hair… dark blonde and very light blonde… it kind of toned down the “color” somewhat.
Posted by on 01/19 at 01:18 PM
Thank you Lynn your encouragement is priceless! Yes Dara, I am going to send pics tonight I think I may even have more silver than your hair though it looks alot like yours!
I did have it cut with more layers in Dec. The only thing I can think of is to wear it back alot.
Great to hear how every one is doing!
Judy
.925
Posted by on 01/19 at 02:26 PM
Hi Judy .925 - please do send pics in - I know what you mean, it’s a long wait if you want to keep some length in your style. I am going to be in that Class of 08 for a few more months more I think, cos I am determined to keep that bob : )
Layers are good - they can help break up the contrasting dyed/not dyed line. Looking forward to seeing your updated pics : )
Posted by on 01/19 at 02:35 PM
Thank you silverlake. I have been seeing that contrast between the dyed not dyed line, do you have any advice on when the top is shorter and the bottom longer showing one color on top and another color on the bottom? I am just wondering as it grows what my options may be. All I can think of is to wear to back.
Posted by on 01/19 at 05:27 PM
Comment on Lisa Baker; Your hair is absolutely gorgeous! I should be so lucky. I am two months into it and not sure what color I will have, but yours is incredible!
All of you ladies look so much better “natural”. You all look beautiful.
Posted by on 01/19 at 09:24 PM
Hi.925! When I was about 6 weeks into grow out I had very fine bleach highlights to help break up the line on top, whcih worked well, but as it has grown out I have seen that there is quite a contrast between my natural lower layers and the last dyed ends on top as well as the grown out line at the parting - and I didn’t like it! So, I had a quite a seriously shorter cut with layers. My hairdresser cut a lot of fine choppy layers into the ends of dyed stuff so the contrast between top and bottom was less noticeable. Hope this is helpful - I would suggest a shorter more layered cut while you transition and/or wear it back. Diana ‘our guru’ can you advise please?
Posted by on 01/20 at 01:34 AM
Hey Dede,
I would like to see some more pics of your hair now. I’m sure it’s grown a bit since I saw you last! I sent some yesterday it’s already been 4 months! You are such an encouragement I think we all need a spring fling weekend down here in Texas!
Posted by on 01/20 at 12:06 PM
Hey, Judy Girl!!! Great to see you posting againg! I am planning on getting some new pics of the hubby and I for the Sweetheart page that Diana is planning for Valentine’s Day. I had a trim a couple of weeks ago, to shape it up...but it has grown out a bit!
It would be great to have a spring fling! OR if you’re not busy this weekend, I’ll be in your town for a conference...give me a ring! Hang in there girlie...you’re a beautiful lady and will look even more fabulous with your natural colors flowing!!
~dede
Posted by on 01/20 at 04:57 PM
Dear Saucy & Silver,
Wow--thanks for the compliment! I hope it encourages you to know that I didn’t love my natural colour at first--it didn’t seem as interesting as many of my silver sisters’--but I’ve grown to love it for what it is! I have a new pic going up soon where you can see that some parts of my hair look silver but some are still brown. Going natural after many years of colouring, your hair is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you’ll get!
Posted by on 01/21 at 07:02 PM
Hey Catherine,
Great pic! Your color is wonderful and your hair looks so thick and healthy. You’re right, gray at 35 does make us distinctive and memorable . Are you planning to grow it out long again or keep a short cut?
Leeja
Posted by on 01/22 at 02:10 PM
Leeja! My young friend
Thanks for the compliment...yes, my hair is thick and then some, and even more healthy since it hasn’t touched dyes and chemicals.
I will let it grow long again, for the sole reason that I am lazy, and I find short hair is more work than long. I have to “style” my hair every day now while when it was long I didn’t have to. But it will be years until it is as long as it once was (sigh) so ....short until then
And you?
Posted by on 01/22 at 02:18 PM
Catherine,
I am going through growing pains right now, lol. I am hoping to at least get my hair to a chin length bob. That’s going to take a while if I wear it natural (not straightened) because of my curl. Three inches of growth equals about 1 inch in length with my curls. I know what you mean about the upkeep of short hair. The longer my hair is the easier it is I think (except for the buzz cut, now that was easy).
It is just so great to not have to worry with touching up my roots and all the damage the dye was doing to my hair. Very freeing indeed. My hair is healthier too, but of course not as thick as I’d like it to be. I swear my hair line is thinning in the exact spot where I use to blow dry it in high school (my hair was much thicker then). The style back then was high hair as I’m sure you recall, and we used to pull our bangs up high with a brush right at the root and spray with hairspray, then dry with the hairdryer. Gave lots of lift. But oh, had I known that it would damage the hair follices, I would have never have done it. Amazing the damage we will inflict on our hair to get the latest “style”.
Oh, I’ve rambled on.
Catherine, your hair looks great and I look forward to seeing it go to great lengths!
Leeja
Posted by on 01/22 at 03:01 PM
Leeja,
yes indeed, the buzz cut was easy to manage...except on mornings, when I would take that first look in the mirror and go “What? My hair is that short?”
Sorry about the hair damage fashion has caused you. I remember these hairstyles...I had the The Cure/Robert Smith hair style for a while...I probably am responsible for half of the ozone layer deterioration…
Growing pains. It’s difficult but it somehow seems like whenever I hate my hair and decide I have had enough and made up my mind to cut it again, I have the best hair day the day after. As if my hair is behaving knowing it is just this close from being buzzed again.
Anyways, keep us posted on progress and new pictures pleazzze
Catherine
Posted by on 01/22 at 05:29 PM
this is sooo funny..i know exactly what you mean ...my hair can drive me nuts...and the day i am scheduled for the cut...it looks great!!! oh well i cut it anyway...short is just so easy for me…
mo blo and go!!!
louann
Posted by on 01/22 at 05:34 PM
I’m am definitely on the “grow-out” plan. My husband is quite alright with the gray, but is not too crazy about the short cut. It’s something about the short bang “boy cut”, as he calls it, he doesn’t like. Of course, I like more hair myself too so we are on the same page.
As for pictures, I sent some into Diana yesterday. But I know it’s harder for her to update this page than the newbies so she updates the pics less frequently. But if you get out your magnifying glass, lol, you can see my new pic on the members pages.
Leeja
Posted by on 01/22 at 06:10 PM
i thought that looked like a new pic!!! i wear 1.5 readers while i am on the comp...so no problem!!! you look great!!
Posted by on 01/22 at 06:21 PM
Thanks Louann. Amazing what a little hair will do. I look back at the buzz now and am amazed that it was so short! 
Leeja
Posted by on 01/22 at 06:23 PM
Leeja - I went over for a peek at your member pic. Your hair is really growing! I am surprised at how dark it looks. Course, I know it could be the lighting or the smallness of the picture. Maybe the darker layers underneath are peeking out more? Anyhow, I like it more the longer it gets! :o)
Posted by on 01/22 at 06:39 PM
Thanks Diana for updating my pic. I still have a long way to go, but it’s getting there.
Leeja
Posted by on 01/22 at 08:16 PM
Ellenina,
Just love your new pic too. Your hair has grown so much. Just love the color, such great highlights!
Leeja
Posted by on 01/22 at 08:25 PM
Dara,
Really like the length of your hair. Maybe I’ll go past the chin length bob and go longer eventually. I just love the layers in your hair.
It is wonderful seeing everyones true colors! What lovely shades of gray
Posted by on 01/22 at 08:31 PM
Great updates Ellenina and Leeja! Your short cuts were nice but I love seeing those colors get longer. :o)
Thanks, Leeja. I’m still in grow mode. My hair is thick and does best with layers, no matter the length. I look forward to watching your hair continue to grow into your bob and possibly beyond!
Posted by on 01/22 at 09:13 PM
Yes, great pics Ellenina and Leeja! Seems like things are moving right along in the length department! Your colors are both still evolving and looking great! I’m going to try to grow mine a bit, then do a trim and possibly join the grads page with you! Anyway, keep those updates coming!!!
Posted by on 01/22 at 09:18 PM
Hey Leeja and Ellenina,what fun to see your pics! Wonderfull!!!
Petra.
Posted by on 01/23 at 01:55 AM
ellenina,
wow isn’t it amazing how great the gray looks??? what the heck were we so afraid of?!!! oh yea ...how was santa barbara??? we missed you sat!!! happy belated b-day to you and your sis!!
louann
Posted by on 01/23 at 06:38 AM
Lisa you look so elegant. I love the color red on you. Ellenina, your hair has grown so much! I know it feels like it doesn’t grow at all, but you went so short so fast that when I see your new picture I’m amazed at how your length now.
Posted by on 01/23 at 08:10 PM
Beth - Nice length you’re getting! And isn’t it great that your natural color is so much prettier than the dyed blonde you had?
Lisa - great update! It’s fun to see your hair gaining more length, and your silver gives such a softness to your coloring.
Posted by on 01/23 at 08:13 PM
Leeja and Ellenina: wow! how your hair has grown! You both look great
Lisa: as always...georgeous!
Beth: simply beautiful!
Posted by on 01/23 at 08:17 PM
wow everyone just moves right along!!
love all the latest updates!!
hair does grow when we’re not watching!! it is exciting to see how happy everyone looks with their “new” look!!!
ok ladies we are real GROW UPS!!!
now we need to throw our support to louise in the members album…
louann
Posted by on 01/23 at 09:15 PM
Leeja and Ellenina - you both look so terrific! WOW girls!! Jane xx
Posted by on 01/24 at 03:08 AM
Thanks for the compliments! I am enjoying having some length back so I can put it up again (most of it, anyway, some still won’t fit in a pony).
I see some other updates here I hadn’t seen before.
Cat-your silver is so striking. You really can see it more in this pic than the others. Looks so flattering!
Leeja--I think the same was true of my bf; he likes the gray and said he didn’t mind the short hair, either, but he’s happy to see more length now. You’re looking great!
Ellenina--you look wonderful! Nice to see your sister is giving natural a try. Mine was en route and got a little freaked out by something her colourist said and decided it wasn’t quite time for her. Oh well, maybe someday.
Beth--I love the colour and the length coming in. You seem to have lots of body in your hair, too--lucky you!
Dara, your new pic has been up a while but I’m not sure I had commented at the time--you look stunning! The colours in your hair are perfect on you. I do believe we all are given what suits us best (with a little help from wardrobe and make-up)!
Posted by on 01/24 at 05:42 AM
Beth and Lisa, love your new photos!!! You both look wonderful!!! As soon as I get some length I will send in a grad photo.
Posted by on 01/24 at 02:32 PM
Looking forward to seeing it, Lulu! I really like your latest cut!
Posted by on 01/24 at 02:44 PM
Thanks Lisa! Now that I am getting a little more length and some curls I am starting to like it much better. It was a shock at first but so worth it to be rid of the neon tips!
Posted by on 01/24 at 02:53 PM
Wow look at all the new photos!
Ladies you all look so beautiful ... and for those of you who wanted some length back .. look how much your hair has grown!!
Posted by on 01/24 at 03:04 PM
Thanks, Ladies. I love having a little length back. I love seeing everyone’s updated pics!
Posted by on 01/24 at 03:26 PM
Wow--I haven’t been here enough--Greeneyes-you look amazing!!!
Lisa--you too--wow your hair has really grown and looks wonderful!!
Catherine--your hair color is simply beautiful!!
Everyone looks so good!!
Thanks for your kind words--I love my color and while I am happy about the growth, I feel like I am at an awkward in-between length and will be happy when I have a few more inches in a few months.
Posted by on 01/25 at 07:31 PM
Thanks, Beth. Isn’t it fun to see how far we’ve all come from our humble newbie beginnings? :o)
Posted by on 01/26 at 08:13 AM
Yes greeneyes, I sure do remember. It’s amazing!
Posted by on 01/26 at 09:03 AM
Hi Beth,what a nice new picture!
Petra.
Posted by on 01/26 at 09:19 AM
Thank you Petra--I love your new look--so much brighter and beautiful!
Posted by on 01/26 at 09:37 AM
Beth, wow, it’s grown so much!! You look wonderful, great pic.
Ellenina, you look great, too. Our natural hair colors so suit us, don’t they?!
Posted by on 01/26 at 10:07 AM
Wonderful updated shots my fellow grads!! What incredibly beautiful women I have the fortune of showing up on this page with!! You all look amazing! Keep up the good work!
~dede
Posted by on 01/26 at 10:11 AM
Lisa and Beth - your updated pics are great and you both look gorgeous!
Posted by on 01/31 at 01:15 PM
Lisa,whats your hair grown much!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/01 at 08:35 AM
Ladies, you look beautiful. Every single one looks prettier than they did with dyed hair.
Petra, jij ziet er zo schattig uit! (for English speakers, that mean Petra you look adorable) What’s the reaction been from people in Holland? I live in the States but was born in Holland. Based on what I see among my relatives, you must be a true pioneer! Do people ask you about your silver hair?
Please forgive me if the subject is covered in another conference. I haven’t read through them all yet, being still new here.
Posted by on 02/04 at 02:19 PM
Hey Medusa,wat leuk! Er wordt niet zoveel gezegd over mijn haar:sommigen denken dat ik het zo geverfd heb,anderen vinden zichzelf te jong voor grijs,een enkeling vindt het echt mooi en naaste vrienden vinden het heel mooi. En zelf ben ik er heel blij mee! Alhoewel ik niet weet hoe ik mijn kleur moet noemen,dat was vroeger al zo...In english: There is not much said about my hair;some think i dyed it this way,others think they are too young to go gray,a single thinks its beautiful and people i love think its very beautiful! I am happy with it;though i dont know how to call my color;its not really silver or something,i would like to have a name for this color,thats the only thing i dont like...And welcome Medusa!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/05 at 12:09 AM
Hartelijk bedankt, het is leuk om hier te zijn!
I can’t wait to go back and show my cousins when I have my new hair!
Posted by on 02/05 at 11:57 PM
Carole - I’m so glad you gave us an update! It’s fun to see your beautiful hair a bit longer! I like your sweet-faced friend, too.
Posted by on 02/13 at 10:15 AM
Wow Carole,saw your new pic too! Beautiful!
Posted by on 02/13 at 10:31 AM
Carole .... you look absolute gorgeous!! Well done!
Posted by on 02/13 at 10:55 AM
I’d kill for your color Carole!!!
Posted by on 02/13 at 10:58 AM
Wow Carole, you are looking fabulously good! I absolutely love your new photo! And another thing I’ve noticed on here, hair aside, is how good looking the women on here are! I seriously mean that! Jane xx
Posted by on 02/13 at 10:59 AM
Carole, looking good. The color not to “dye” for!!
Posted by on 02/13 at 12:01 PM
carole, looking great and i love the style!!
you pal is pretty darn cute too!
Posted by on 02/13 at 02:29 PM
carol you could pass for the cooking lasy is her janice dean?
very pretty
Posted by on 02/13 at 04:16 PM
Carole, I second all of the above remarks!!! Lovely color, lovely smile!! Oh, and such a beautiful dog!
Posted by on 02/13 at 04:30 PM
Thanks to everyone! And, Chloe says, “Thanks too!” She belongs to a dear friend of mine who just recently adopted her. Isn’t she a beauty? Of course,
my cats think it’s a great white polar bear when she comes to visit us! I appreciate all of your sweet comments. You all are so special. Happy Valentine’s Day and have a great weekend!
Posted by on 02/13 at 10:34 PM
Hi Carole (and Chloe) - your new picture is great! I love it!
Posted by on 02/16 at 05:46 PM
You look GREAT, Carole!! What a great picture of you and sweet Chloe!!
~dede
Posted by on 02/16 at 07:27 PM
Suzanne! Glad you dropped in though I wasn’t expecting you! :o) I have thoroughly enjoyed watching your transition. Just wait till you get some length back and you’ll feel even more secure in your silver. You look beautiful!
Posted by on 02/17 at 05:49 PM
grayincali! Your hair looks AWESOME!!! You look sooo much brighter with your natural hair! Love it!
Posted by on 02/17 at 06:57 PM
Congratulations Suzanne! You look absolutely gorgeous!
Posted by on 02/17 at 08:53 PM
Thanks so much greeneyes, graytnw and carole. Greeneyes, I join you as one of the darker shades of silver! I’m in excellent company with you! Dena, I’ll be looking for you here soon with that awesome white you have coming on strong! And, Carole, you have by far one of the most shining icy, whites I have seen! It’s just beautiful and it was so nice to see your updated pic! I’ll be sending in pics in the future as my length comes in and I couldn’t agree more with you, Dara ... I think I’ll like this new silver/pewter/charcoal or whatever you want to call it even more as I gain some length!
Posted by on 02/17 at 10:25 PM
Awsome Suzanne, what a surprise! I love it! You are so beautiful in your silver and you look confident and comfortable as well. Congratulations!
Carole, your hair looks so silky and I love your color. Sweet, pretty dog, so I’m guessing you share him with your friend, like an aunt and then send him home at the end of the day. JK, I have a dog and love dogs.
Posted by on 02/18 at 04:28 AM
Suzanne--you’d look good with any hair color at any length but the “darker” gray is fabulous. Please don’t forget your undergraduate brethren and send in updated pictures if you do end up going longer. I know we’d all love to see them. Work those headbands!
Posted by on 02/18 at 04:34 AM
Suzanne, I too, love the darker gray. You and Carole have both transitioned into fabulous grays!!
Posted by on 02/18 at 04:38 AM
Suzanne,
Your hair is just beautiful. I agree with the other comments here, you do look much better with your natural coloring!
Posted by on 02/18 at 05:21 AM
Wow,Suzanne!!!!What an amazing beautiful transitioning...I love the dark charcoal,i would LOVE to have that color..
Your face comes out georgous au natural!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:00 AM
Wow Suzanne,what an amazing beautiful transitioning!!I LOVE the dark charcoal color;i wished i had that too...Your face is looking georgeous!! Very well done..
Petra.
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:05 AM
Wow Suzanne,what a beautiful transitioning!!! I LOVE the dark charcoal,i wish i had that too..Your face is looking georgeous with your hair,really amazing!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:09 AM
O please,post my note!!
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:12 AM
Wow,Suzanne!!
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:14 AM
Suzanne, I commented over on TALK ON, but in case you haven’t hopped over there .....congratulations on your graduation .... and WOWZA! do you look gorgeous, or what?!
You looked lovely in your “before” photo ... but ANYONE can have THAT color ..... let’s see someone duplicate your gorgeous multi-tone pewter !!!!
I think I’ll be in the pewter category as you and Dara ... and I can’t wait!!! You ladies look spectacular!
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:15 AM
Marisa,
Thanks for your sweet compliments! Loved your thoughts about sharing the dog. I’ll tell you this much, she is the sweetest most gentle large dog I’ve been around in my life. Unfortunately for me, they live two hours away - so I don’t get to see them as often as I would like. What kind of dog do you own?
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:23 AM
Diana, something’s up. Comments are showing up on the Home page in ‘Who’s Sayin What Where on GGLG’ but not in each thread. Or is it just non-techno me?
Posted by on 02/18 at 06:35 AM
Congrats, Suzanne! You look so beautiful! Your natural color is perfect! You are certainly a head-turner! Enjoy!
~dede
Posted by on 02/18 at 07:17 AM
Suzanne:
Love the new you! It will be fun to watch as your hair grows longer. Keep sending those updates!
Funny how so many of us who were trying for “chocolate brown” ended up with red/brown hair!
Posted by on 02/18 at 07:25 AM
wow suzanne!!! that didn’t take tooo much time and not THAT many headbands!!! you look beautiful!!! as we all knew you would!!! congrats…
love love love the dark color ...with all the “shimmer highlights” from mother nature!!!
enjoy yourself!!!
Posted by on 02/18 at 07:33 AM
Hey Suzanne! You look great. Love the headband too.
Can’t wait until we are both sporting some length. Congrats on you graduation!
Carole, I love the new pic. Your color is wonderful. I hope when my white all comes in it will glow like yours!
Leeja
Posted by on 02/18 at 07:59 AM
I’ve seen all of the comments on the homepage. Thanks everyone! C’mon over and join me ladies who are done growing out the color but waiting for length! I was thinking that I might have a touch of color left on the tips, but I think as Dara once mentioned, sometimes our original natural color might be “disguising” itself as dye! Diana encouraged me to move on over with this pic and send in updates as my length comes in!
Posted by on 02/18 at 08:00 AM
Looking great Suzanne - it seemed to happen very quickly
Posted by on 02/18 at 08:04 AM
Suzanne, you’re radiant No wonder people do a double take. You look awesome, and again, what an example of “gray” does not equal old. Congrats!
Posted by on 02/18 at 08:45 AM
Suzanne you look gorgeous. It definitely suits you so much!! Jane xx
Posted by on 02/18 at 10:50 AM
Suzanne! I’m so glad you didn’t wait to send in your picture! You look awesome! I can’t wait until I can join you!!!
Posted by on 02/18 at 01:02 PM
Who would have guessed!!! So much for my detective work! Congratulations Suzanne, you have managed to surprise me! What is left to say that hasn’t been said already??? You do us proud here at GGLG with your lovely, youthful face and your gorgeous, frosted pewter hair.
Posted by on 02/18 at 02:15 PM
Yeah, Lulubell, you had me convinced with your detective work. :o) I’d still hire you. I like how your mind works. :o)
Posted by on 02/18 at 02:39 PM
Just now getting back to you Carole. I have a mix breed. She’s believed to be a Basenji mix. Her name is Zippy and it’s very fitting for her. She’s a 26 lb cute red head, with graying chin hair, but once I’m done with my transition she’ll be the only one with red hair in the house! Mine was never sopossed to be red.
Posted by on 02/18 at 02:51 PM
Love the name, “Zippy!” Too cute! And love the fact that she is a redhead!
Posted by on 02/18 at 08:35 PM
CONGRATULATIONS Louann!!!!!!! You have arrived! Your hair is lovely, lovely, lovely!
Posted by on 02/21 at 06:59 AM
Ahhh! Louann! Congrats to you! I love the color(s) of your hair - especially the way the lighter hair frames your face. Another wonderful transition. :o) So, so, so much better than the dye!
Posted by on 02/21 at 07:05 AM
Oh Suzanne and Louann - I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the new pictures, and in all honesty - you both look younger with your natural hair color than when you dyed. Amazing - isn’t it? Too bad all the rest of the world doesn’t realize its not the gray hair color that makes us look old - it’s just all in the attitude! You go girls!!!
Posted by on 02/21 at 07:17 AM
Wow Louann! Just beautiful! I think you have found your “look”. Work it girl, work it! Congrats.
Leeja
Posted by on 02/21 at 07:28 AM
Bravo Ladies!!!!
If anyone ever has any doubts, just come to this page and look at this bevy of BEAUTIFUL women!!!
It really is only a matter of time before the whole world can “see the light of gray”!
You ladies continue to lead the way!! Thank you for your stories and mentoring for us still on our way!!
Goldie
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:09 AM
thanks everyone for all the kind words....i am just so happy to be rid of all the burnt hair look!!!
thanks again to our fearless leader...diana you have been sooo busy with all the new “newbies” you might even be a bit busier than “octomom” 
have a great weekend everyone…
keep youe eyes on all the “phony hair “ tomorrow night!!! out here in tinsel town!!
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:09 AM
Ha! I’d rather be octopus than octomom because I wish I had 8 hands!
Gee, I just thought of something—Goldie is really an octomom, which would make Elizabeth a septomom! Of course, they didn’t have them all at once, but still. . . can you only imagine?!?
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:33 AM
Together, Elizabeth and I are sepoctomoms! Sounds like a rare, incurable disease! The dr. says, “You ladies have sepoctomom..” “Oh, no! Doctor, is it curable?” they ask. “No.” says the dr. in a grave voice. “And when these things begin to grow, they can multipy!” the dr. shivers. “They may even try to come back into the host after they leave!” (Hee, hee! I really do enjoy being a mom and grandma!)
Goldie
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:47 AM
Amazing metamorphosis Louann! You look beautiful and I’m sure you’ll be an inspiration to any dyed ‘n’ fried ladies dropping by the website to see what all the fuss is about. If I had the guts to go short (I don’t), I too could be fully transitioned. Six more months...... please stick around and hold the hands of your newbies semester two sisters. We’ll get there eventually with some serious encouragement from those who already have their transition diploma.
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:51 AM
I’d like to send out a big woo hoo to Louann this morning! Beautiful pic ... beautiful hair .... just plain beautiful lady!! You are now another on the list of those of us who have said bye-bye red! But you are looking “red carpet” ready! Please, like everyone said, keep those laughs comin’ our way!
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:59 AM
YES,Louann!!! BEAUTIFUL!!!!How liberating,he?This suits you soo good,really well done!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/21 at 09:03 AM
Louann, you look soooo good. And only 6 months! Congatulations. Super cut and color.
Posted by on 02/21 at 12:52 PM
Louann! You look fabulous! What a difference from you beginning photo. You are absolutely glowing!!!
I’m so proud of all my So Cal silver sisters. I’m the slow poke of the group, but I WILL get there eventually.
Congratulations!!
Posted by on 02/21 at 01:41 PM
You look wonderful Louann, truly a stunning transformation. I realise I haven’t congratulated Suzanne and Petra yet! I’m so sorry for being so slack, you girls look great, doing us silver sisters proud!
Posted by on 02/21 at 02:01 PM
Lookin’good, youre looking so good…
Louann, if there are any doubts about going gray - you eliminate them all.
So please, stay with us Newbies, we’re gonna need you
Posted by on 02/21 at 02:17 PM
Louann, I would like to second what Barbara said. You are so fun to read. And a wonderful inspiration. Stay with us Newbies, please. I’d love to see what your hair does next and I would love to continue laughing at with you.
I just showed my husband the GGLG book and his response is: You need a book to go gray?
What could I say? Yeah, I needed this book!
Posted by on 02/21 at 02:58 PM
I guess men think it’s the most natural thing in the world. Easy for them to say. They don’t have to worry about getting their makeup right, their skin glowing, and their wardrobe re-colored. They’re going to continue to wear brown and camel and wonder what all the fuss is about! But ya know what? That’s why we’re the arm candy!
Posted by on 02/21 at 03:20 PM
Louann and Suzanne...oh my...there goes another myth: grayers are not sexy...Look at you ladies! Beautiful, perfect, vibrant.
Bravo! How inspiring!
Posted by on 02/21 at 03:41 PM
oh you guys are way tooo nice...mother nature has proven on page after page here (thanks to our fearless leader who by the way did not plan on going gray herself… ) that gray IS a color…
i was at a memorial service today ....(side note..he was one of those preemie grays at 21...and becasue he was a man he was a total “hottie” he died at 74 with his full head of pure white hair...i digress..imagine that)....anyway my daughter paid me the highest compliment (which also goes to all of YOU)mom ever since you started this process all i see is how FAKE everyones’ hair is… VICTORY ladies VICTORY !!! i can write off the 18 yr old son who said sorry mom you look fine but you look older...i asked him should i color it ??? “NAH"… I LOVE 18 year old boys…
he will be someones son in law someday....ha ha
well again THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU…
don’t get tooo sick of me...i ain’t goin’ anywhere…
Posted by on 02/21 at 07:25 PM
Louann.....FABULOUS!
Posted by on 02/21 at 07:27 PM
Suzanne and Louann-- your look awesome!! Not much time to hang out here these days.. whew!.. but wanted to say hi and let you know how terrific you both look.
Jennifer from B-town
Posted by on 02/21 at 07:34 PM
Congrats Louann! Nice to see you in the graduating class! You look fantastic!
Posted by on 02/21 at 08:56 PM
Hey Louann...you look Great!!!
Posted by on 02/22 at 01:04 PM
Louann you look faboulous!! way to go on graduating.
Posted by on 02/22 at 05:52 PM
Way to go Louanne! You look absolutely beautiful! Such a wonderful transition! Congrats!
~dede
Posted by on 02/23 at 06:49 AM
Louann, beautiful! What a wonderful transformation, I love your total look and you even have a sparkle in your eyes that is not there in the first pic. Way to go Louann!
Posted by on 02/23 at 07:42 AM
Louann and Suzanne--you both look wonderful. I’ve been meaning to post, so sorry! A belated welcome to the Newbie Graduates Gallery!
Posted by on 02/23 at 08:41 AM
Congrats Louann & Suzanne!! It’s amazing it seems everytime we get a new grad, they look 10 years younger & their skin looks brighter & Louann & Suzanne are defiently no exception! You both are such an insparation to me and keep me hangin in there! It may be a while for me but I will get on this page.....someday!
Judy
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Posted by on 02/23 at 09:01 AM
on behalf of all my fellow munchkins i thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!!
xo
Posted by on 02/23 at 09:02 AM
Louann,
Congrats on getting to the Newbie Gallery! There’s just no question you look more vibrant and beautiful in your natural haircolour. Way to go!
Posted by on 02/23 at 09:03 AM
Thanks again all for the sweet comments!!! I am quite sure I would not have seen this through had I not found this website and wonderful group of women to cheer me on. For all of you newbies, you are doing the right thing charting your progress for all to see and I look forward to this page expanding with more and more women ready to embrace “natural” and all of the benefits that come with it!
Posted by on 02/24 at 12:32 PM
louann and Suzanne -Congrats! I’m sorry I haven’t been here sooner - I got a new computer and I’ve been so busy transferring everything over from the old to the new that I haven’t done much visiting.
But let me say - I have a brand spanking new 20” monitor with high clarity of color - and WOW! Everyone looks so good!
louann - your son knows not of what he speaks. You DO NOT LOOK OLDER at all! I think you look more vibrant and happier and all that shows in your face. You look more relaxed.
I agree with your daughter too - I notice the colored hair on women now and I truly realize how lifeless it looks. Not shining and vibrant and REAL like ours!
Suzanne - your transitioning has been a transformation! You look just stunning!
I’m going to a fund raising dinner this Saturday, but there is another star gazing night on the 28th if you want to try it again!
Posted by on 02/24 at 01:44 PM
Carole, great picture, what a great complexion you have.
You look so good the cute puppy next to you seems just average looking
Gray day to all!
Posted by on 02/25 at 03:43 AM
Oh, Louann, fabulous!! Really, the cut, the color, the colors you’re wearing. WOW!
Posted by on 02/25 at 09:06 AM
I needed a transitioning ‘pick-me-up’ so I stopped by this page for some visual support. I can only hope to look half this gorgeous as you ladies when I make the Graduates Gallery! Louann you absolutely glow with your natural hair color, and no lie Petra you look 15 years younger!
All you graduates have a freshness and lightness about you that is exactly what I needed to see this morning. Thank you!!!
Posted by on 02/28 at 04:27 AM
Rednomore;thank you so much for saying such a sweet thing...15 years is a aweful lot…
Posted by on 02/28 at 06:15 AM
Oh ,and Rednomore,i i looked at your pics again and i KNOW youre gonna like your natural color!!Its there before you know it..
Petra.
Posted by on 02/28 at 06:20 AM
ahhh janiece thank you for the kind words!!
i have to say i am enjoying the new feeling that goes with the “glow”!!!
hang in there you will be there before you know it!!! like petra said… your natural color will set you free!!!!
Posted by on 02/28 at 08:40 AM
Just popped in to check for new pics. Karen, I don’t know how long you’ve been on the grad page but WOW, you look great! Are your eye’s blue or grey? Either way, I bet you look even more gorgeous in person. Congratulations.
Posted by on 03/04 at 08:53 AM
Yes, congratulations Karen. I bet with those kiddos to take care of and school it’s great to not have to think about coloring your hair, roots and all that goes along with it. You look wonderful!!
Posted by on 03/04 at 09:04 AM
Oh yes, I also meant to mention what an amazing woman you are with all you do and have done. Cheers! It’s women like you and the others on this site that are industrious, creative and hard working that are an inspiration to me in many ways. Thank You.
Posted by on 03/04 at 09:21 AM
Hi Karen! Congratulations!!Beautiful done!Are you happy with your new color? I like the length of your hair also.
I also like the darkness you have.
Petra.
Posted by on 03/04 at 10:02 AM
Karen, you did it!! Congratulations from one curly-head to another!! Your color is so pretty!
Posted by on 03/04 at 10:56 AM
Karen, may I ask where in Florida do you live?? I am in North Central Florida during the winter months, Gainesville to the North and Ocala to the South.
Posted by on 03/04 at 11:00 AM
Welcome to the newbies gallery Karen! You look great and it looks like you have joined those of us who are sporting the darker shades of grays! Isn’t it funny how the lighting can make such a big difference in how light or dark our natural color appears? I never noticed that as much when I colored ... except when I stood under a light that gave it an strange burgundy or orange cast! Freedom from roots is the best!!! Congrats on making it through the grow out!
Posted by on 03/04 at 11:06 AM
Karen, That was so fast!! Congrats!
Posted by on 03/04 at 11:52 AM
Karen, Congratulations! You have an amazing hair color, dancing with different shades. The world is lucky to have giving people like you!
Posted by on 03/04 at 12:52 PM
congrats karen!!! i love the color and the scarf is a great color!!
i am amazed at all the different shades of gray…
speaking of gray...that is how the so cal sky was today!!! spent some time in the deep south today (san clemente in south orange county)had our taxes done…
yikes is all i can say…
if my hair weren’t gray enough…
on a lighter note…
boy do we have alot of medical people on this site!!!
hey speaking of whch is mary deep in her books or what???
Posted by on 03/04 at 06:40 PM
Helen (Silverlake) - Congrats! I still say you made the transition look completely painless. :o) You have such a pretty shade of silver.
Karen - It does seem like you transitioned quickly! Your silver looks great with your eyes and complexion! I also like your shorter cut. Are you planning to keep it short or go for the grow?
Posted by on 03/04 at 08:10 PM
Helen, love your color and cut and it really shows off your beautiful complexion. It does seem like you had a very smooth transition. Congratulations!
Posted by on 03/04 at 08:30 PM
ANOTHER graduate!! Congratulations Helen you look lovely!! I especially like your hairstyle, I wonder if a curly head could wear that look??
Posted by on 03/05 at 05:22 AM
Helen, wonderful. You are so pretty with this color and cut. Your transition did look very easy in pictures. Congratulations!
To lulubel, yes to your question if a curly head could wear this cut. Secret is no bangs and more length because the curls will pull up an inch or two.
Posted by on 03/05 at 05:45 AM
helen,
i am so impressed...what can i say?!!! you have made this process look pretty darn easy!!!
congrats and welcome to the lighter side!!!
louann
Posted by on 03/05 at 06:09 AM
WOOOOW!!!Heen,beautiful,your color looks so amazing with your skintone.Very lovely,cut and color,think you must be very happy with it.
petra.
Posted by on 03/05 at 06:22 AM
CONGRATULATIONS LADIES!
Karen...you are so beautiful! I love your color and what a snazzy photo! Your shoulder peeking out from under the perfectly colored scarf...WELL DONE!!!
Helen, what a classic beauty you are! GOOD SHOW!! Your color is just wonderful and only enhances your striking features!
Thanks again, Diana...what a great place you’ve given us all!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/05 at 06:49 AM
Happy Graduation, Helen
Here’s to your special day
From blonde in just one year
To a fabulous Great Gray!
Posted by on 03/05 at 08:30 AM
Hi Sallee - Thank you!
Salle wrote
a rhyming note
That really made my day!
Those silvers shine
It took no time
and now I’m glad to be gray!
I’m going to grow it a bit now and watch those silvers take over. This is so much better than 3 weekly scalp trauma and hey I actually like the result better than the blonde ‘do’. I do miss tinting my eyelashes tho…
Have a great day!
Posted by on 03/06 at 03:03 AM
Hi Dede thank you, you know I always look at your pictures and like to read your posts, you are one WGW! I see you work with science boys - do like ‘Big Bang Theory?’ on TV, it always make me laugh
Posted by on 03/06 at 03:07 AM
Karen:
You look great! You’ve still got that great dark brown colour going on and you don’t have to depend on the bottle for it, and bonus natural hilights!
Silverlake:
Love the latest cut, and there’s no doubt your natural colouring suits your skin tone. You really glow!
Happy Friday to all!
Posted by on 03/06 at 06:04 AM
Helen! You look gorgeous! You definitely made the transition look easy! BTW - I saw your post about The Big Bang Theory. I LOVE that show! Absolutely hilarious! Have a great weekend!
Posted by on 03/06 at 07:42 AM
’gorgeous’ aww hey 
thank you. I love your look - did you keep the alice band or are you growing it?
I went to get new eyeglasses today as my brown frames no longer suit and I think I persuaded the optician to join GGLG, she is so fed up of dyeing to black and says she ruins all her nice bathtowels with dyeing mishaps.
Big Bang Theory - agree - hilarious! We know lots of people like that, in fact I think I am a bit like that and my IT son most definitely is (he says he’s going to build a computer this weekend - surely it was only yesterday that he was a chubby cheeked babe?).
All the best
Posted by on 03/06 at 08:10 AM
Thanks, Helen. I have a whole collection of headbands and I wear them almost all of the time!!! I am growing though and will wait and see what my cut evolves into. I’m in a bit of an awkward in-between phase. I’m hoping to grow the layers out to a chin length bob ... I would love to have it a little shorter in the back and longer on the sides like yours or Sharon’s.
On the eyeglasses .... I know what you mean about needing to replace. I’m still looking for a better sunglass frame that suits my new hair color better! Send in a new pic if you find a new pair! Take care!
Posted by on 03/06 at 08:18 AM
I think a chin length bob will look great on you, send us an update when you get there! Have a great weekend!
Posted by on 03/06 at 08:30 AM
silverlake, congratulations! You made it look so easy. I’m actually going to miss seeing your transition pictures. They were so consistent (angle and hair style) that it was like watching the gentle color change slide down your hair. Whoosh, just like that. You could make a GIF animation out of them.
Great color choices for your grad picture—the silver-on-peach wallpaper and the pastel blue complement you perfectly. Have fun picking out cool new frames!
Posted by on 03/06 at 09:58 AM
just seen the pics of susan and helen,luvin it!! you both look great. way to go and inspire us all.
dawn
Posted by on 03/06 at 07:12 PM
I failed to mention Karen,I think you look much softer with your natural color,as a retired homeschool mom,you’ll never regret it,homeschooling that is,haha. I did that too. Oh the hats that we wear:)
Posted by on 03/06 at 07:16 PM
Hi butterfly_dream
Thank you, I did try to keep the consistency in the photos! It is fun to look back and see the gold to silver transition - if only I could do that GIF animation - I’ll look into it…
Are you transitioning or have I missed you in the grad. gallery?
Posted by on 03/09 at 09:39 AM
dede just saw your new pic in the members album...looking great!!!
Posted by on 03/10 at 10:25 PM
Dede - I agree with Louann. But we want to see it bigger. Maybe it’s time to update here in the gallery? :o)
Posted by on 03/11 at 06:48 AM
Thanks louann and greeneyes!! I’m trying to grow out a bad cut...sniff sniff...my hairdresser that helped me through my transition is gone, so I’m looking for a new one...unfortunately...I recvd a BAD cut in the mean-time! I do have an appointment with my sisters stylist in Dallas the first of May...so hopefully she can fix it up!
I’ll send a couple of photos in Diana...but OZ may not be able to use them because they are really grainy and choppy.
Thanks for the compliment! I love you gals!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/11 at 08:16 AM
Dede - You look wonderful - I agree - your pic needs to be updated on this site!!
Posted by on 03/11 at 08:44 AM
Thank you too, grayme! It’s so hard for me to get a decent photo of myself these days! Most of the time I’m holding our 5 month old grandson and smoochin’ his face or standing too close to someone else with my hair smashed into their hair. Hubby and I will be spending some time with friends soon...no kids...YEA!! I’m going to concentrate on updated Silver Hair shots!
I’m going in for new glasses/frames in a couple of weeks too...hoping to find something that goes with my new chrome!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/11 at 08:53 AM
lulubell!!! LOOK AT YOU!!! You are smashing!! I Can’t believe how quickly you’ve GRADUATED!! You’re curls and color are so beautiful! Again...Mother Nature has proved to us that she’s the best colorist out there!!! GOOD SHOW!!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/12 at 01:29 PM
To our sweet lulubell
With her head of silver curls
Congratulations on joining
The Newbie Graduate girls!!!
I
Posted by on 03/12 at 01:37 PM
Lulubell! Congrats! Your hair looks great! I’m talking to two gals at work about growing their hair out and both have heard (and/or been sent a link) about this site).
We are growing gals - in more ways than one (think hair!!! )
Posted by on 03/12 at 01:40 PM
Lulubell, Congratulations!!! You look gorgeous!!!
Posted by on 03/12 at 01:41 PM
Congratulations, Lulubell, You look great - Deb B
Posted by on 03/12 at 01:45 PM
Lulubell! I was so excited to see your smiling face at the top of this page! :o) I love your silver curls and am looking forward to watching them grow back into your previous length. Good-bye horns, wings and Elvis (though I never really saw him!) :o) I’ve enjoyed sharing the journey with you...which of course continues on!
Posted by on 03/12 at 02:01 PM
Hi Lulubell
Congratulations - Look at you curlygirl! I think you will look great with long hair. It will set into natural curls and ringlets and look fab. And no way do you look old enough to have grandchildren!
Posted by on 03/12 at 03:20 PM
Lulubell- Just what I need...you’re great smile and hair to show me the silver lining in an otherwise trying day!! You look great!
Goldie
Posted by on 03/12 at 04:06 PM
Thanks so much for all the kind words!! I plan to hang out here for a long time. Sallee I love your poem, I feel teary for some reason, but in a good way. Greeneyes I have enjoyed the journey also. Goldie, RunnerGal, dede, silverlake, SBKaren and Debbie thanks for all the great, fun-filled days you have given me. I log in daily just to see what all of you are up to!!
Posted by on 03/12 at 04:43 PM
Lulubell our lovely Lulubell, you look fabulous, Congratulations! I love your steely curls. I’ve been trying to remember but to no avail, the name I gave your hair color. Please forgive me, my brain has been on overload with things happening on my home and buisness fronts. Do you remember?
I loved your poem also, Sallee.
Posted by on 03/12 at 07:19 PM
CONGRATULATIONS LULUBELL!!!! I LOVE YOUR HAIR!
You look wonderful! I hope you keep loggin’ in...I love to read what you say...very uplifting!
Posted by on 03/12 at 07:25 PM
oh my it is late for you in the east...lois...you look soooo happy… i love the color i love the curls...but most of all i love your happy happy face!!!
you have arrived!!! isn’t this just a BLAST ??? i mean really isn’t this a blast???
now listen carefully you can hear me humming “pomp and circumstance”
color name??? is pewter a nice name???
sallee love the poem
xx
Posted by on 03/12 at 08:24 PM
Congratulations Lulubell, I can’t wait to watch those gorgeous silver curls cascading down as they grow, so pretty!
Posted by on 03/12 at 09:17 PM
WOOOOOW!!!!!!Lulubell,fellowclassmate!!Youre done,and you look soooo fabulous and wonderfull! Great job,beautifull curls and beautifull color,awesome transition…
And so nice the poems to read…
Petra.
Posted by on 03/13 at 01:08 AM
Lulubel, you made my day!!!! I just logged on and found your beautiful face glowing and it really helps me today. Congratulations! Six months to silverdom is phenomenal!
Posted by on 03/13 at 04:02 AM
christie
how are you feeling??? when is the baby due again?
Posted by on 03/13 at 04:58 AM
yes, christie I would love an update on the baby, too. There are two women here at my work having babies. One is going to be first time mom and the other is her second child and she will have a girl and boy now. Hope all is well.
Lulubell, I’m glad you liked your poem. Louann, it’s always nice to hear people like my little poems, thanks.
Posted by on 03/13 at 08:16 AM
p.s. thank you, too, Marisa
Posted by on 03/13 at 08:17 AM
I think Chrissie’s keeping mum as a mum because we’re doing a story on her! You’ll all be able see how cute she looks. It’s in the hopper now, and that ain’t all!
Posted by on 03/13 at 08:30 AM
Hey—have you all checked out the update on Dede? Wow!
Posted by on 03/13 at 08:38 AM
Dede,i saw your update just now...What STUNNING!
Petra
Posted by on 03/13 at 08:42 AM
Dede - awesome update! Thanks for sending in the new glamour shot!
Posted by on 03/13 at 08:44 AM
Wow, Dede you look amazing
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:00 AM
Dede, Woozer!!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:09 AM
Hi Dede
That is a great look! I love your make up and your hair is stunning! Are you going to grow it into a longer silver mane and did you change eyeglasses for contacts? I’m always interested to know what other glasses wearers do.
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:11 AM
Oh,boy, a baby story!! I always cry at baby stories. There was and maybe still is a show on cable that I used to watch called a Baby Story and it would follow a family and the birth of their child and EVERY SINGLE TIME when they showed the birth, I’d cry.
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:12 AM
Dede, I meant Wowzer!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:12 AM
You Ladies sure do know how to make me feel like a million BUCKS!!! Thanks for all of the comments! That photo is pretty overexposed...my hair looks a little blue!!! I tried the infamous velcro rollers that day...what body!
Silverlake, I am planning on growing it out a little longer...and am looking into eye correction surgery...I’m using it as a reward if I can lose another 22 pounds!! The silver (blue?) hair makes my eye color stand out more than ever...so I’m hoping to take full advantage of it...but I’m not even certain if I am a candidate! I find out in two weeks at my annual eye exam.
Thanks again everyone! You have made my weekend!!!
peace
!dede
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:24 AM
Hey Dede
Your eyes do look a sparkling blue, & good luck with the eye correction if you go for it. I am just too chicken for eye correction and I can’t have contacts, so I have the lightest, frameless spectacles that I can find.
Please keep sending updates and *well done* with the weight loss!
Thanks for the tip about the velcro rollers!
Posted by on 03/13 at 09:34 AM
Dede, you are gorgeous. That’s the fun about self-makeovers, you get to keep on going, and each step makes you feel even better than the last. You’re beautiful with or without your glasses. I wish you the best in all you are doing.
Posted by on 03/13 at 10:19 AM
Dede - I am so envious. Your color is fabulous, and the cut is so flattering on you! I know I’ll be happy with whatever ends up on the other side of this red dye...but I would be ecstatic if it ended up looking like that. Lucky lady!
Posted by on 03/13 at 10:26 AM
It’s in there RedNoMore!! Just keep it up and you will be so thrilled with the color waiting! Thanks so much for the very kind words everyone! You all make me sssooo happy!!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/13 at 10:44 AM
Thanks Marisa! You are the sweetest! I can’t wait to see your finished color...and we have to have another Texas Silver Event again!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/13 at 10:45 AM
Dede, it would be great to meet you and the other Texas Silvers. Let’s talk about it.
Posted by on 03/13 at 11:45 AM
Dede - wooooohooooo! You are one hot mama with eyes that sparkle!
Posted by on 03/13 at 12:43 PM
Dede - You are simply STUNNING!!! (Love, love, LOVE the red lips with that silver hair!!!)
Posted by on 03/13 at 12:46 PM
Dede, you are one sexy momma!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 02:01 PM
Dede, what is left to say except DITTO....DITTO.....DITTO......and so on and so on! Your are such a beautiful woman! Thanks for all the lovely compliments, they warm my heart!
Posted by on 03/13 at 04:50 PM
Marisa, you gave my haircolor the name “Frosted Pewter,” and I think I will call it that from now on so thanks! When will we see your sweet face and silver hair here in the Gallery???
Posted by on 03/13 at 05:01 PM
Hi Louann and Sallee, thanks for asking, I am feeling great! I’m at the nice stage - the middle bit; not too big to be uncomfortable and not sick as in the first trimester. I’m due in July - this will be my first Winter baby.
Dede, your hair colour is gorgeous, what a beautiful update.
Posted by on 03/13 at 05:04 PM
Yes Louann, I CAN hear you humming!!!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 05:06 PM
Christie, so happy to know that you are in the nice stage! Stay happy and healthy. Funny that you say Winter baby. July is the middle of the summer in Canada!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 05:12 PM
love the updates everyone! looking good.
Christie - are you getting the pregnancy benefit of fast growing hair?
m.
Posted by on 03/13 at 05:15 PM
christie...my mom gave birth to me with beautiful WHITE hair…
and dede...i spotted that pic in the members album...but blown up...it is FANTASTICO!!! (that’s italian for wonderful)
Posted by on 03/13 at 05:54 PM
Christie - My first two boys are adopted. The rest of the six (4 boys and 2 girls) I had at home with a midwife. Our youngest (Chloe) is 5. I had her at age 40. Congrats to you! There’s nothing like a new baby to make you see things in a whole new way! (Except for maybe, having a baby and your beautiful silver hair too!)
Posted by on 03/13 at 06:16 PM
Lulubell, I remembered your color name this morning while I was getting ready for the day and got so excited, that I remembered, that I almost ran into the door jam! This would not have been good because I had minor surgery on my toe this week. All is okay and it already feels better than it did before the surgery but I just didn’t want to mess it up. I love the name for your hair and that’s what it looks like to me.
It’ll be a while before I graduate; first, remember that I stained my hair in September and second, my hair is in grow mode and every one in my family would rather I let it grow than cut the approximate two inches of left over dye/stain off. So more patience is in order, but I plan to still get 1/2 inch trimms every 8 to 10 weeks to keep some shape. I’m guessing somewhere between July and September before I’m done.
Posted by on 03/13 at 06:31 PM
Marisa, ouch, that would have hurt for sure ! Hope you heal up quickly. I will wait patiently for your Grad photo!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 06:46 PM
Awesome Dede!!!!
Posted by on 03/13 at 06:50 PM
Hi MsMika, I haven’t notice that my hair is growing faster, but I’m not losing as much as normal. I have the dreaded post baby hair loss to look forward to unfortunately. 3 months after the baby is born I get two bald spots at the front of my head! I’m wondering if this is going to be harder to hide with my natural colour, I’m sure it will send me running to the hairdresser to get a fringe (bangs) as that’s how I usually manage it.
Goldie how lovely to have your babies at home, I imagine you’d want to keep your home forever after creating memories like that there.
Posted by on 03/13 at 07:12 PM
Dede,
All I can say is, “Wow!” Can’t wait to see your stunning hair in June!
Great updated picture.
Posted by on 03/14 at 12:05 AM
Thanks so much everyone! I so appreciate your LOVE!!!
I’m so excited about the story on Christie!!!!
~dede
Posted by on 03/14 at 04:08 AM
Wow!! Look at all the new graduates! Congratulations to everyone!
Mary
Posted by on 03/14 at 07:50 AM
Congrats Lulubell, Helen and Karen!
You all look beautiful, natural and happy! Isn’t is SO worth it?
Dede~ you wild girl! love the new picture!
Can’t wait to see the story on Christie, too…
Sorry to have not posted in so long… have been learning Facebook, superbusy with things ...but registered for the great gala in the Big Apple and can’t wait to see you all in person…
(yes, Diana, I know I still owe you a picture....haha
You gglgers rock!
Helen (thisyear)
Posted by on 03/14 at 05:23 PM
It’s fun to see new pictures. Dede I love your glamorous new photo, you look gorgeous and I love the red lipstick. It’s just right with silver!
Posted by on 03/14 at 05:32 PM
Dede WOW WOW WOW!!!!!!!!! I’ve just come onto this page and thought I haven’t seen this photo before because I would have remembered - you looked A.M.A.Z.I.N.G!!!!!!!!!! I’ve just read the comments and realised it is indeed a new photo. It’s certainly one I wouldn’t forgot. Wow, I’m bowled over by how utterly sensational you look. So young and grey and glamorous!
Jane xx
Posted by on 03/15 at 11:12 AM
I should add that I think ALL of you ladies on here look superb, really superb. You’ve all proven how chic and young grey hair really is. I think grey hair makes women look very young, it’s a cut and style that can be ageing not just the dye and certainly not grey. I get a real injection of positivity when I come onto this site and see all of your glowing photos. I see real women being true to themselves and looking stunning, just as mother nature intended.
Jane xx
Posted by on 03/15 at 11:19 AM
Thank you all for your kind comments!!! This site has turned the transition process into fun...fun...fun! I love getting on and finding new photos and new members...graduated newbies and great grays!! I’m diggin’ mother nature too, Jane!
~dede
Posted by on 03/15 at 12:10 PM
Wow! Thanks, everyone, for the really sweet comments. They REALLY made my morning! (I actually forgot that comments were posted at the end of this page...I’ve been looking under the “Let’s hear it for the newbies” page for comments… I was beginning to think that maybe my picture was only showing up on MY computer somehow <haha>.)
I do actually like the color, but definitely not the length (although it’s much faster to style shorter!).
Greeneyes~ I’m growing it back out for sure. What did you decide to do at your last appointment?
Marissa~ My eyes are technically gray, I think, but they do somehow change with greens and blues I wear (scarves).
Lulubell~ I’m in Melbourne. I love the Ocala area...used to camp up there a lot. I hope you’re enjoying your time in Florida I do love your curls! Yours actually look like soft, beautiful ringlet curls. My hair is so multi-directionally curly, it doesn’t form actual curls like yours...but rather one big mess of KINK.
Thanks again everyone for being so sweet! (I’ve been commenting on other grads in the “Let’s hear it for the newbies” section. Sorry. Now I know… )
Karen
Posted by on 03/16 at 05:56 AM
Karen - glad you found all of your glowing compliments. :o) Don’t feel badly - this site is practically impossible to keep up with anymore. It’s like an Easter egg hunt.
My haircut is next week and I haven’t had a cut since December. I’m growing out my bangs, but other than that, can’t decide. Decisions, decisions. :o)
Posted by on 03/16 at 06:51 AM
Hi Karen SaSS
Just wanted to say well done and Happy Graduation. My sons have their dad’s curly hair and it also grows outwards in multi directional whirls not curls, & not downwards (!) but take heart, my middle son grew his hair quite long (think Brian May from Queen) and it does finally reach a point where it all sets into curls - do you fancy a big grow out? It did take him a couple of years to get there…
Posted by on 03/16 at 07:39 AM
Hi Silverlake, You’re so right, with added weight (and lots of product), the curls really do “set” better. I always had very long hair all the way into my mid-30s just for that reason...but once becoming a mom (and getting a hold of a flat iron), went to about bra-length and then more recently shoulder-length. It’s mostly my bangs being so short I don’t care for. I’m a “tuck ‘em” kind of girl… either behind my ears or behind my sunglasses on top of my head or all pulled back in a twist. Right now I’m relegated to multiple little clips to try to keep them out of the way (and not up in the air). Of course, it doesn’t help that I cut the last couple inches myself, all in one whack, without layering it in… so it’s really my own fault.
I think the thing that surprises me most is the texture of my silvers. When I was coloring, those “new” silvers that seemed to BOING up out of nowhere were really rigid, spiky pieces. I still get those on top a bit, but over-all, the texture of my hair is better than when I was coloring, and NOTHING like the rigid pieces I get periodically.
Posted by on 03/16 at 08:56 AM
Congrats to the new graduates. Lookin’ good ladies. And Dede, your updated photo is to die for. Va-va-va-voom dah-ling. This part of the website is my favorite. Just when I think I’ll never get through the transition phase (could my hair grow any slower!), someone else graduates and keeps me inspired.
Posted by on 03/16 at 09:04 AM
Hi Sass
Little clips and stuff are great, there are so many nice ones around (I know ‘cos I buy them for my neices) - I can see a couple on your photo. I know what you mean about having no time being a Mum
Could we see a photo of you with your curly hair? You never know, now your hair texture has improved, it might a different experience altogther! I searched ‘curly bob hairstyles’ on Google for my friend recently and I am truly envious - just never satisfied with what I have ...
Although I have dead straight hair with one annoying wee ear length kink, I do use straighteners too, as I have a similar bunch of BOINGY white hairs right on top!
Posted by on 03/16 at 09:59 AM
DeDe ~ Hot, hot, hot!
Posted by on 03/16 at 12:03 PM
Hey DeDe! LOVE the new look. Gorgeous, fab, and very sexy.
Posted by on 03/16 at 12:22 PM
Congrats to all the new Grads! I can’t keep up! You all look wonderful!
Leeja
Posted by on 03/17 at 10:32 AM
Hey all you sexy silvers!! CONGRATS!!
Lois, your skin looks so much brighter and smoother. You look great!
Helen, you sure glow with confidence and are such an insparation to me!
Karen, All this time I thought you had straight hair you look great with your new look!
Posted by on 03/17 at 11:56 AM
Dede,
WoW Your new pic is incrediable! You look so great and are a true insparation!
Now I WANNA CUT MY HAIR
Posted by on 03/17 at 11:57 AM
SSas and .925, Thanks for the lovely words, you make me feel great!
Posted by on 03/18 at 05:00 AM
Lulubell!!!!!!!!!!! Looks like you made it! You look great and your curls are beautiful! No more neon orange here! What a lovely natural color! If I remember correctly you’re growing back to the length of your before pic. Keep those updates coming!
Dede - could you glow any more than this new pic?! HOT HOT HOT!
Posted by on 03/18 at 07:04 AM
So, to those newbies who still feel doubtful during transition, let me share a quick graduate story....
Last night we were out for an early evening taking in some Irish music. Anyway, we had some company drop in for a night during their spring break road trip. So, the age here is college age kids ... 19 or 20, 2 young men and one young lady. They met us at the restaurant where we were listening to music.
After the girl shook my hand and offered a “nice to meet you” she immediately said, “I love your hair!” I was surprised by the compliment and felt like my cheeks turned red. I just wasn’t expecting such a comment from such a young girl. I’m not sure if it was the cut (with my headband, of course) or the color she was referring to, but she “loved” it! It’s nice to know that the youngsters can appreciate the gray look! Maybe there’s hope for the younger generation and a more natural look! Whatever it may be, it made me feel wonderful!
Posted by on 03/18 at 07:15 AM
Hi grayincali, I knew it was you the minute I read ‘headband’ !
Great to hear you had a nice compliment from younger people, I think you are right it is the natural look that appeals.
We like music too and my husband plays in a couple of bands, he used to play in an Irish band, now does jazz and ambient.
Posted by on 03/18 at 07:35 AM
Suzanne, it is nice to hear that from the kids, isn’t it? There’s a girl at the McDonald’s (yes, happy meals are one of my guilty pleasures) that everytime she’s there at the window she tells me she wants my hair.
You make us all look good, you are so put together and gorgeous!!
Posted by on 03/18 at 07:50 AM
Hi Sallee, only now can I confess I’ve been collecting the wildlife happymeals cretaures I am very fond of the panda…
Yes our grayincali is indeed gorgeous in gray!
Posted by on 03/18 at 07:57 AM
Hi Helen, oh, I’m glad to hear another adult buys them! I think they’re just the perfect portions and you get the toy and you can choose chocolate milk!!
Posted by on 03/18 at 08:19 AM
Thanks Sallee and Helen!
Sallee, I can totally see why the McDonald’s girl wants your hair having seen it myself. You have one of the shades of gray that is so striking. I mean, really gorgeous. Sometimes I feel a little blah with the color of gray I have .... but I guess it looks better than I thought! We women are so hard on ourselves sometimes!
Posted by on 03/18 at 09:19 AM
Hi Girls,Just want to check in,&say;when the going gets hardand i want my grey yesterday,I read all the positive commentsand have so much fun.This mothers day i am going to give my mom the gglg book,maybe that will pave the way,I know if I just tell her she will think i lost my mind!!!ha ha lol
Posted by on 03/18 at 09:25 AM
Thanks for all of the compliments my fellow Silver Sisters! Good to hear from you too, .925! If you do decide to go for the cut make sure and send us some pictures!!
Hey lisagreen! Good to hear from you! It’s time to dust off my motorcycle and see if any of this silver will show...I HOPE SO!! Have you been riding yet this year???
Great story about the young’uns grayincali! I love it! I am taking Spanish classes at the university here, and had my oral mid-term exam last week...and after my professor and I completed the exam...he asked me about my hair and confessed that he was ready to let his gray show too! I showed him the website and i think he is going to go for it!! His inspiration is Anderson Cooper.
~dede
Posted by on 03/18 at 09:40 AM
Dede, so cool that a guy made mention of your gray. Again, you have such a nice shade of gray, I’m not surprised. I think that some of us are super lucky to have such striking shades. But, I like the idea that with the right style, it doesn’t even matter what the shade is. With the right style and cut we can look good with any color! There are so many examples on this site of women making the most of what mother nature has given them. Again, disproving the ugly comments that some people make that gray hair looks dirty, old and unkempt (coming from the article Laura made mention of recently). Cut and style can make a BIG difference! We’ll show’em!
Diana, I know it’s been mentioned before, but I hope at some point to see some men featured on the great grays page!
Posted by on 03/18 at 10:47 AM
Grayincali—that was one of my original plans from the very beginning! A Great Guy Grays section. Every time I’d get someone all ready, they’d reach for the Just for Men! So I put it on the back burner. I seem to have a lot on the back burner!
Here’s the deal—if guys want to send their pictures/stories in, I’ll have a look. But they have to do it just like you all do. I’m not chasing any more silver fox guys down the street. Although that could be fun, too! I just don’t have that kind of time.
Posted by on 03/18 at 11:01 AM
Grayincali, I have missed you!! Thanks for the compliment, it is so nice to hear positive feed-back, especially from someone who has already graduated. Your hair must be getting long! I do plan to grow mine out again, although this particular stage is a tad bit challenging with the “horns” and all. As I have said before I am continuing to evolve so I will need to hang around for the support it will take to get through the grow-out!
Posted by on 03/18 at 11:47 AM
Hi Lulubell! My hair’s still pretty short! It grows SLOW!! Today I’m sporting a curly look and it’s nice for a change. I know I’ve been MIA lately. I’m trying really hard to step away from the computer and get things done around the mess that is my house! Plus, I’ve been having spring fever and have been out a lot biking and walking and enjoying the nice weather. I’ve opted out of notifications on messages, so I most likely have missed comments galore! But, I try to check in as much as possible ... if anyone ever wants to say hi, by all means send me a PM!!!
Posted by on 03/18 at 11:55 AM
Oh Lulubell! You look wonderful! I love the curls and I love the beautiful color against you complection! I would trade you inches of my hair for some of those great soft curls!
Dede~ I love the look! WOW! You look amazing!
Helen~ I love the rose color in your skin against the silver of your hair!It’s so pretty! You wear the silver well!
Posted by on 03/18 at 12:17 PM
Hi Elizabeth
Thank you, I am even more pink now but in a good way, thank you!
Posted by on 03/18 at 01:46 PM
Thanks Elizabeth, I really do appreciate my curls even though I complain about them so much. I am just so happy to have them back!! It would be wonderful to trade your shimmery length for my sprouty curls!
Posted by on 03/18 at 02:52 PM
You just figure out a way Lulubell! I am a willing recipient!
Posted by on 03/18 at 02:54 PM
Hello Dena - well done, you look beautiful with that spiky cut and what a lovely smile!
Posted by on 03/27 at 10:26 AM
Congrats to Dena-you look fantastic!
Lulubell--you’re here! You look wonderful. What a journey, huh??
Dede--love your updated pic! What a difference a little time and growth makes.
Posted by on 03/27 at 10:46 AM
Dena,
CONGRATS!!! You look great!
Posted by on 03/27 at 10:49 AM
Congratulations Dena. You really glow. You look so happy. Well done and what a great color. Who knew?
Posted by on 03/27 at 10:55 AM
WOOOOW,Dena, you look so beautiful! Beautiful color you have....And your cut too!!
Petra.
Posted by on 03/27 at 10:59 AM
Love the edgey ‘do Dena. Your silver is fab-fab-fabulous! Congratulations on your graduation.
Posted by on 03/27 at 11:03 AM
Dena awesome! I wrote this the other day in newbies 09 when I saw your new member pic but I think it got missed “I love the spikey do, your whole face just lights up and the spikes make me think of icicles, very cool .” Yup, I still like it. Your gorgeous, congrats!
Posted by on 03/27 at 11:10 AM
Dena - I love it everytime a new face appears at the top of this page! Congratulations! I totally love your hair color and also the stylish cut! I always feel so excited and proud of everyone who graduates! So much fun! :o)
Posted by on 03/27 at 11:10 AM
Hey ladies while you are all gathering hear I thought I’d send out a special request from our great OZ that I also think got missed the other day. I’ve posted as MyDay on the site but let’s rally for our fearless leader.
Here it is:
Today http://goinggrayblog.com posted a wonderful notice about our Silver Sisters event in NYC. I’d love to see all of you post a comment. Share your excitement about it, even if you can’t attend. In fact, rather than saying “I can’t come,” say “I’d love to come”—keep it all positive. The goal of this site is, and always has been, to build silver credibility in this world. This event has been a huge project to plan and coordinate, and I would appreciate your support in showing everybody that it’s going to be something really important. It’s a way for all of us to work together to let our voices be heard. So let’s hear from YOU!
Posted by on 03/27 at 11:16 AM
really looking good - dena! way to let it shine.
mika
Posted by on 03/27 at 11:51 AM
Dena, you look so great and I just LOVE the light shade of your hair! The cut and color are fabulous! Congrats on being done! I think you’re planning to grow out but, in the meantime, you do spikey so well!
Posted by on 03/27 at 11:53 AM
Dena, it’s a great cut and you look awesome. I love those kinds of cuts and the color, there goes Mother Nature again.
Posted by on 03/27 at 12:06 PM
Dena,You did it!!! You look great!!! And so happy ,you go girl!!! Have fun. Sallee,Is so right,Mother nature knows best.
Posted by on 03/27 at 12:18 PM
Dena - love your spiky do! You look terrific!!! Congrats!
Posted by on 03/27 at 12:31 PM
welcome to the “lighter side” dena!!!!! fantastic!!! love your spikes!!! “survivor with a twist”!!!!
Posted by on 03/27 at 01:12 PM
Dena,one word FANTASTIC!! You look very hip. I’ll be joining you soon in the graduate gallery.
Dawn
Posted by on 03/27 at 01:23 PM
Dena~ Gosh, you look fabulous...very chic! Your transition happened so quickly, too. Congratulations!
Posted by on 03/27 at 02:26 PM
Wow Dena, you look sensational!!
Jane xx
Posted by on 03/27 at 02:43 PM
Dena, that’s a great haircut and your natural colour is lovely.
Posted by on 03/27 at 04:12 PM
ah shucks...Thank all of you for all the kind words.
I really couldn’t have done it without Diana’s wonderful site & BOOK! and all you silver sisters!! So much GREAT encouragement from all of you! There are so many newbies I can hardly keep up with everyone! But wouldn’t miss this site for anything! Can’t wait to see more graduates!
Posted by on 03/27 at 05:50 PM
Dena, welcome to the Gallery!! If I were to describe your lovely hair color and your trendy cut I would say “Slivered Ice!”
Posted by on 03/30 at 01:48 PM
Thanks Lulubell! I LIKE IT!
Posted by on 03/30 at 01:57 PM
You all look so authentic & naturally gorgeous! Congratulations on staying true to yourselves!
Posted by on 03/30 at 03:39 PM
Grayincali - I have been meaning to say how great you look on the homepage! So nice to see your lovely face and beautiful hair front and center!
Posted by on 04/06 at 05:55 PM
Gee thanks Goldie! How sweet! I am happy to be included there and was very surprised when I saw it!!! I think I’m the “headband” representation aka the Goody Ambassador! LOL!
Thanks Diana for making me feel even more proud of my silver and for making my week!
Posted by on 04/06 at 07:02 PM
Greeneyes (Dara)-loved your updated photo in the Members Album. I’m sure you must be getting all kinds of compliments and admiring stares. Remember how people used to say you couldn’t be gray AND long? I say to heck with that antiquated notion.
Posted by on 04/07 at 09:36 AM
Carole, I absolutely love your new photo - you look terrific!!
Oh, and your dog is gorgeous!!
Jane xx
Posted by on 04/07 at 10:28 AM
Thank you, Sandpinkshimmer! In a couple of weeks my photo will also be updated on this page for a closer look. When I get compliments, it’s something like, “I love your hair” or “Your hair looks so healthy...or thick.” I have only a couple of times gotten, “I love the color”, so I don’t know what people are thinking about the gray, but I’m totally at peace with my color and don’t really care about negative opinions. I feel more confident the longer my hair gets. Being gray AND long is a blast! And don’t forget - YOU are also on your way to being long and gray! :o)
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:04 AM
Dara, I’d like to add that I love your new pic too!! You are just flat out gorgeous! It’s so nice to hear that you love your hair even more as it grows longer. I am “longing” for mine to grow! With all of the thinning my stylist did to get more of the dye out of mine, I have all of these different lengths which really accentuates the wiry strands. I know that with length it’ll look so much better. I keep reminding myself .... it’s not the color so much that I don’t care for, it’s the cut! You will be my inspiration!
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:10 AM
Oh - thanks so much, Grayincali. I totally relate to “it’s not the color so much that I don’t care for, it’s the cut!” That is exactly how I felt during transition. But I promise you - and all of the long-haired girls who have gone shorter than desired - you are going to love your hair more with every added inch! It was only last July that I went my shortest - a Lisa Rinna style cut. So be encouraged! Your hair will get the length you want it and you WILL LOVE IT! By the way, I also have coarse hair which loves to be wiry and crazy… but the length helps so much (AND the flat iron)!
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:19 AM
Grayincali--Suzanne, I think your hair looks adorable but if you’re like me (and Dara), length brings ease of styling, not the other way around. Can’t wait to see what a longer silver ‘do will look like with that beautiful face of yours. I’m sure it will be fabulous. I still think my color is going to be similar to yours but when Diana updates my profile, I think it will look lighter ‘cause the photo was taken in the bright sunshine.--Jo-Anne
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:20 AM
I spend hours looking at photos of women with grey hair and the more I look the faster I want mine to grow. I hate having such dark (dyed) hair but the grey is definitely emerging albeit not a full head of grey. You are all the most beautiful women and your grey hair is glorious!
Jane xx
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:23 AM
We’re just long-haired girls. We can’t help it. :o)
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:23 AM
Hang in there, Jane. You’ll get there! One day you’ll be finished and will look back and think, “That wasn’t so bad!” :o) I didn’t get all of the silver I had hoped for - I have a lot of dark hair left. But I have learned to enjoy the silver highlights that will only continue to increase throughout the years. :o)
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:26 AM
Hmmmm, see nobody’s been back to the Newbies gallery for awhile, because, Jo-Anne, your photo has been added.
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:38 AM
Yup you’re right Diana--didn’t see it a little earlier today. Figured you were busy with NYC Silver Sisters stuff. BTW, I hope it’s uber-successful so they’ll be another one in 2010. I’ll start saving my sheckels now!
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:50 AM
Jo-Anne,
Saw your pic (thanks Diana for the heads up) and your silver is looking awesome and shining so bright! Mine does tend to look a lot lighter when in the sun, maybe very similar to yours here! Not sure though, I think yours might be a little lighter still! It really is hard to tell what you really have until all of the dye is gone. I love the side view of the pic .... except we don’t get a good look at the work you did on your bangs!
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:55 AM
Jo-Anne,
I forgot to add that I totally agree that ease of styling for my hair type comes with length too. Right now, the layers are so short all over that it takes work to get it to lay down and behave. If anything, I just want the layers all around to be longer. I will probably still keep it above my shoulders or a little longer than chin length. We’ll see!
Posted by on 04/07 at 11:59 AM
Joanne,How can you say you do not like your cut.OMG it is beautiful and your color is Beautiful,I could not post this fast enought.You are so smart to have gone Lighter at the get go.I really hope you grow to like it.Always remember when you are Beautiful you could wear a bag on your head,& you would still be Beautiful.
Posted by on 04/07 at 12:11 PM
Suzanne--I definietly had that photo taken at a strategic angle. The bangs are still at the ‘village idiot’ stage but two weeks from now I’ll bet I’ll be hunting down those scissors again. Somebody stop me!
Posted by on 04/07 at 12:49 PM
Aw shucks new york, you are too kind, really. Thanks for the vote of confidence. I finally can see the light at the end of this tunnel. My hairdresser feels it will be three more cuts until I reach Silver Nirvana. Like you and everyone else that is transitioning and sharing their stories on this awesome website, can’t wait!
Posted by on 04/07 at 12:53 PM
How funny! I admit, I used to try to cut my bangs also. But somewhere along the way I decided to NEVER do it again. I was tired of being afraid to go get my hair cut at the salon and get scolded by my stylist!
If we’re being totally honest here, I did take a couple of little snips a few months ago where there was just a tiny bit of dye on the ends. Thankfully I quit before I got carried away!
But, seriously Jo-Anne, you are gorgeous. I’m sure it looks just fine and it probably shows off those eyes of yours! No village idiot here!
Posted by on 04/07 at 12:56 PM
Here’s a story for you about bangs! My mother used to cut my bangs simply because I was the youngest of 6 children and she was always looking for a way to save precious pennies. The down side was that she always cut them right after my bath when my hair was wet and straight!! By the time I had squirmed and fidgeted too much and she had become frustrated to no end I had bangs that stuck out straight from my hairline!! Once my bangs dried it was a completely new look altogether! I assure you it wasn’t good, in fact it was very bad!! Cutting my own bangs will never be an option for me, YIKES!
Posted by on 04/07 at 01:20 PM
Jo-Anne - I love the silvery-ness of your hair! Your cut looks great, too. I just think you need to allow your hair to get used to the cut. My hair always takes time to calm after a trim.
Posted by on 04/07 at 01:29 PM
Jo-Anne, you are a very beautiful lady. Your photos are amazing. I can’t wait to see your hair when you finally reach “silver nirvana”!!
Jane xx
Posted by on 04/07 at 01:36 PM
Jo-Anne- Love the cut! Love the color! I am sure the bangs are fine! Besides, bangs grow like asparagus...3” overnight! So, if you don’t like em’ now, they’ll be fine tomorrow! I just made a confession to my hairdresser today...she also happens to be an old friend of mine...I have been found “guilty” of self-trimming and sentenced to “life without the possibility of scissors!! Oh, Diana, wait until you see...!
My hairdresser is actually coming up to my house (we live almost 2 hours away from each other) next week to see what she can do! Bless her heart...I hope she doesn’t faint!
We are having a big family dinner tomorrow night and my photographer daughter-in-law (who just gave birth to our #8 grandson) should be ready to snap some REALLY SPECIAL (tee, hee) pictures of my new hairdo! Then we shall see what my hairdresser can do! I’m thinkin’ she better bring the “pixie” dust!!
Posted by on 04/07 at 01:48 PM
Uh-oh. Very curious here, Goldie! I hope you do send in your “before” and after-correction shots. I can’t believe it’s as bad as you say.
Posted by on 04/07 at 02:02 PM
Hey Goldie! Just side sweep those bangs and cover them with a trusty headband! hee hee I bet you’d never have guessed I of all people would suggest that (maybe I’m stuck in a rut, but it works)! It’ll draw the eyes away from the bangs! Shall I send you my emergency kit?
I’m with Diana, I’m sure they can’t be THAT bad!
Posted by on 04/07 at 03:17 PM
Oh you know me, Diana, I’m not afraid to send any “frumpy” pictures! (Hee,hee) But, this time it won’t take much to make it look bad! At least my hair stylist is also an old friend. She probably will throw in a manicure for free, out of sympathy! I really would have sent more pictures, but my photojournalist is on maternity leave! They are coming soon, Dear Oz, brace yourself!
Thank you grayincali! I think you should market an emergency kit! Unfortunately, I don’t do headbands as stunning as you do!
Posted by on 04/07 at 03:40 PM
where in the world is DARA at? I feel like I’m trying to find Waldo,I’m so lost!! I have to see this faboulus new dew.
Dawn
Posted by on 04/07 at 06:05 PM
Hey Dawn, I’m playing hide-n-seek. :o) My new pic is in the member album.
Posted by on 04/07 at 06:39 PM
Dawn - Hey, I saw that you posted here and I have been meaning to tell you how fabulous your color is and how nice it looks w/that pixie cut! Also, the coral you are wearing is a really nice color on you. I hope you see this! If not I’ll post over on the newbies page.
Posted by on 04/07 at 07:02 PM
One thing I’m noticing as I look at the before and after pictures of all these ladies is that the different shades of gray hair really make eye color POP. WOW!
Posted by on 04/09 at 11:13 PM
Dena,have i congratulated you with your graduation yet?? If not: You look really very beautiful;i wish i had your color ...
Petra.
Posted by on 04/10 at 12:56 AM
Thanks Petra! I Like your coloring and I love the cut! Your eyes look so blue with you natural color.
and, sandpinkshimmer good progress - I like your natural color coming in much better!
Goodness! I just can’t seem to keep up with everyone! So many newbies and graduates. I just love to roam and try to catch up on everybody, and as soon as I think I do I’m back a week again - LOL
All you silver sisters continue to be a GREAT support! I am so very glad I came across this website!
Posted by on 04/12 at 09:50 AM
Yay new pics!!! Sandy and Helen made it to the grad page and are looking fabulous! I’m so glad you sent in these updates! Beautiful colors and cuts on both! Way to go!
Posted by on 04/21 at 01:51 PM
Well! Good things come to those who wait - and here’s proof! So glad you sent in your graduate shots, Helen G. and Sandy! You both look wonderful in your shades of silver. :o)
Posted by on 04/21 at 02:58 PM
Helen you do look joyous and beautiful. Your hair is glowing with health.
Congratulations Sandy on a very graceful transition, I hope you continue to enjoy the freedom of not dyeing.
Posted by on 04/21 at 03:27 PM
Welcome to the Gallery ladies!!! You both look so happy! Helen never lose that smile, it’s contagious! Sandy you have inspired me to dust off my bike, once I find it that is. It’s definitely in the garage somewhere! Congrats to the two of you.
Posted by on 04/21 at 04:00 PM
You know, I’ve just been re-reading this section. Did you notice how interesting, vital and active all our grads are? What an accomplished group of women. A tip of the hat to you!
Posted by on 04/21 at 04:17 PM
Helen, love the smile and LOVE the hair. I’m guessing that it will be long again one day and it will be gorgeous but this cut looks great on you also.
Sandy, your hair is the perfect compliment to your steely blue (or gray?) eyes, what a fabulous look for you.
Congrats ladies!
Posted by on 04/21 at 04:25 PM
I tip my hat too! It never ceases to amaze me just how amazing each one is in their own individual way! I tip my hat to you also Diana, without you there wouldn’t be “us!”
Posted by on 04/21 at 04:32 PM
are we good or what?????
yippppeeeeeeee...you girls made it...official that is!!
welcome to the lighter/brighter side....
ok now diana we need a YEARBOOK !!!
Posted by on 04/21 at 04:47 PM
WOOOOW Helen and Sandy!! what beautiful transitionings!
Helen what a stylish cut,and Sandy,what a hip cut!!!
And your colors...Boy,how relieved you must feel…
Welcome,welcome..
Petra.
Posted by on 04/22 at 01:20 AM
Wow! Sandy and Helen .... look how fantastic both of you look!!!!
Congratulations and thanks for sharing your journey!
Posted by on 04/22 at 04:47 AM
WOWZA! Helen G. and Sandy! You both look Amazazing! Congrats on the graduation! You are both incredible, inspirations women! How lucky am I to be in this group!
~dede
Posted by on 04/22 at 05:22 AM
Sandy and Helen, Congratulations to you both. You guys look awesome!!!
Posted by on 04/22 at 09:56 AM
Oh - I love the updates, Suzanne, Leeja, and Ellenina!!! It is so much fun to watch hair grow! :o)
Posted by on 04/22 at 08:43 PM
Thanks, greeneyes. I’m really happy with how fast it is growing out. Everyone’s update pics are so cool.
Posted by on 04/22 at 10:14 PM
Congrats to Sandy and Helen! Y’all look wonderful! I’m with you greeneyes, I’m loving all the updates and watching everyone’s hair grow, including your’s Dara!
Leeja
Posted by on 04/23 at 05:00 AM
Wow so many lovely updates!! Dara, Leej, Ellenina, and Suzanne you ladies look gorgeous!! Ellenina seeing your length makes me want to keep growing, even though I have been googling short hairstyles for the last few days!! Every day I change my mind at least a couple of times!
Posted by on 04/23 at 05:11 AM
i love all the “latest” pics!!!
Posted by on 04/23 at 05:18 AM
The new pics are really nice .... it’s nice to see them super-sized so we can get a closer look at all of the shimmering strands of silver and white! Beautimous!
Posted by on 04/23 at 06:34 AM
Thanks for the updates, you all look fantastic. I especially like the silver wave right in front Ellenina!
Posted by on 04/24 at 03:48 AM
I’ve loved looking at all the updated shots. Gorgeous!
Posted by on 04/24 at 01:14 PM
Hi~ Thank you EVERYONE for all the nice comments, and support! (also, patience in waiting for me to leap off the Semester I page!) Laura is ready too- I think.. more peer pressure- it worked on me! (thanks louann!)
Diana~ thank you SO much for creating this community~ I’ve loved the pictures, the stories, the jokes- I’ve been struck over the last 15 months by how I usually know who it is “speaking” in the alert I get~ before I even go to the website post. Very cool…
Congrats to you Sandy! I love the color and have a great summer not messing with your hair!!
[p.s Go Badgers! BS’85 ]
Posted by on 04/25 at 05:05 AM
Ana - You are beautiful! Good luck with your move and being able to help with your parents. You will not regret this time to be with them.
Posted by on 04/26 at 12:42 PM
Hi Ana! BEAUTIFUL!!!
Posted by on 04/26 at 01:03 PM
Congratulations Ana, you really do have a beautiful colour and wear it so well.
Posted by on 04/26 at 01:40 PM
Wow Ana, it looks beautiful. What a fabulous white colour you have, so much nicer than the dye.
Posted by on 04/26 at 01:51 PM
Ana - What a beautiful and fantastic, dramatic change! Sometimes the best surprises are hiding right ABOVE our noses! Ooo...warm Florida, lucky you!!!(And lucky parents to have a daughter like you!)
Posted by on 04/26 at 02:14 PM
Ana—you really sparkle!! I love your new color.
Posted by on 04/26 at 02:19 PM
YAY ANA!! I was wondering when that beautiful hair was getting to the grad page while looking at the mini-meet shots! Congrats! Helen
Posted by on 04/26 at 02:36 PM
Ana~ Stunning! Watch out Florida!
Posted by on 04/26 at 04:13 PM
very pretty Ana.
Posted by on 04/26 at 06:34 PM
wow ana...i knew you needed to get on this page!!!we’ve seen the pics and we love em!!
good luck with the move and mom and dad...there are some florida ladies you can connect with and remember lulu has her traveling home ...so next winter you guys can have a mini meet!!!
congrats and welcome to the “bright side” !!
Posted by on 04/26 at 06:38 PM
Ana - What a wonderful, dramatic transtition! Congratulations!
Posted by on 04/26 at 07:02 PM
Hi Ana,you are looking georgeous! SOOOO much more beautiful than the dye...Really amazing!
Petra.
Posted by on 04/27 at 12:09 AM
Ana, I’m so happy for you! You look really beautiful!
Laura
Posted by on 04/27 at 01:28 PM
Wow - I haven’t been here in a couple of weeks and I see 3 new graduates.
Ana (b), Helen (This Year) and Sandy - you all look just terrific! I’ve still got my arm around a gal at work that is going through transition. She has visited the site but I don’t think she’ll put up her picture. I wish she would. She has the most gorgeous color coming through - and I’d say she is about 1/2 way - so she could inspire so many more. But - she isn’t quitting and she isn’t going back.
She has watched me, and it’s nice to know, in some small way, that I had something to do with her attitude about feeling free enough to let the dye go. I think every gal on this graduates page could easily say the same thing.
You WILL inspire others!!!
Posted by on 04/27 at 05:47 PM
Ana, It’s so nice to see you on the grads page with that glorious shade of white! You look great!!!
Posted by on 04/28 at 01:45 PM
Thanks everyone!! I have really really enjoyed this whole process. Having friends like you going through the same thing, not only made it easier, it made it really fun. Having friends like Ruth here at home made it special. Knowing that I can move across country and still have you all makes it incredibly comforting.
Looking forward to meeting Lulu in Florida next winter, where we will be warm, and toasty and gray.
AnaB
Posted by on 04/29 at 03:40 PM
Yeah Ana! You look beautiful!
Posted by on 05/02 at 08:36 AM
I can’t wait to meet you Anab!! Where in Florida will you be living?? Welcome to the Grad Gallery by the way! You look stunning with that gorgeous head of snowy white hair!!
Posted by on 05/02 at 09:51 AM
Oh man, Dawn! You ARE glowing! Fabulous, shimmering silver that reflects off those blue eyes of yours! Well done!
Posted by on 05/12 at 02:14 PM
Dawn you look fantastic! It never ceases to amaze me how the natural silver lights up the face! Bravo!
Posted by on 05/12 at 02:39 PM
This year-"Helen"- A lovely double transition. Somewhere Helen’s previous length is helping someone have a transition of their own. And here YOU are, a beautiful silver!
Posted by on 05/12 at 02:43 PM
dawn you look positively glowing!!!! i am so excited for you!!! and now this is another point i have learned...MEN ARE VISUAL types...that’s why they will NEVER ask for directions...they think they already KNOW !!!
i love your white jacket and i saw a glimpse of green ?! i love green and i am so happy that i am “yellow” enough to be able to wear it!!!
welcome to the bright side !!! now you need to hang out with us and cheer the rest on!!!!
Posted by on 05/12 at 04:10 PM
awwwe I heart you guys! what an ego booster you all are.
thankyou for the compliments,I really beleive I would have failed without you and Diana cheering me on.
I feel like I got my grove on,and Im in the “zone”. Hopefully this summer will bring on length,although the short hair may suit me better,we’ll see. So even though I may not post I’m watching you all transform,and I love it!!
Dawn
Posted by on 05/12 at 04:56 PM
Dawn~ you look beautiful...dare I say, years younger too! So nice to hear your grad story… absolutely love the color~ Your blue eyes and beautiful skin are lovely with the new color! Congrats!! Helen
Posted by on 05/12 at 05:55 PM
Congratulations, Dawn! I enjoyed watching your transition. You have such a great shade of silver!
Posted by on 05/12 at 06:19 PM
Yay Dawn, what a beautiful color and so shimmery. Congratulations, you look gorgeous.
Posted by on 05/12 at 07:27 PM
OMG;hardly not to keep up,so fast the transitionings are going!!!
First:Dawn,really beautiful,such a beautifull color,and soooo much better than the dye…
And Patty!! You too!! What can i say?? Beautiful transition,MAN,you did it in a record time!! You look very relieved!
Both georgeous ladies:WELCOME to the grad-page.
Petra.
Posted by on 05/13 at 07:59 AM
Patty congrats you look amazing and I love the color blue on you. Yay!!
Posted by on 05/13 at 07:18 PM
Dawn, welcome to the Gallery!!! Husbands always come around to our way of thinking! My Daughter and I love to visit the second-hand stores, we have found many “treasures!” I love your new colour!!
Posted by on 05/14 at 04:52 AM
Welcome Patty!! I thought I transitioned at a fast pace, wow, you really crossed the finish line at record speed. As much as I, personally, struggled with going very short it WAS a speedy road to my “all natural” new look! I love the pixie on you!!! Are you planning to grow your hair??
Posted by on 05/14 at 04:59 AM
Patty - quick transition! Your silver is so pretty. Congrats!
Posted by on 05/14 at 05:22 AM
congrats patty...never mind the stunning silver look how great that blue top is!!!!
glad you “just did it”!!!!
Posted by on 05/14 at 06:59 AM
Patty, you made it in record time looking stunning! I read your info and saw what you said about your husband loving your once long dark hair. Mine has always been partial to dark hair too and even though he was super supportive I was worried that he wouldn’t like my new silver highlighted look. Mine isn’t as light as yours but I love it and so does he. And I have to say that your new look is so much more amazing than any artificial dye-job! Another trend setter proving that mother nature knows best!
Posted by on 05/14 at 07:16 AM
Dawn and Patty, congratulations. Looked quick and easy from here. You both look radiant!
Posted by on 05/14 at 09:40 AM
I have not posted in a while and wow, look at all of you!!! Beautiful and like I always say, “Mother Nature knows what the heck she’s doing”!!! And why do we insist on messing with her?!! At least we’ve figured it out and Oz helped a lot of us with that one!!
Posted by on 05/14 at 02:34 PM
WOW!!! Patty and Dawn!!! Woooo Whoooo you both look terrific!!! That didn’t take long a all!
Posted by on 05/16 at 07:19 PM
WOW, Patti! You look absolutely gorgeous and you rock! You can so pull off the short do!
Here’s a perfect example of attitude, silver sisters! She’s got it goin’ on!
Posted by on 05/19 at 10:06 AM
After looking at all the before and afters on this graduate page I can honestly say these ladies all rock. Our natural coloring is so much more complimentary that what we can ever get out of a bottle. You ladies ALL look awesome!
Posted by on 05/19 at 10:15 AM
Sonya~ Truly magnificent! Congratulations (on graduating, on the ten pounds, and on your grandbaby)! I. Can’t. Believe. You. Are. A. Grandmother.
Posted by on 05/21 at 10:06 AM
Sonya - Simply lovely! Your real silver hair looks amazing! I love the cut too. I had my last baby at age 41. I was pregnant at the same time as my daughter-in-law. (Remember, Diane Keaton in “Father of the Bride”? hee,hee)
What a fun career! I bet you learn all sorts of aliments. Can’t they give you an honorary Dr. degree after this? Congrats, you look beautiful!
Posted by on 05/21 at 10:19 AM
Sonja~ You look truly amazing! Your new color is absolutely stunning and soooo beautiful! Love the cut! Congrats on finishing your transformation, your weight loss, and on being a new Grandma. There’s nothing like it! You rock!
Posted by on 05/21 at 10:27 AM
Sonja, gorgeous!!! Wow, another rockin’ Gram. And that sounds like a great job!
Posted by on 05/21 at 10:38 AM
Sonja - Welcome to the gallery! What a beautiful color you have! I’m nearing the empty nest and many times wish I had a young one in the house. Good for you! :o)
Posted by on 05/21 at 12:08 PM
Sonja, Congratulations on all the wonderful things happening in your life. Not least of which—making a fabulous, gorgeous splash into the Graduate Gallery. You look so beautiful and so happy. Love the cut and the color.
Posted by on 05/21 at 02:29 PM
Thank you for all your wonderful sweet comments...This site has been an inspiration during the year long journey and when I felt like coloring again, because I was scared of looking “old”...my hair would be a messy frizz without my flatiron...my daughter tells me I look like Einstein when I don’t straighten it.
Posted by on 05/21 at 03:20 PM
sonja...i am so happy to see you here!!! you look fantastic!!! aren’t you thrilled with the color???
my mother had me at 45...and my sister was pregnant with her first...(we are 3 months apart!!! my nephew is older) and as i have said here before..my mother gave birth to me with a head full of pure white hair!!!
congrats congrats congrats...enjoy life!!!
Posted by on 05/21 at 05:03 PM
Sonja - Congratulations! It’s great to know that the journey is worth it. You look absolutely gorgeous!
Posted by on 05/21 at 05:12 PM
sonja you look fantastic! your eyes really light up!
way to go
Dawn
Posted by on 05/21 at 06:23 PM
Hi Sonja,I am so happy for you,You did it!!! You look so beautiful!!! Have fun with your great color.
Posted by on 05/21 at 06:33 PM
Hi Sonja!! Wooooow,you look georgous! Beautiful color AND hairstyle...So much more beautifyl than the dye…
Petra.
Posted by on 05/21 at 08:19 PM
Sonja - I think your hair looks absolutely lovely. The cut is really sophisticated and as we say here in the UK - you really do look like a yummy mummy! Welcome to a life with natures highlights - it’s sooooo liberating!
Posted by on 05/25 at 11:28 AM
Thank you so much for your kind comments...I really do love not coloring anymore....never realized how good it would feel...Why was I so scared of gray???
Posted by on 05/26 at 03:15 PM
BTW, Petra, I’m from Sweden...not too far from Holland...grew up there and I have dual citizen ship...always wanted to visit Holland…
Posted by on 05/26 at 03:19 PM
Sonja, welcome to the Gallery! You have a lovely shade of silver!
Posted by on 05/28 at 04:08 PM
Hi Everyone I’m from Australia. Just starting posting on this website. I can honestly say that everyone looks better with the silver. I have nearly a half inch of growth against very dark brown dye. Not scary yet but in a couple of weeks I’ll start to get that lovely she’s obviously having a nervous breakdown don’t say anything in case she loses it completely look we all love. Nevermind. Now and then, when I lose my nerve I just remind myself that I’m lucky to be living the sort of life where I still have the luxury of worrying about gray roots. Know what I mean? That keeps me going until the next minor freak out!
Love to all.
Posted by on 05/30 at 06:44 PM
Heee—oh, yeah, THAT look! Well, you’re not the lone Aussie here, Joan. You’ll see Christie (above, and she’s also featured in our Gray Mama story), and we have Shelley in the Newbies ‘09 section (under the Transitioning tab). Australia’s #5 on our list of countries, now 79, viewing this site, so I’m sure a lot more of you are out there! Welcome, again, and try not to freak out as you go through this wonderful, amazing journey!
Posted by on 05/31 at 02:29 AM
Hi Diane and thanks. My ex came over today to drop something off. I’m home sick, hope its not the dreaded swine flu! And his eyes kept going to the top of my head. My dh thought it was funny. I didn’t address it at all. Nope. Not going to start defending myself! I haven’t just dwidled a bunch of seniors out of their life savings for crying out loud. I just haven’t done my roots for a while. It was time about a week and a half ago. I’ve let it go. Being right now is really inconvenient but at least it gives me a good excuse to not worry about it right now. I’m not going out at all so I can hide for a few days. I’ll have to decide prolly at the end of the week whether i’ll ‘do something’ about the roots or just suck it up and grow it out. I have worked out a couple of things though. One is that, there really isn’t colour that approximates whats coming out of my head! Even if i soften the look with highlights, lowlights etc..it will all have to be cut off at some stage. Nothing will really blend with it. eek.
Posted by on 05/31 at 02:41 AM
Well, Joan, you may not be sick long enough for your entire transition! Hopefully. But you are so right about nothing being able to match your own unique shade of silver. Highlights simply help ease the contrast. For awhile. Read the different strategies under the Transitioning tab. Absolutely correct that sooner or later, you must stop coloring.
Oops, not Diane. Diana. Or you could just call me Oz, like everyone else.
Feel better soon!
Posted by on 05/31 at 04:27 AM
greeneyes - OMG! I just saw the most recent photo. SMOKIN’ HOT!!!
Posted by on 06/06 at 12:59 PM
Thanks, Lisa! :o)
Posted by on 06/06 at 01:34 PM
As usual I was scrolling through the Members Album and I spotted another update. It is from Beth who is right here in the Grad Gallery!! She looks awesome! Go check her out!
Posted by on 06/07 at 06:02 AM
We also have a photo of Barbara in the Members Album, another “long haired” girl. Now I know which Barbara is which !
Posted by on 06/07 at 06:07 AM
I am beginning to feel like the GGLG “town crier! “ So here goes, go check out the “Members Album” for new updates from GraytNW and DeDe!! they look marvelous! OK, now back to search for more new photos!!
Posted by on 06/09 at 05:32 AM
Thanks lulu!! I just threw that up yesterday cuz I got new glasses!! I miss you gals...I’ve got to start checking in more often and staying awhile!
All of you grads look SPECTACULAR!! I hope everyone is LOVE LOVING their silver as much as I am!
~dede
Posted by on 06/09 at 05:43 AM
You are welcome Dede!! I, WE, miss you too!! Have you checked out the new “Alums 08” page that Diana just put up?? There are some photos of you that I hadn’t seen before and you are as “cute as a button” in them. I am loving my hair as much as you are loving yours!!
Posted by on 06/09 at 05:53 AM
Hey! I’ll check it out! Thanks!
~dede
Posted by on 06/09 at 06:33 AM
Thanks to the “town crier”! :o) Fun to see the updates of Beth, GraytNW and Dede.
Posted by on 06/09 at 06:39 AM
We couldn’t have a more cute town crier then you, lulubell!
GrayNW- You look great! Wow, your hair is growing so fast! Lucky!
Posted by on 06/09 at 07:42 AM
ok petra i jus tsaw your update in this section!!!! fantastic!!! if anyone tells you different they are LYING and i mean it...there is no way anyone could possibly want you to go back to the bottle!!! you are adorable!!!
and karate mom you look fantastic!!! we saw this sneak peak on FB already!!!!
Posted by on 06/18 at 01:54 PM
What a darling you are Petra! That is the cutest picture!
Posted by on 06/18 at 02:04 PM
Petra - I didn’t think anything could be cuter than your pixie, but you’ve proven me wrong. You look great and what a beautiful natural color you have! Hmmmmm, what would you call that color? Lovely… (BTW, I loved your pixie so much that I have it in my inspiration folder of possible short hairstyles. If I have the courage. )
Ellenina - I love your updated picture too! Love the way your hair has grown in. You’ve got a beautiful and unique color that looks fantastic on YOU!
If I ever I have any doubts that natural is the way to go, I need look no further than all the lovely ladies here. Thanks for the inspiration!
Posted by on 06/18 at 03:13 PM
Petra- love your hair color! it’s interesting to see that you look younger (at least to me) compared to the reddish dye. Beautiful- Helen
Posted by on 06/18 at 04:16 PM
Petra you look lovely and wow you hair has grown quite a bit! What a great idea you had for the photo, very clever! I love your natural silver!
Posted by on 06/18 at 04:18 PM
Ellenina you have such a pretty shade of silver, how I wish my hair was that colour! I think red is definitely “your” colour when it comes to clothing!!
Posted by on 06/18 at 04:22 PM
Elllenina, me again, your new photo somehow looked “familiar” to me when I first had a look at it??? Now I know why, you look so similar to “Sharon” to me! Does anyone else see the resemblance? I am, of course, referring to our Sharon from the U.K. Perhaps it is the dark eyes and the striking, silver hair!
Posted by on 06/18 at 04:32 PM
I agree, Lulubell. Ellenina and Sharon have some like features.
Love the color and length you have Ellenina. So very pretty!
And Petra! Oh, if I felt like I could do short hair, I would ask for the style you have. I like it so much and it is very becoming on you!
Thanks for the updates, ladies!
Posted by on 06/18 at 04:56 PM
Petra, you little cutie! Your hair is just absolutely adorable. You look like a petite little pixie. You can so totally pull off the look. LOVE it!!
Posted by on 06/18 at 05:25 PM
Ellenina~ Simply beautiful!! Love your color and it is so flattering with your skin tone. So soft and Gorgeous! Love that color on you too!
Posted by on 06/18 at 05:29 PM
Hi Petra and Ellenina, it’s wonderful to see your updated photos.
Petra you’ve got some spunk, you look gorgeous.
I can definitely see the similarities between Ellenina and Sharon, both looking so soft, serene and glamorous!
Take care!
Posted by on 06/18 at 06:23 PM
Petra, I totally agree with Helen - you look about 20 years younger without the dye! Your natural color is just lovely and the cut is just perfect on you.
Ellenina, your hair has grown in so beautifully and you look great in red!
Thank you both for the updated photos. All of the graduates are such on inspiration.
Nadine
Posted by on 06/18 at 07:02 PM
Hi Lulubell
Yes I do think Ellenina and I look alike. I noticed it when she put a new photo on Facebook and at first glance I thought it was me! I’m sure we must share some ancestors.
Sharon
Posted by on 06/18 at 11:58 PM
O my,Louann,Goldie,Jules,Thisyear,Lulubell,Greeneyes,Aziza,Christie,Lookinggrayt:LOVE the positive comments!!
Ellenina:love your color and waves…
O and Diana,thanks for putting up this pic;i KNOW how busy you are..
Petra.
Posted by on 06/19 at 12:08 AM
i have noticed the similarity between elenina and sharon also ...it is the soft curls color and those great eyes!
it is soo fun to look at the “before “ and after the after pics!!! keep em comin’ gals!!!
Posted by on 06/19 at 05:40 AM
Hi, All.
Thanks for the compliments. I’m just going to let is grow ‘cause I love being a silver sister.
All the updates look fantastic. You ladies look stunning!
I also like seeing Sharon’s pics ‘cause I think there is a bit of resemblence there as well. My ancestry is a mixed bag of sorts but some did hail from the UK, Scotland, Sweden and Greece. Maybe somewhere there’s a link.
Posted by on 06/19 at 03:20 PM
Love the longer hair Petra.
Posted by on 06/24 at 12:00 PM
Thanks,dorsetlady!
Petra.
Posted by on 06/25 at 06:19 AM
Hey Petra I love the longer length and colour - wow your hair grows fast.
And again those beautiful blue eyes…
Posted by on 06/29 at 01:22 PM
Silverlake, thank you for your sweet words…
Petra.
Posted by on 06/30 at 09:02 AM
Well I’m not even sure where to post this. I’ve never posted a photo, I hate photos of myself and I don’t know how to post them anyways . But in Feb I decide to have my hair cut short, which led me to decide to stop coloring my hair, which I had been doing for about 40 years. This decision led me to an even shorter haircut and heavily frosted hair with a gray toner in March. Last week every last bit of color was cut out. Grant it my hair is at best 1” long but it feels glorious
Posted by on 07/08 at 06:53 PM
WOOOOW Staci!!!Since when are you grad?? You look AMAZING! So much more beautiful then the dye..Perfect transition!
You must feel so relieved…
Petra.
Posted by on 07/13 at 03:10 AM
Hi Staci and Sonja
Two lovely silver graduates - well done!
Staci - those cheekbones! Sonja - where do you get your hair cut? I love that style!
Posted by on 07/13 at 03:54 AM
Finally another Grad! WOOOOW for sure Staci, Petra is right you look Amazing! I think you look younger with your natural haircolour, so much softer. Yet another head-turning transformation!
Posted by on 07/13 at 03:59 AM
Congratulations Staci! You look wonderful! You have a great color and I also think you look younger in your pixie. :o)
Posted by on 07/13 at 05:41 AM
welcome to the brighter side of life staci!!! you look great! again mother nature knows what the heck she’s doing!!
Posted by on 07/13 at 05:53 AM
Everyone looks awesome...I love Catweezie’s (Petra) new picture...as someone who’s just embarking upon getting a pixie, I _really_ love that haircut!
Posted by on 07/13 at 06:26 AM
Staci, you look absolutely stunning--very glamourous indeed! Congrats!
Posted by on 07/13 at 06:27 AM
Staci~ gorgeous! You look just beautiful. Congratulations on your weight loss accomplishment too! That’s fantastic.
Posted by on 07/13 at 10:27 AM
Underneath it all,so nice to hear you like my cut...My stylist always use the razor,it becomes kind of choppy then. I know by the way for sure that a pixie kind of haircut wil look great on you! You have great features and the transition goes a lot faster…
Petra.
Posted by on 07/13 at 12:09 PM
Thanks for the encouragement, Petra...I’m getting it cut...I might even take your new updated picture to the hairdresser, if you don’t mind having someone in North Carolina copy-catting you, Catweezie!
Also wanted to say to Ellenina--your hair looks so very pretty with the length you’ve grown!
Posted by on 07/13 at 12:38 PM
Ofcoarse i dont mind, Underneath it all! It is a compliment…
Petra.
Posted by on 07/13 at 10:32 PM
Staci
I love the new look. You still look really young and vibrant
Katie
Posted by on 07/14 at 04:04 AM
Staci, I love the new you. You look very sophisticated and sexy. Congrats!
Posted by on 07/14 at 04:33 PM
Great look Staci!!!!
Posted by on 07/21 at 07:25 PM
grayincali/Suzanne~ Your new pic in members album looks cute as all of your pictures have, and they’ve inspired me. I understand what you are saying and I feel a lot of what you have described. Sending you wishes of growth from one Cali gal to another THANKS
Posted by on 07/23 at 04:59 AM
Two more Grads! Silvercurl and Ruth you both look fantastic, thank-you Mother Nature!! This has been quite the morning indeed Silvercurl your pixie suits you so much (I would stick with it) and your colour is almost identical to mine....hmmm.....maybe I should stick with the pixie Ruth, I am loving your length.......hmmm You both have so much going on in your lives, you should be so proud of yourselves!
Posted by on 07/23 at 05:25 AM
Congrats Eva and Ruth! I’ll never tire of seeing the before and after pictures which prove how complimentary our natural colors truly are!
Posted by on 07/23 at 05:44 AM
lulubel, I really need to thank you for your wonderful support. I have been way to busy to keep up with GGLG, but I try to look in every few days. It is still so inspiring. You have been a tremendous help in my transition. Always there with a positive comment.
Now, to grow or not to grow 
...
I have to say that life is pretty easy without coloring and short hair. Feedback has been so positive - I will keep it short for now and maybe grow over the winter when humidity is a little lower. I do think my color is a lot like yours, as are my curls. Not bad!:)
Ruth, congrats. What a gorgeous color and length.
Posted by on 07/23 at 05:47 AM
FINALLY !!! eva we love the silver on you ... and ruth well you have been all over the place and now here you are on this page!!!
congrats ladies !!!!
now don’t go away…
Posted by on 07/23 at 05:57 AM
Silvercurl - That is a really cute cut and I can’t believe you did it with a Flowbee! I wish that I had one right about now. Although, I’m not confident that I have your skill. You look beautiful!
Ruthmgon - I love the length around your face. Congrats on graduating!
Posted by on 07/23 at 06:21 AM
Silvercurl, you are so welcome! I am beaming from ear to ear. Yes our colour and curls are very similar. Do you think I should keep my pixie or should I continue to grow?? I again have come to a fork in the silver brick road One road leads to long curls and the other leads to short and sassy.....help
Posted by on 07/23 at 07:44 AM
Eva- You are darling! I didn’t know you did botanical art! That’s so cool!
Ruth- You are one busy, fantastic silver! I can’t wait to hear about your next adventure!
Posted by on 07/23 at 08:49 AM
Jules, Your pictures remind me so much of my transition. That “lovely” gray/orange look! Or as my sweet daughter said, silver and copper. I couldn’t wait to chop it off and I never looked back. No regrets! How are you coping?
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:06 AM
lulubel, personally I love the short look on you, especially in that crazy alligator picture (which I only recently discovered). Tough choice! The great thing about hair is that you can grow it and cut it again if you don’t like it. Ah, the dilemma we have with our hair. Who else but GGLG girls can talk about this subject non stop. Love it here
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:12 AM
Silvercurl - My transition might be more like yours than you expected… I’ll let you know how I’m coping later today. I have an appointment late this afternoon with my hair stylist. I didn’t think that I was going to chop it all off, but I’ve changed my mind. I’m going for that ultra short pixie after all… I’ve always wanted to try it, so now seems like the perfect time. I’ll admit that it is somewhat scary, but I’m very excited too! I don’t think that I’ll be completely rid of the dye, but most of it should hit the floor…
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:18 AM
Goldie, I come from a very artistic family, but I never painted until I turned forty. It was one of those “midlife see the light” kind of things. I love to garden and botanicals really give me the opportunity to express what I see. I’m very lucky to have a new profession that I truly love.
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:18 AM
Hurray for you, Jules. You have a great face for a pixie!! Can’t wait to see what you come back with. And you know, the best thing I have learned is: IT’S ONLY HAIR. It grows back. I also never had hair this short. Very scary. The night I chopped it I had a big Martini. That helped.
I’m holding my breath and crossing my fingers and toes for you!!
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:23 AM
Thanks for the encouragement, Silvercurl. I’ve had very short hair when I was much younger (and ironically gray), but never as short as what I’m contemplating now. You are so right about it only being hair. I’ve never kept one hair style for very long, so I was due for a change anyway. I am thinking about that martini though… My one and only sister (who is my very best friend) is going with me for moral support. (BTW, she is gray herself. Although not nearly as silver as me and she’s older.) It seems rather silly, but she’s happy to go with me. I think she just wants to be one of the first to see the new cut. I’m not sure who’s more excited.
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:34 AM
Silvercurl and Eva. Welcome. I guess now you have officially transitioned. I to love love coming and seeing the new photos posted. It is so much fun.
Jules get out I am so excited. When did you decide to do the cut. We are so close with this both 43. I started April 6th and I think you were the 9th or close to it. I had my big chop yesterday and you are going today. I cannot wait to hear how it goes and to see your photos. How nice that your sister is going with you. Good luck.
Katie
Posted by on 07/23 at 10:32 AM
Here we go again!!! It’s a pixie-fest Jules I agree with silvercurl, you do have a great face for the pixie cut, perhaps leave a little for movement and styling. You can always go shorter!
Posted by on 07/23 at 11:06 AM
Thanks, Lulubell. I plan on leaving a bit of length for styling, so I know that I probably won’t get rid of all the color. I’m ok with that. I’d rather have a decent style. My hair has grown at a rather uneven rate too. For some reason, the hair towards the front of my head on top has barely grown at all…
Posted by on 07/23 at 11:15 AM
Oh, Jules, I think a pixie will be great on you!
How fortunate you are to be doing something you love for your career, Eva! I still don’t know what I am going to be when I grow up....heee…
Posted by on 07/23 at 11:58 AM
silvercurl and ruthmgon~ Your undated looks are fabulous! Both are such beautiful silvers and yet so unique. You could never duplicate that from a bottle. I’m betting you both get lots of compliments. Lovely!
Posted by on 07/23 at 12:16 PM
Goldie, who said anything about having grown up?
Seems to me you have so many hats to wear (literally and figuratively), that there must not be any time left for you to ponder which of your many talents to concentrate on. Wish I had as many. I guess I’m lucky to have found the one I do have. Timing is good for me, since my youngest leaves for college in another month.
Posted by on 07/23 at 12:16 PM
Oh, Jules! I am soooo excited for you! I agree with everyone else. A pixie will look really cute on you. How awesome that your sister is your best friend and that she will share in this experience with you. I’m eager to see it, as is everyone else.
Posted by on 07/23 at 12:23 PM
Hee, hee...that’s funny, Silvercurl! You are sooo sweet to say that. Timing is everything, isn’t it? If I wait for my youngest to leave, I’m in trouble!!
Posted by on 07/23 at 01:50 PM
Wooow Silvercurl,you look so georgeous!! And Ruth,you too…
congrats, ladies!
Petra.
Posted by on 07/23 at 01:56 PM
Silvercurl and catweezle--just wanted to say how CUTE both of your styles are! You are both absolutely adorable and I find myself going back to your pics for inspitation. I am trying so hard to keep my mind off my head as my white growth is at about 1 1/2”. You were both brave to do the short cut. I am about ready to cut it “down to the wood” My wonderful daughters are great encouragement (andDH, too) to just keep going. Patience is not a virtue for me with this! Linda
Posted by on 07/24 at 06:50 AM
Yay Eva & Ruth. Ruth I’ve been waiting patiently for your graduation and It’s been well worth it, you look fantastic.
Eva, you look great, I can’t beleive you did that yourself. Well, actually I can because your fabulous and talented. Great job girls!
Posted by on 07/24 at 07:13 AM
Hi and thanks, happyhart. The reason we all gather here is that this transition is indeed a huge change and that is all we can think about. I could literally not think about anything for months but my new silver coming in. My family still doesn’t want to hear the h-word (hair). Thank God for GGLG, where no one tires of talking about hair, hair and more hair.
Good news is, when the orange/dyed hair is gone, so is some of the obsession. Pixies are not everyone’s style, but it sure makes transitioning a lot easier and faster. Can’t wait to see how you deal with this.
Posted by on 07/24 at 07:14 AM
Congrats to all the new members of the Newbie Graduates Gallery - you all look fantastic!!
Suzanne (grayincali)...I love your new members album pic! Your hair looks very much like mine right now (length and thickness-wise) but I am still transitioning out the dyed ends. I have to fight the poof too - the flat-iron has become my best friend!
Diana...don’t know if you are aware that the link on the homepage for the Newbie Graduates Gallery under “the latest and greatest on gray” actually leads to the Cool Guys page
Nadine
Posted by on 07/24 at 07:32 AM
Thanks everybody!
I didnt mean to wait so long to graduate! I credit all of you for making the trip from dye to silver so memorable and life “opening” My hair is me...and I own it now! Like dede said, no more worrying about the wind showing my roots. I have been chatting with a friend at work who is ready to do the same thing. I hope she joins you here someday!
You all look beautiful!
Ruth
Posted by on 07/24 at 08:20 PM
Petra, I don’t know when you sent in your update but I love the growth. You have a cute edgy style. How long are you planning to go?
Posted by on 08/12 at 08:09 PM
I haven’t been here in awhile and all the graduates look stunning! Thank you for the great comments, and yes, I have blue eyes. Quite a bit of growth since the picture above, and quite a bit more white (guess I owe Diana another picture!). I love it, though - really enjoying the new me.
Posted by on 08/24 at 06:22 AM
We’d love to see a new shot, Sandy! That’s the neat thing about “evolving”—and you can always evolve right on our pages!
Posted by on 08/24 at 07:01 AM
GraytNW, hi, how are you?? I noticed your update in the Member’s Album also and wow, your hair is really growing!!!
Posted by on 08/24 at 09:15 AM
Annette, welcome to the Gallery!! I was wondering where you had gone! Congrats on your weight loss, it is amazing how making the decision to go natural seems to have a “snow-ball” effect on the rest of our lives! Like you I love dancing, it is wonderful exercise and just plain FUN!! It really is so nice to see your smiling face here in the Gallery!
Posted by on 09/09 at 05:15 AM
Annette - You did it! Your silver is so pretty and it sounds as if you’re enjoying your newfound freedom. I continue to be amazed at the MANY changes we experience when we make the decision to go natural.
Lulubell - I’m wondering...kinda like “which came first - the chicken or the egg?” “Which came first - the decision to go natural or was the decision to go natural the result of our searching to be authentic and free in the first place?” I’m like you, though...going natural seems to have set it all in motion, but in retrospect, I wonder if we weren’t already in a sort of change (other than menopause!) :o) Don’t know if that made sense. I overslept today and am only on my first cup of coffee. I probably shouldn’t chat yet. hee hee hee…
Posted by on 09/09 at 06:03 AM
Good Morning Greeneyes! Hmmmm....chicken or egg??? For me, personally, I had been seriously contemplating going natural for at least two years before finding GGLG, although that WAS also around the time my Husband began coaxing me to think about Florida and freedom from unnecessary commitments that I had become attached to. Once I came to realize that it was very easy to let life pass by unnoticed (and not taking the time to stop to smell the roses along the way) I began to feel as though it WAS time to live by my own rules and just live life to the fullest. Of course that meant less income coming in, so I had to become creative when it came to spending money. As we all now know, it costs “a LOT” of money to maintain dyed hair!! OK.....where am I going with this ramble????? I have had TOO much coffee....unlike you, who hasn’t had enough. In a nutshell......I think I WAS already in a sort of change!
Posted by on 09/09 at 06:25 AM
Thanks for sharing out of your caffeine-inspired state of mind, Lulubell! I’m intrigued that it was your husband who encouraged some of the positive changes for you. The other day my husband and I were talking about how we have changed in our 25 years of marriage. He told me I don’t seem to enjoy life as much as when we met. It has really made me stop and notice how I let too many things weigh on my mind and forget “to stop and smell the roses” as you say. Guess our husbands can inspire us at times. :o)
Posted by on 09/09 at 06:50 AM
Well then, time for a stroll through the rose garden with your Husband’s hand in yours! It is encouraging to hear that your Husband and you “talk” to each other, so many couples just seem to “assume” that they know how the other is feeling. My Husband is a “gem” and I appreciate him so much! He has been in “my corner” from the day we met.
Posted by on 09/09 at 07:13 AM
GardenMimine - Hey! Have not seen you post in a while - hope you are doing great. Wondering if you have grown your hair longer or kept the shorter style.
Posted by on 09/09 at 08:29 AM
Annette! Congrats on your transformation! You look fantastic...glowing & happy! Country two-step dancing is very fun & competing...well good for you two!!! What a terrific way to go through this life together- dancing!
Posted by on 09/09 at 08:42 AM
annette
welcome to this side of the silver rainbow!! you look fab...happy and healthy!
i love the discussion about chicken or egg...i have no idea but i, like lulu, had been thinking about it for a few years before...and then a “series” of events followed by the famous article in the la times and boom...the perfect storm!!! with lovely salt and pepper after the skies cleared ...
love the discussion about the DH also...mine is kind of quiet (maybe cuz i do alot of yakking...imagine) he is an OBSERVER...he reads people really well...when he makes a suggestion or comment he is usually right ...(darn him !)
i am down in the oc with my sister for a few days and at mass this morning there were loads of lovely shades of gray and not all are in aarp…
yesterday she took me over to see the hairdresser that told me it wasn’t going to look so great and it was a bit fun to watch her stumble around a bit(hee hee) and of course i had to hear about how i had looked pale etc...and now i have on makeup etc..whatever ... want a little salt/pepper with that “crow”????
Posted by on 09/09 at 08:54 AM
Good news, Grayme! GardenMiminine just sent in some pics. And she looks fab. I will get these up as soon as possible!
Posted by on 09/09 at 10:32 AM
GardenMimine, Love the cut but really love the color!
Posted by on 09/10 at 05:05 AM
GardenMimnine, you actually look “younger” in your update. Your haircut is fabulous! Proof once again that silver does NOT equal old!
Posted by on 09/10 at 05:58 AM
GardenMiminine- Who says silver will wash you out?! Look at your pretty, glowing face & healthy silver hair! You’re darling!!
Posted by on 09/10 at 06:28 AM
Wow Catherine!!! You look about 20 years old! Your hair has grown into such a cute style and your silver color is so pretty. Are you growing back to pre-natural length?
Posted by on 09/10 at 06:44 AM
Thanks Diana, GrayMe, LuluBell and Goldie!
The “cut” is actually just the buzzcut growing out with a few trim to keep the hair healthy. It’s all in the styling, thanks to my 15 year old daughter who flatironed my hair with such attention (Merci Éliane! xxx)
I am not sure what I will do with the length. For now it is growing (I can even tie it up in a ponytail...)and I shall see
Posted by on 09/10 at 08:28 AM
Catherine ... it’s so nice to see an update shot of you. Your silver is positively radiant and I love your cut! I also love the way the black and white stripes look with your color. You are workin’ it!
Posted by on 09/10 at 11:37 AM
GardenMimnine, All I can say is GORGEOUS!!! You look sooo fabulous and so youthful. Simply beautiful, lucky you!!
Posted by on 09/10 at 11:43 AM
Wow Catherine! short or long...you look beautiful!
Helen
Posted by on 09/11 at 02:28 AM
Catherine--LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the Style and Color! You are gorgeous! Can’t wait til mine gets some length! Congratulations on your Masters, also! linda
Posted by on 09/11 at 06:04 AM
Thanks GrayinCall, Aziza, Thisyear and happyhart!
Yes the buzz does grow eventually so hang in there sisters! The roots, in between unmanageable hair and everything else is sooo worth it!
Have a goal, keep your eyes on it and enjoy the ride!
Posted by on 09/11 at 07:04 AM
Wow, everyone looks so great! Gardenmimine you look incredible!
Greeneyes--I love your recent cut and style--beautiful.
Beth A
Posted by on 09/11 at 05:08 PM
Beth A - Nice to hear from you and thanks! I see you’re back on the silver-road! It’s great how GGLG has grown, but I must admit I hold a special bond with those of you who were my fellow transitioners. :o)
Posted by on 09/12 at 06:40 AM
catherine love the color and style...what length are you going for?
Posted by on 09/12 at 06:55 AM
Hi Greeneyes--me too.
I cancelled my hair appointment for today. I didn’t really need a cut and I don’t need any pressure about color! The length is coming back nicely.
I’ve got quite a bit of gray at the top and right underneath the outer layers.
I’ll send an update picture in another month.
Thanks,
Beth A.
Posted by on 09/12 at 08:19 AM
Looking forward to the update, Beth!
Posted by on 09/12 at 11:30 AM
Hi Catherine, (GardenMimine)
just to say that your silver and longer length look very beautiful; lovely to see your update!
Posted by on 09/13 at 05:54 AM
Catherine and Greeneyes,
Your new pics are so beautiful! I love having a chance to see the multiplicity of colors “our” gray can be, and just love the effect you have achieve au naturel!
Thanks for sharing your journeys!
Beth/Shine-On
Posted by on 09/13 at 10:30 AM
Thanks Beth/Shine On! It really is fun to see the different shades of gray. By the way, I noticed you got some nice highlights to help in your transition. Hope you are enjoying your transition and I look forward to watching you all the way to gray! :o)
Posted by on 09/13 at 11:19 AM
gardenmimmie
I love your hair. It is a gorgeous colour and suits you so well. Do you get lots of compliments on it. It is fantastic.
Katie
Posted by on 09/14 at 05:47 AM
GardenMimine your hair looks wonderful, you look so much younger with your natural hair.
Posted by on 09/14 at 06:46 AM
Thanks to all for the compliments,
I do like the edge my black and white hair give me. I am happy to be a proof gray can easily be fun, modern and playful.
Posted by on 09/14 at 09:09 AM
Wow--Cat, you just keep on getting more beautiful! Love the look. I’ll have to send in an update as soon as I’m having a really good hair day!
Posted by on 09/15 at 10:22 AM
Looking gorgeous Catherine!
Posted by on 09/17 at 01:51 AM
Congratulations Laura! It was well worth the journey - you look beautiful!
Posted by on 09/22 at 01:53 AM
Laura - Congratulations! You look gorgeous with your beautiful silver hair!
Posted by on 09/22 at 04:06 AM
Beautiful Laura-you did it! You deserve some bling for that
Congratulations
Posted by on 09/22 at 04:51 AM
Laura - and all grads. You look amazing! What an inspiration.
Posted by on 09/22 at 05:04 AM
Congrats Laura!!! Being the last in the class reminds me of that joke:
Q. what do you call the student who graduates last in their class from Harvard Medical School?
A. Doctor
Seriously, you look beautiful...what a patient person you are! I’m sure your journey will inspire every newbie who wants to go slow! Definitely worth it!
- Helen
Posted by on 09/22 at 05:10 AM
Laura - my fellow classmate of ‘08. Congrats!!! I knew you’d get here! You look beautiful! I enjoyed watching every step of your transition.
Posted by on 09/22 at 05:25 AM
well i see you are WEARING your bling bling already!!! very nice very nice...well worth the wait…
for all those “impatient” transitioners....your day will come !!!
congrats…
Posted by on 09/22 at 05:54 AM
Runnergal, how beautiful you are! Now you can hang around the longing for long group! And running a marathon....that IS fantastic too!!
Posted by on 09/22 at 06:01 AM
You look beautiful Laura! What a wonderful transition!
Beth A.
Posted by on 09/22 at 06:17 AM
Laura, You look just AWESOME!! Congrats on completing your transition AND keeping your length! Yesterday was 10 months since I last colored and I still have dyed brown ends. Like you, I am growing out my bangs and trying to keep as much length as possible. You are an inspiration. Enjoy your beautiful head of hair and good luck with training for your first marathon!
Nadine
Posted by on 09/22 at 07:03 AM
WOW, Laura! You look fabulous! I love your cut. Congratulations on completing your transformation. And you run half-marathons too! It really is all about the long haul and you definitely won with your perseverance. You go, girl! Very impressive.
Posted by on 09/22 at 07:10 AM
Just stunning Laura! Congratulations! Now on to Transition number TWO!! Just when you thought it was over, it starts again!! Looking forward to your posts over at “Longing for Long!” I think you will beat me this time, you have some good length right now. I love your hairstyle. Happy Growing!!!
Posted by on 09/22 at 07:19 AM
Hi Laura,
You look fantastic! Thanks for being such a fantastic role model!
Beth/Shine-on
Posted by on 09/22 at 08:12 AM
Hi Laura runnergal, great transition and i am proud for your determination to hold your long lovely locks!!
Petra.
Posted by on 09/22 at 08:25 AM
Thanks everyone for all the nice comments! But stay tuned! I’ll post another picture when it gets long.
And just a little clarification, I will be running my 3rd full marathon in February, not my first.
Posted by on 09/22 at 08:42 AM
Laura, looks like you made it! And, beautifully I might add! Your cut and color both look great and you win the award for the most patience! It was definitely worth the wait! Looking forward to being in the growers club with you!
Posted by on 09/22 at 08:47 AM
Laura your hair looks lovely and so much softer and more beautiful than your ‘before’ - congratulations
Posted by on 09/22 at 09:10 AM
Wow! Laura, you absolutely medaled! Love the cut and your color is stunning. Congrats!
Posted by on 09/22 at 10:27 AM
Congrats Laura! You look fabulous!
Posted by on 09/22 at 05:58 PM
Laura ~ Magnificent! That was SO worth the wait
Posted by on 09/22 at 06:37 PM
Wow you look amazing! Congratulations ladies and thanks for the inspirations.
Posted by on 09/24 at 04:17 PM
Laura—your hair is PHENOMENAL!!! absolutely stunning
Posted by on 09/25 at 01:44 PM
Laura- You look so pretty!! Wowsie!!
Jade
Posted by on 09/25 at 04:45 PM
Laura I LOVE YOUR HAIR!!! You look fabulous!!!
Posted by on 09/26 at 07:30 AM
Wow Laura (runnergal) you look so totally awesome! I love this new page (new to me), and I apologize for not having been here in so long. When school begins, I crawl back into my hole...but I’ll resurface again soon when things settle down.
Posted by on 09/27 at 07:45 AM
Oh Laura, you look incredible!!!! Well done on transitioning and looking so gorgeous.
Jane xx
Posted by on 09/27 at 02:23 PM
Louann, I love your million dollar smile!! Great update, your hair looks so good, the colour is lovely, honestly, it just shines!! What are you using to get that shine??
Posted by on 10/01 at 07:35 AM
Yup, Louann’s got a great update in the Newbie Grads Gallery. You may have to refresh the page to see it, but it’s a winner!
Posted by on 10/01 at 07:47 AM
LouAnn - LOVE the update! Your color is so pretty and it’s fun to see it a big longer! Love the white around your face.
Posted by on 10/01 at 09:02 AM
Louann if ever a grey haired photo made someone look younger then yours is it! You look incredible. I loved this new photo anyway but next to your dyed hair photo WOW no comparison. You are glowing!!
Jane xx
Posted by on 10/01 at 09:05 AM
Wow Louann: you’ve gone gray and definitely look great!
Posted by on 10/01 at 10:12 AM
Ha! Louann! Boy have you showed up that hairdresser that said you wouldn’t like the color after it grew out! Your sparkling shades of silver and white are better than the bottled color by far! You have a great smile!
Posted by on 10/01 at 10:16 AM
Louann .... wondering what kind of shampoo you are using these days..... I’m thinking about trying something new .... will probably go for the Aveda Blue Malva but might try more than one!
Posted by on 10/01 at 10:18 AM
thank you all for your nice words..we learned here on this site how to do this gracefully...having the support of all the great women here is a HUGE advantage!!! anyone out there “wobbling” with the idea needs to just stick around long enough there is always someone around who can talk you off the ledge...!!!
ps the fact that it was a very sunny day helped with the shine but...i am using that ojon shine shampoo!! with the hg blue stuff once a week
Posted by on 10/01 at 10:56 AM
Louann,
Glorious gray! Congratulations!!! What an inspiration!
Beth/Shine-On
Posted by on 10/01 at 12:02 PM
Louann~ WOW !!!! You look fantastic! Love the white around the face, very stunning, indeed! Your hair dresser can eat her heart out, I’m thinkin’. Sure hope you go in to that salon and strut your gorgeous silver mane. This new color is absolutely beautiful on you!
Posted by on 10/01 at 12:06 PM
You look fantastic Louann!
Beth A.
Posted by on 10/01 at 01:01 PM
Wow Louann - FABULOUS - just fabulous!
Posted by on 10/01 at 03:13 PM
you look marvelous Louann!!
Posted by on 10/01 at 05:35 PM
Louann, You redefine “Tinseltown”!! Thank you for diving in “hair first” into a sea of dye & coming out the beauty that is yours, and yours alone! You look divine!!
Posted by on 10/01 at 05:53 PM
Oh my goodness Goldie ... could you be any more witty?!? I love what you said to Louann. You are amazing!
Posted by on 10/01 at 06:49 PM
Aww..thanks Suzanne! I find the individual beauty of you silver grads, simply inspirational!
Posted by on 10/01 at 07:29 PM
and the emmy for the best writer for the “docudrama” FROM THERE TO HAIR: or how I went from silver to blonde and back again ...despite the queen of afternoon.....MS GOLDIE (NOT LOCKS)
you are hysterical....we could turn this into a sitcom if we really wanted to ...our very own reality show…
signed your dear friend in tinseltown…
Posted by on 10/02 at 06:53 AM
Hey, I have an idea...we could go on the road as a comedy duo! Letterman...Leno...any takers for a silver haired comedy duo???? Heeee…
Posted by on 10/02 at 07:06 AM
The Travelin’ Silvies. Is that like the Traveling Wilbies?
Posted by on 10/02 at 08:13 AM
Hee,hee...well, we could work in a few song numbers & a little dance routine...anyone care to be a part of the band??
Posted by on 10/02 at 08:26 AM
Well, i am afraid it sounds stupid,but i can not find the updates of Louann and Diana! Is there anybody who knows!!??
Petra.
Posted by on 10/02 at 10:19 AM
Yep FOUND IT!!! You look like a moviestar,Louann!
I swore the update wasnt there when i looked before...Now i am searching Diana…
Petra.
Posted by on 10/02 at 10:22 AM
Petra, once a pic goes up, it’s up. Did you go back and check out my posting under Longing for Long? I told you how to refresh your page there. That’s all you need to do and all will be revealed.
Posted by on 10/02 at 11:31 AM
Catherine’s picture is new since the last time I looked as well....and WOW is all I can say. Who would’ve thought that natural color with gray infused throughout would make someone look younger? But is has!!!
Posted by on 10/02 at 12:55 PM
Patti,
I think your silver is so lovely! Natural looks great to you, and the wave is wonderful. Cheers to you!
Beth/Shine-On
Posted by on 10/04 at 01:19 PM
Patty, your update is lovely! I can’t get over how much your hair as grown, very nice indeed!
Posted by on 10/04 at 03:45 PM
Patti
Love your new look.
Wow! You are such a busy lady. You must be enjoying not wasting your time coloring.
Dont give up because of the yellowing. This is my 2nd time going gray. I found a shampoo called American CREW - classic gray Its a mens product. I used it every 2nd shampoo.
Posted by on 10/04 at 07:25 PM
Hey Patti, lovely,your longer locks!
Petra
Posted by on 10/04 at 11:50 PM
Hey!! Thanks for all those sweet compliments! I do love my hair and I am so thankful to all of you for giving me the encouragement I needed to do this!! I took Diana’s advice and looked to see if dimethicone is in any of the products I use on my hair and found it in my hiarspray! I am an 80’s girl and love to poof out my hair and coat it down with hairspray! I am hoping this is the problem so it can easily be fixed. It does seem that the side that I spray the most is the side that is yellow. Too bad too ‘cause I liked that particular spray but guess it’s time to either stop using it or find another product. Anyway, I’m so honored to be in the graduates gallery and share this page with such beautiful silver women!! Thanks to all of you!! Love, Patty
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:52 AM
Thanks Kazza for the advice on American Crew… I will look for that. I am currently using two products alternating between them. Both are for silver hair and are purple, one is by matrix and the other is in a purple bottle by Clairol… both were recommended to me by other people. I don’t know of a good conditioner to use and also need recommendation for a good clarifying shampoo to use!! Is there also a good hairspray for this 80’s girl??
Patty
Oh and Lulubell.... it does grow fast and I am very thankful for that! That’s one reason it made it so difficult to keep it colored though, seemed like everytime I turned around it needed coloring again!!
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:58 AM
PattyC~ I want to join in and say, you look fantastic! Love your hair, it’s absolutely gorgeous! Also want to say, I am struggling with the same problem that you are. I’ve read the book and the blogs and I am still trying to find a holding product that doesn’t turn my white hair yellow either. I’m not having great success. My underneath hair is brilliant white while the top layer has a slight yellowish tinge to it. Very frustrating. I have tried several purple shampoos and find the best one that works for me is by Matrix, So Silver. It helps but doesn’t remove it completely. I’m using a clarifying shampoo by Logics. They have a conditioner too. I’m still looking for a good hairspray that doesn’t yellow me out. “IF” you find something, I’d love to know. I’m also looking for a gel or mousse to give a little hold while styling. I hate using hairspray but need to while my hair is shorter or it just goes in every which direction.
Posted by on 10/05 at 07:11 AM
Wow, Louann gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous, you are one hot lady. I love it!
PattyC, I know you’ll find a solution to the yellow, but please don’t cover it up. I can see that it’s beautiful and shines too. I love the style also.
M
Posted by on 10/05 at 07:42 AM
Marisa - You look GORGEOUS!
Posted by on 10/05 at 02:54 PM
Congrats, Marisa! Your natural color is so pretty and I’m looking forward to watching it grow longer! Now your hair shines like your sweet personality. :o)
Posted by on 10/05 at 03:10 PM
Marisa! You have arrived! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the new color and it is growing out so beautifully! I sure can see why the compliments are rolling in!
Posted by on 10/05 at 03:12 PM
marisa...beautiful...of course you are getting a ton of compliments!!! how could you not??? welcome to the bright side of life!!!
ps
i love that you are a church lady...enjoy your new found freedom and inner peace…
Posted by on 10/05 at 04:35 PM
Patty C - I’ve been struggling with a yellow cast to my hair all summer. I’ve tried everything, blue shampoos, violet shampoos, peroxide, everything. I bought a clarifying treatment from Ion (comes in a little packet you mix with water) and that helped. Then I discovered Prell shampoo. Yep… Prell. After 2 shampoos the yellow is fading and the white is shining through. I was ready to cut it back to the wood again. Oh… I also discovered peroxide is evil. It did make my white hair whiter, but it also bleached out my pepper. Now I have 2 inches of pepper, and the rest of my growth is paprika. Not pretty. I have an appointment for low-lights, with is counterproductive to why I went gray in the first place, but I don’t care. I want my pepper back. Good luck to you. Get some prell!!!
Posted by on 10/05 at 04:35 PM
Marisa, you sweet thing, you look so lovely! You so deserve all of the compliments that come your way! Your journey was a long one and I have enjoyed every single minute of it.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:24 PM
Patty and Lisa Green, I suggest that you read the ingredients list of all your products and the leaflets that may come with them. I have noticed a reddish tinge to my hair lately and it’s NOT my imagination. The OJON Restorative Treatment is responsible for the staining. The leaflet that came with the treatment( which I dismissed and put in the bathroom drawer) had a warning about the possibility of temporary staining when used on “white” hair. I have not used it in a while but the stain is still evident, so now I am thinking that the shampoo and conditioner may also be depositing some stain, although there was no warning with them.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:35 PM
Oh, Lisagreen, bad move. Peroxide is dangerous. First of all, it will take any “pepper” only so light, usually to a pale yellow. So it defeats the purpose. If you think it made your white hair whiter, great. But it also made your dark hair yellow-er. Or, in your case, it only lifted the color to paprika. Boo.
Have to laugh about the Prell. It has been notorious for stripping color for years. I never believed that “myth” but too many people have confirmed this to me.
Good luck to YOU with the lowlights.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:37 PM
Lulubell, I still did not see any reddish stain on your hair. But you know I have a ton of white hair, especially around my face. I have never had staining from the Restorative Treatment or from any of the shampoos and conditioners I’ve tried.
Everyone’s hair is different, and I’m not saying the Ojon couldn’t be the problem, just reporting that mine wasn’t affected.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:42 PM
You sweet friends, I’m blushing you make me feel wonderful. I’ll always remember the laughs we’ve shared along the way and look forward to many more.
Cheers to a bright future! Next hurdle… the coveted pony tail.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:43 PM
Diana, there really is some slight staining, even my Husband has noticed it. This is of course my own fault for not paying attention to the leaflet in the first place. Had I read it “before” using the treatment I would have done the strand test. Hopefully it is just temporary like the leaflet stated and will gradually wash out. I noticed that it also left a bit of staining under my fingernails.
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:51 PM
All I can say is hmmmmmm. Didn’t stain my fingernails, either. But I read what you are doing in another post, and the white vinegar should be a great help. Heeee, maybe you should soak your fingernails in it, too. Why not? Maybe you should take Lisagreen’s suggestion and go for the Prell! Sorry this is happening to you, Lulubell!
Posted by on 10/05 at 05:58 PM
Not a problem at all Diana. Just a thought, perhaps it all depends on how much oil is in any given “lot” of the treatment. It did say in the leaflet that the Restorative Treatment contained the highest concentration of oil than any of the other OJON products. I have been using the Ojon on my grandaughter’s thick, dark hair and it leaves her hair so beautiful and shiny, so all is good!
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:08 PM
Marisa- Your beauty lies not only without, but within too. Just lovely!
To those whose “hair challenges” seem to overwhelm at times...a quote from Oliver Goldsmith: “Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
XXOO
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:13 PM
Goldie, thanks for the quote, so very true!
Posted by on 10/05 at 06:25 PM
Your hair is gorgeous Marisa. Congratulations on becoming “an after”!!
Posted by on 10/05 at 08:11 PM
Thanks Goldie you are too kind. Well it’s not possible to be TOO kind, you’re very kind and much appreciated.
thanks Christie, “an after” ooh, how about “happily ever after”? I like the sound of that.
Lulubell, just a thought, maybe it’s the content of your water. The minerals in your area may be causing a reaction. In different areas of Texas there is a big difference in the hardness and softness of the water. My hair turns out differently even though I may use the same shampoo and conditioner.
Posted by on 10/05 at 08:25 PM
Congrats Marisa! You are STUNNING!!! It’s so wonderful to see you in the grads gallery!
~dede
Posted by on 10/06 at 06:09 AM
lisagreen.... thanks for the prell suggestion!!
And yes.... I’ve learned something about ingredients and will be more cautious of what I put on my hair!
Aziza… thanks for the compliment, you look fantastic too and I know what you mean about that hairspray and helping keep it in place.... will let you know if I find a good one!!
Marisa… congratulations!! You look awesome!
Posted by on 10/06 at 08:25 PM
thanks Dede and Patty. I’m happy to see me here to, he he.
I got two more compliments yesterday (I thought I was having a bad hair day). The funny thing was they were both from older ladies both with dyed hair . Their compliments were on the style of my hair, neither mentioned the color .
Posted by on 10/07 at 03:51 AM
Aziza - you are a beauty.
What a difference your hair makes, twenty four little hours…
Posted by on 10/07 at 11:24 AM
Wow, Barbra~ Not quite sure what you mean by your comment (Are you sure you have the right person?)but thanks for the compliment. You are very sweet.
Posted by on 10/07 at 03:21 PM
Marisa~ You have “arrived” beautifully. Simply gorgeous, darling, and your color is just stunning. BTW, how have you been feeling lately? Better, I hope.
Posted by on 10/07 at 03:27 PM
Thank you Aziza. I’ve been well thank you for asking. My angio showed that there was nothing abnormal so that’s that. It means that we’ve finally reached the end of testing and heart attack possibilities have been rulled out. They say that it must be spasms of the esophagus or the aorta, kind of like cramps in your calf or foot. The good news is that they are not dangerous. The bad news is, they are painful like a heart attack. At least I’m comforted by the fact that I’m not going to die from it and I can stop worrying.
Please forgive me, was something up with you recently? I hope all is well. I was out of pocket for a while but cought a post here or there but not enough to know what was really going on.
Posted by on 10/07 at 06:46 PM
Marisa, you look sooo georgeous,beautiful color!
Petra.
O, and luckely you feel better.
Posted by on 10/08 at 12:54 PM
I can honestly say that every single woman here looks more beautiful, more youthful and just incredibly gorgeous with her natural color. Can’t wait to be a grad myself!
Posted by on 10/08 at 01:12 PM
We’re waiting, Silverj!
Posted by on 10/08 at 01:15 PM
Sorry, my comment was for Marisa.
Posted by on 10/08 at 01:20 PM
Marisa~ You are welcome. I’m so glad to hear it isn’t heart attack related. Although I do feel sorry for you that you have to go through these episodes but I’m sure it is a relief to know what is causing it. Actually, it’s my Dad. He was scheduled for several surgeries; he has PVD in both legs, only to discover just days before his first surgery that he had severe blockage on both carotid arteries which means they needed to take care of the neck first before they could do his legs. The original plan was to do all of the surgeries very close together. However, he has been having a lot of complications from his 1st neck surgery and is not healing well. It has pushed his other surgeries out indefinitely. It’s been difficult for him in many ways. Mostly because he has always been a very active man and he can hardly even walk any more. It has been a signifgicant lifestyle change for him. Thanks for asking.
I know what you mean about being out of pocket. I pretty much am right now too, with that and other things going on in my life. It makes it difficult to respond back to everyone. I try to check in and at least read up on what’s going on, just don’t always have time to respond back.
I have noticed a lot of new lovelies though. Welcome all!
Posted by on 10/08 at 01:33 PM
Maria “Butterfly Dream” WELCOME to the Grad Gallery! You look wonderful!! Your smile says it all, you are very happy with your all natural, silver hair! How did you ever manage to fit in the time to colour your hair in the first place??
Posted by on 10/11 at 01:14 PM
Congrats, Maria! You have a pretty shade of gray! I’m worn out just reading your bio. It’s so much fun to learn more about your interesting life. :o) Are you going to let your hair grow back to pre-transition length or will you be keeping it shorter?
Posted by on 10/11 at 02:25 PM
Hurray Maria! Your new hair color is such a flattering shade! It looks like you have added highlights .... thanks to mother nature, of course! It is just beautiful on you! Congrats on making it through the transition so easy and for all that you do!
Posted by on 10/11 at 02:38 PM
whoo hooo! Made it! I feel so proud.
lulubell, greeneyes, and grayincali, thank you so much for being such inspirations. Seeing what you guys did was what gave me the courage to take the plunge, and stick with it through all the funky calico cat days. And you’re so great about giving everyone support.
I’m definitely going for growth, but as you all know, that takes a bit of time. Some days I want to chop it all off again, but then naahh. And lulubell, you’re so right about the time thing. It’s great to have those extra hours back for much more fun stuff. Sleeping, for instance.
Posted by on 10/12 at 03:04 AM
Maria - your transition is wonderful! There is such a relaxed glow in your smile and on your face...just great. You are one busy gal!!
Marisa - your style right now is just so feminine and pretty on you, but I understand the need to have length.
Why is it that our hubby’s always want us to have long hair? That said I have decided to let mine grow out and I keep threatening to take new pics, but never seem to take the time. It’s longer than it’s been in a few years, and I think I kind of like the thought that we are breaking the tradition of short gray hair!
Yesterday I dyed my daughter’s hair (I can’t seem to get her to give up ‘the bottle’) She recently moved closer to home so I get to see her all the time. I had gotten rid of all the dye brushes I used to use, and I had forgotten that dreaded smell! It kind of bothered me to dye her hair, yet I did it anyway. Maybe one day soon I’ll convince her to just be who she is! She isn’t gray - it isn’t that, she just doesn’t like her shade of color - but that’s all in learning to love who you are
Posted by on 10/12 at 07:09 AM
Thanks, SBKaren! I personally think many guys feel more masculine when their women have longer hair. That’s not such a bad thing. It works the other way, too. I’ve enjoyed dating some long-haired men, but there is something about that rough, masculine crop that gets me tingling, too.
Wow, I would have a lot of trouble dyeing my daughter’s hair. I love her natural color so much. You’re a real trooper of a mom to help your daughter out. One of these days, she’ll probably change her mind about it.
Posted by on 10/12 at 05:20 PM
Maria, you look georgeous! You must be very relieved!
Petra.
Posted by on 10/12 at 07:58 PM
Karen ... what an awesome mom you are! How’s SB? I went to church at St. Ann’s this weekend b/c of the marathon ... brunch at the BB Bistro. Thought I might see you around town! Hope all is well!
Posted by on 10/12 at 08:00 PM
Butterfly Dream~ Wow, 9 short months and you have your dream come true. What a lovely shade of silver you have. Just gorgeous! You are one busy lady. Sounds like you have a very full and rewarding life. Good luck to you in whatever step you chose to make next. Keep smiling, pretty lady. You have much to rejoice about!
Posted by on 10/13 at 07:27 AM
Maria
Love the colour. So glad that you love it to. You are busy that is for sure. You are always on the go.
Thanks for sharing your journey with us
Katie
Posted by on 10/13 at 07:47 AM
Thanks Aziza & Katie. It’s been a good journey here. I’m sure you’re finding the same.
Posted by on 10/13 at 03:11 PM
Petra—just saw your comment. Thank you! I love your new fun mirror pic, too. Way to get in both the front and the back! It looks like you’re going longer, too. (?)
Posted by on 10/13 at 03:15 PM
maria welcome!!!you look great and most of all you look SOOO HAPPY !!! enjoy...my s i l’s hubby joined the peace corps a few years ago ( he got malaria almost immed and had to come home but they have remained frineds and have since visited the family he stayed with in africa where madonna adopts her kids) he said it was an amazing experience...go for it!
anyway back to that great gray you are sporting ...congrats and how is that motorcycle????
Posted by on 10/13 at 03:34 PM
Maria- I had to go take a nap after reading all that you have done and are doing!!! What a wonderful life...well-lived...well-enjoyed...and all the while...looking beautifully silver! Bravo to you...thank you for your contribution to this good earth!
Posted by on 10/13 at 03:40 PM
Butterfly Dream - Congratulations on graduating! I love YOUR color! You look great and most of all happy.
Posted by on 10/13 at 05:17 PM
Maria! Yay for you! You’re such a shining example for all of us, in more ways than one. You look gorgeous and I’m so impressed with how much you give of yourself and what fun you have along the way. Thank you for being an inspiration.
Petra I don’t think I ever thanked you - Thank You, how are you? Has your hair grown or are you keeping it short. Oh, wait now I remember seeing it in members or somewhere on the site, it’s longer right?
SBKaren, how are you too? Thank you, what nice comments. I’m letting it grow not just for my DH but for me. I miss my pony tail, one of my favorite ways to wear it. I like it - sometimes - when it’s short too but short and humid here in the Houston area means I occasionally look like I have a brillo pad on my head. Longer gives it weight and the option to just tie it up to control it. Oh, now they’re working, My emoticons weren’t working earlier.
Posted by on 10/13 at 06:55 PM
Hello Maria, no ,after the mirrorpicture i got a pixie again.....let a bit grow again,so now its a bit like the mirrorpicture again,so nothing new....maybe i am going a bit longer,i dont know yet.
And Hello Marisa,no thanks needed...but when you do,its appreciated!!
Petra.
Posted by on 10/15 at 12:20 AM
Katie V~ Lovely!! Congratulations (...and WOW, you are one busy mama!)
Posted by on 10/16 at 04:32 PM
Katie! Wow, your hair is growing so fast! It looks GREAT! Congrats on making it in with the graduates!
Posted by on 10/16 at 04:51 PM
Oh Katie! What a softening effect your beautiful shade of white has! You look so great! Kudos on the weight loss as well! I can’t believe you work at a maximum security prison with that friendly face! Wow!
Posted by on 10/16 at 04:52 PM
Katie,
Your hair is so pretty! So soft and shiny, and you look great! You must have set a record for transitioning...amazing!
Beth/Shine-On
Posted by on 10/16 at 05:07 PM
Sandy,
I just noticed the newest shot, of your longer lovely locks. Very flattering and lovely look! Congrats!
Beth/Shine-On
Posted by on 10/16 at 05:11 PM
Katie - Congratulations, you graduated! cheese: You look GREAT! I just love the color and I can’t believe how much it’s grown. How long do you want to go?
Posted by on 10/16 at 05:13 PM
Sandy isn’t the only grad update. . . refresh your pages everybody, and check out Dede!
Posted by on 10/16 at 05:18 PM
DeDe~ GIRL~ your hair grows so fast! Very pretty!
Posted by on 10/16 at 05:33 PM
Katie - Welcome to the grads! You look great in your silver hair!
Sandy and Dede - Great updates! I like the longer hair on both of you!
Posted by on 10/16 at 07:09 PM
Congrats Katie!!! You look so beautiful! What an incredible transformation...you look great!
Sandy, love the length! Your hair looks gorgeous!
Thanks for the comments!! I’m looking pretty fluffy huh?? My goal is to quit blowing out the curls and learn how to style my hair WITH them!!
~dede
Posted by on 10/17 at 04:50 AM
congrats katie ...see mother nature really does know what the heck she’s doing!!! lovely color .... congrats on the weight loss too!
sandy and dede it feels great doesn’t it??? love the style and length!
Posted by on 10/17 at 06:10 AM
Katie - great transition - congrats on the weight loss, and wow, your involvement with charity is inspiring! The weight loss really shows in your face -keep up the fantastic work - I know how hard it is!
Posted by on 10/17 at 06:20 AM
Katie V- your hair is a lovely color, and with a great natural wave too! It’s certainly worth waiting for! ( this is good from an impatient Newbie like me! )
Well done!
Posted by on 10/17 at 07:56 AM
Sandy- your hair looks very elegant, perfect in fact.
Dede- WOW! the length and the style look great!
Posted by on 10/17 at 08:05 AM
Welcome to the grad-page,Katie!!
Petra.
Posted by on 10/17 at 08:07 AM
Kataie! WOW, it was worth the wait for your picture. You look just lovely. Your hair is such a beautiful shade and I can really tell you’ve lost some weight. Way to go, girl. I know from experience how much harder it is to lose wt with having a thyroid condition. Keep up the good work. The lighter hair color is so much more attractive on you. It so works with your coloring. LOVE IT!!
Posted by on 10/17 at 10:55 AM
Katie~ sorry for the misspelled name up there. Tried to fix it but was too slow.
Sandy~ You look just beautiful with your longer hair and the color is gorgeous! How much longer do you think you will go?
Dede~ Gorgeous! What more can I say? I love the length on you. How fun for you. And you are a motorcycle mama too I see! How cool! Let that hair grow and flow out from under your helmet.
Posted by on 10/17 at 11:00 AM
Thanks everyone.
I was out all day golfing and curling and am heading out again. I quickly checked my emails and saw the post for GGLG. I was so excited. I really hate taking photos of myself and am not photogenic.
Thanks for all the positive comments they really are wonderful.
Since my youngest was diagnosed with retinitis pigmentosa it made me realize that you have to live outside the box and volunteering is key. To be honest it has been far more rewarding than I ever expected.
Thanks again
Katie
Posted by on 10/17 at 02:14 PM
Dede
WOW on the length of your hair. I love the updated photo. You always look so happy. I bet you get lots of comments on your hair,especially when you take your helmet off lol.
Jules I am not sure how long I am going to let it grow. I am on a journey and not sure when it will end.
Aziza thanks for the comments. It is hard to lose weight. I have almost completely given up dairy which I loved but some how does not seem to love me. I hope to lose the rest but I am just doing it slowly so we shall see.
grayncali ha that is funny . My girls love this story. Hubby and I met in jail LOL ( we were both working there) I now work in a mens jail and he works in a female jail. I work in inmate programs and love it. Lets just say it is never boring.
Thanks again for all the lovely comments on the weightloss to LOL. I enjoy my gray hair and it feel it was totally the right decision for me. But that is why I come here. You all get that!
Katie
Posted by on 10/18 at 06:22 AM
Katie, WELCOME to the Grad Gallery!! You now have your lovely, longer, soft silver hair!! Hair REALLY does grow, go figure!!
Posted by on 10/19 at 03:03 PM
Dede and Sandy, I love your updates!!
Posted by on 10/19 at 03:05 PM
Katie, how lovely, congratulations on not just your hair but all of the wonderful things you are doing.
Dede, Wowza!
Sandy your hair is so pretty and shiny.
thanks for the updates.
Posted by on 10/21 at 04:17 AM
Dede - your hair is sooooo long! Wow, looks fab! I bet it’s flowing in the wind like you wanted when you’re on your bike! Very nice!
Sandy - love your update too! Now, I see a definite before and after! You are back to the before pic length and it looks great!
Posted by on 10/22 at 04:55 PM
I’ve haven’t looked at this page for a few weeks - I love the updated photos of Sandy and Dede. Your hair is so long now Dede it looks lovely!
Posted by on 10/23 at 11:27 AM
Janice “Heart to Heart” WELCOME to the Grad Gallery!! I was beginning to wonder where you had gone, and then WOW you show up here with a fantastic pixie! Your look lovely with you very “hip” silver cut!! Oh my, here I go again..........
Posted by on 10/29 at 05:37 AM
welcome to the bright side! janice it looks great..i am sure the compliments are flying!!
Posted by on 10/29 at 05:40 AM
WOW Janice! You look absolutely beautiful! This hair color is so much more attractive on you! You just radiate beauty! I absolutely love it. How fun for you! Enjoy!!
Posted by on 10/29 at 06:03 AM
Janice (heart to heart)- You look incredible! The cut, the color...I think your DH needs to “whisk” you away to celebrate!!
Posted by on 10/29 at 06:03 AM
Heart to Heart .... you look beautiful in silver!
Posted by on 10/29 at 06:57 AM
Congratulations Heart to heart, you have graduated in record time, and you look super!
Posted by on 10/29 at 10:48 AM
Heart to Heart ~ What a transformation, and fast, too! Really pretty!
Posted by on 10/29 at 11:19 AM
Heart to Heart. I love love love your hair. It looks so much better. I wish my hair would do that. Darn you look fine.
Are you getting tons of compliments?
Congrats
Katie
Posted by on 10/29 at 03:16 PM
Wow Janice - what a dramatic make-over...for the better! You actually look so much younger! I know, hard to believe huh? But oh so true for you!
Posted by on 10/29 at 03:32 PM
WOOOOOW!!! A beautiful transition Heart to heart! Really beautiful, and you look so confident...O, and so much YOUNGER!!
Petra
Posted by on 10/30 at 11:21 AM
Janice you look fabulous. I love the cut and your gorgeous color. Way to go!
Posted by on 11/01 at 06:34 AM
Love it Janice! congratulations.
Posted by on 11/06 at 06:05 AM
Marisa, you look so pretty!! I love the straight look on you, very flattering indeed! Your colour is so lovely also. Now I want to straighten my hair just for a “change!” Every time I go to a salon the stylist always wants to straighten it and I always say go ahead because it is so much fun while it lasts!
Posted by on 11/21 at 07:09 PM
Straight or wavy, hats on or hats off...Marisa you make it all look beautiful!
Posted by on 11/21 at 07:54 PM
Marisa ... I accidentally posted on the newbies ‘09 page, but you look positively radiant! Wow!
Posted by on 11/21 at 08:31 PM
Great haircut, Marisa! I think our hair is pretty similar and I go back and forth between the waves and the straight myself. You look great both ways.
Nadine
Posted by on 11/21 at 09:30 PM
Hi Marisa,
Your hair looks lovely, it’s a very pretty length, and gives you the option of straight or wavy hair framing your face. I want to keep some length too, but I calculate that it’s going to take about 2 years in all to transition. You inspire me to be patient!
Posted by on 11/22 at 04:20 AM
Hi Ladies, I was at a lacrosse tournament most of the weekend. Yesterday was rain, cold, wind and it was a sloshy mud-fest. I forgot the outer shell of my ski jacket at home, of course that’s the part that protects you from the RAIN! My leapard print rain boots made me feel better though . Yesterday and today were polar opposites. Today was dry and sunny, perfect.
thank you
Lulubell, I want to see you when your hair is straight, please share next time you wear it like that. I had to wash mine and do the waves because it’s at a length where it was falling right into my eyes and driving me crazy. I probably won’t wear it straight too often until it reaches past my chin, we’ll see.
thanks Goldie, you make me blush, you’re too sweet. I loved your hat pictures. I felt like I was watching a silent movie, it was endearing, and enchanting.
Thanks grayincali, your family pic in Happy days was adorable. Sure didn’t look like a bad hair day to me, you’re naturally gorgeous and I’m loving you length. Are you in grow mode?
Hi Nadine, thanks, I saw a new pic from you but I can’t remember where it was. Was it in members? I flip through this site so quick these days and no matter what I do the changes still are too fast for me and a bit overwhelming at times, eek. I loved your waves and agree that our hair seems similar. How did you style your waves? or was it natural? My hair no matter what I do, it does not look good when it dries natural. It looks like a brillo pad natural, sadly I’m not overexagerating.
Ahh, Chrissy, you are very sweet. The patience will all pay off and when you look back you will be gratefull you waited, so I guess you attain two virtues at one time. Loved your hat pic, very cute.
FYI - I updated my members pic and bio, it’s the wavy style.
Posted by on 11/22 at 03:58 PM
Hi Marisa, My new pic is in the members album. It looks very white in that picture but it is actually not that white all over (although the front is pretty white). You’ll be able to see the style better when Diana posts the pics from our Newport meet, although the color still looks a lot lighter than it actually is. I also sent in a hat picture where you can see the back really well.
My hair does not look good when I let it dry naturally either, but that is because I don’t think I have the best cut for my wavy hair. It actually FEELS very soft now but it LOOKS like brillo if I don’t straighten it. Soft brillo - does that make any sense! I am hoping that when I get my Ouidad cut in February that I will be able to let it dry naturally then. The day of my profile pic I dried it with a Conair hot brush, which I had used years ago and forgot about until you mentioned it and then I found it again and love it. It is so much easier than trying to manage a separate blow dryer and brush. I usually go over it with a flat iron too, just a little if I want it fuller and more if I want it flatter. If you look at my pics in the transitioning section, only the first pic (the very highlighted one) is dried naturally and you can see in that one how wavy it is. The longer my hair gets, the easier it is to get away with the natural wave. Right now I feel like I am in-between. It is not really short but it is not really long either and this is the hardest stage to get to look good.
And I love your updated members pic! The soft waves look great. I think I like them better than the totally straight look. Did you do that with the hot brush?
Nadine
Posted by on 11/22 at 05:35 PM
Hee, yup soft brillo makes sense to me because I can relate. I’m looking so forward to seeing the Newport meet pics and I’ll keep an eye out for your hat pic.
What I use is actually the Conair Instant Heat Hot Brush 1 1/4 size. It isn’t an air brush, it’s like a curling iron with hard bristles and has 25 heat settings plus turbo boost so it’s good for many hair types. The air brushes just don’t work with my hair and they cause too much friction which makes me feel like it’s damaging my hair. I know that other people love them but they just don’t work for me. The Instant Heat hot brush grabs my hair and smooths it with out a lot of friction. I love mine and have a spare, just in case.
I’m hoping that with the weight of long hair I can let it dry naturally but with the thickness of it in the past it took a long time to dry and I don’t like a wet head. Maybe I can somehow dry it at the scalp and then let the rest dry naturally. Time will tell.
Thanks about the member pic. It’s funny, when my hair was dyed I prefered it straight and now that it’s silver I prefer it wavy/soft curlyish. Yes - the member pic was done with my Conair IHH brush.
Posted by on 11/22 at 07:55 PM
I’m also a curly girl. Sometimes I like it straighter. Early last week I bought an In Styler. I was able to get it at Bed, Bath & Beyond with a 20% off coupon. It is pricey , but it really works and is fast!!
Posted by on 11/23 at 05:00 AM
WOW!!!! Great updates!!!! YOu ALL look AWESOME!!!!
Posted by on 11/29 at 09:34 AM
Erin you look great.
Katie
Posted by on 01/04 at 11:53 AM
CONGRATULATIONS ERIN!! I just love the fact that you did this to set such a wonderful example for your young daughter. Children most certainly learn what they live! Your hair looks lovely, you are a beautiful role model!
Posted by on 01/04 at 05:26 PM
Looks great Erin!!! Congrats!!!
Posted by on 01/04 at 07:29 PM
Hey Erin,
Congratulations, you look great,your gray ‘highlights’ fit your style exactly!
Posted by on 01/05 at 04:32 AM
Erin~ You look fantastic! I especially love that the reason you chose to go natural was to set a good example for your daughter. That is so cool! Congratulations!
Posted by on 01/05 at 05:25 AM
Erinfein,you look absolutely stunning;and sooo relieved,isnt it? I am so glad for you…
Petra.
Posted by on 01/05 at 09:45 AM
sorry i missed your grad page erin...your kids have a lovely mother and an example of self worth! welcome to the bright side..
Posted by on 01/06 at 04:07 PM
I love looking at all the “after” photos. Everyone looks younger, happier and the eyes are stunning! I will be visiting the photos every day to keep my resolve strong and my hands off the dye boxes.
Posted by on 01/07 at 02:27 PM
Love this part of the site....just discovered it this evening. what an accomplishment and my utmost respect and admiration to all the graduates! Did anyone do anything special or give yourself a long desired treat when the last of the color was gone? I know once that last piece of color falls on the floor I’ll be jumping up and down with joy! I can’t wait! Thanks to everyone for sending in your after pictures…
Posted by on 01/08 at 05:42 PM
I didn’t do anything special, but I just felt so free...you’ll experience that too....the freedom from dye, the freedom from worrying about roots, the freedom of truly not caring what others think anymore...and certainly the freedom from transitioning. It’s still freeing and I still love my hair...I still get compliments (never did before), and now it’s getting long!
Posted by on 01/08 at 05:46 PM
Hmmm...that gets me thinking..what if when the last piece of color falls to the floor you have a “Gone Gray & Loving It!” party???
Everyone could bring gifts to the newly transitioned silver. Shampoo & conditioner for silvers or new make-up colors…
This could be a whole new line of party goods! I’ve got some sketching to do!
Posted by on 01/08 at 06:00 PM
You are right SPKaren..and freedom even with our hair,comes with a price which is why we cherish it so. AND a Going Gray and Loving it party would be a hoot and why not? People celebrate anything anymore so why not this..it is well earned! You gave me a good chuckle..thanks Goldie!
Posted by on 01/08 at 06:08 PM
I love it! A silver party...gives everyone a great send off into a silver haired life.
Jade
Posted by on 01/09 at 07:46 PM
Hey, Jade—since you’re here—what’s with your mailbox? I keep getting bouncebacks saying delivery has been temporarily suspended to it.
Posted by on 01/09 at 08:08 PM
Hey, Diana-
I just re-entered my email address. Not sure why it would bounce back. Hope it works...if not, let me know and I will put in a different email address.
Thank you,
Jade
Posted by on 01/13 at 05:09 PM
HI ladies i enjoy looking at all the great pics of the hair changes, i hope eventually to get some pics on here. as you all know several months ago i put a box of auburn color on my hair and i hated it,ahhh: i am now starting to go back gray thank god, i will not do that ever again! thanks so much for hanging in with me and giving me the support i badly need to make my gray transformation. hope everyones doing well. joannt in north fl.
Posted by on 01/17 at 02:51 PM
Love looking through these pictures!
Barbara
Posted by on 02/01 at 05:38 PM
Hi Carolyn,i havent seen you before i beleave...but you look beautiful!!
And Nadine,georgeous! Both very much younger,instead of older!!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/14 at 09:54 AM
Thanks, Petra! What’s new with your hair? Do you still have that cute little pixie or are you growing it out?
Nadine
Posted by on 02/14 at 05:46 PM
Hi Nadine,
My hair is (again)a bit like the updated picture...because i was a few times cut not so nice imo! When there is something new i will place pictures!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/15 at 01:17 AM
Congratulations Nadine and Carolyn!
We’ll miss you in Newbies,
Now is the time to say goodbye,
To take your wings and away you fly!
(as we used to ay in the Brownie Girl Guides)
But as you haven’t ‘flown’ very far, we hope to hear lots more from you!
Posted by on 02/15 at 04:16 AM
no way… they are not really going to leave us ...this is where you do the alumni thing ..you know come back and reminisce kinda like the been there done that page....
congrats to carolyn and nadine i know we have said it before but mother nature is proved RIGHT time after time!!!
and the funny thing about that is you help her along by wearing it well!!!
welcome to the next phase!!!
Posted by on 02/15 at 07:13 AM
Next phase—I like that. You can do more than reminisce here, you can update occasionally. Which reminds me, Louann, didn’t you say your hair was getting longer? Hmmmmmm?
Posted by on 02/15 at 07:46 AM
Chrissy...I’m not going anywhere - lol - as can be evidenced by my spending way too much time on GGLG already this morning - it is 11am and I have not even had breakfast yet or fed the cats (surprised that they are not crying and scratching out the door!).
Louann...thank you! And you wear it well, too (and I second Diana’s request for an update!).
And Diana....thank you so much for the great graduate write-up! You did a wonderful job of summarizing all of my info.
Nadine
Posted by on 02/16 at 08:10 AM
I finally took the time to check out this page, and oh my!! Everyone looks absolutely gorgeous in their after photos!!
This is THE biggest inspiration for me, especially on one of those days when I am feeling weak in the knees over the whole decision to go gray!
Thank you all for hanging in there and being such inspiration for those of us newly embarking on the journey to who we truly are under the dyed hair
Pidi
Posted by on 02/17 at 03:05 PM
Congrats to the latest graduates, Carolyn, Nadine and Jamie, you are all truly shining. Oh and Jamie I think you are my new hero, homeschooling all those kids, (and wanting more!!) and still finding time to for all those hobbies! Good for you!
Posted by on 02/17 at 06:25 PM
Jamie, Carolyn & Nadine...You all look beautiful! An inspiration to those before you & to those still waiting for their graduation to come!
Posted by on 02/17 at 07:34 PM
Jamie,
Congratulations on your graduation, you look wonderful, really glowing!
Posted by on 02/18 at 04:18 AM
Hey Jamie, wow beautiful transitioning,you must be releaved!!
Petra.
Posted by on 02/18 at 04:21 AM
Congrats to all the graduates I’ve missed!!!
Jamie - Seems you breezed right through your transition. I look forward to seeing your hair grow. You and I must be a lot alike - I enjoy all your hobbies and I homeschooled my 2 kids the entire way through school. Enjoy the growing! :o)
Carolyn - you have such a beautiful color! Congrats! And I’d love to see those watercolors! :o) Your life sounds wonderful.
Nadine - Wow! Has your hair grown! Such a pretty color and style! I’m also revisiting old hobbies and adding some new ones. It’s a fun age in life, and fun to do it in silver. :o)
Erin - I think I may have missed your graduation! ;o) Your color is much softer and prettier than with the dye. I think it’s great how you made your decision with your daughter in mind. I had my daughter in mind, too.
Posted by on 02/18 at 07:18 AM
Hey!! What great new graduates we have!!
You all look absolutely magnificent! Way to stick with it!
Carolyn...we need to have a graduation get-together! As soon as Ravenjourney is ready to graduate...we need to plan another Southwest Silver Sister meet!
Congratulations again!
~dede
Posted by on 02/18 at 08:35 AM
hey ladies-
the new graduates look fab.
nadine- love your new sexy hairstyle. wowsie!
jade
Posted by on 02/18 at 03:18 PM
Wow - all the new graduates look fabulous! It just goes to show you that Mother Nature does know best. It keeps getting better too. I’m letting my hair grow out and I promise a new picture soon.
Just the other day I was standing in a line at Kohl’s with my husband. This lady behind me commented to me, “I just love your hair, you have so many varying shades!”
Honestly - NO ONE EVER commented on my hair when I dyed it. Never - not once! But I receive comments all the time now. Too bad I didn’t know that about 25 years ago!!!
Keep it up gals! I’m looking forward to our next SoCal meet and greet in March! Wooohooo
Posted by on 02/18 at 04:19 PM
I know what you mean. I never got any compliments coloring, but I sure get lots of them now!!!
Posted by on 02/18 at 05:28 PM
Looking at all the before and after pictures helps me in this transition stage.
Thanks to all.
Posted by on 02/21 at 09:46 AM
Jamie (Silver Mama) HELLO!!! I somehow managed to miss your “graduation!” CONGRATULATIONS on making it to the Grad Gallery!!
Posted by on 02/27 at 05:45 PM
Lulubell- you look fab! Love the specs, definitely a glamorous touch!
Posted by on 03/06 at 03:15 AM
Hi Lulubell, OMG you look really mavalous,glamorous beautiful! And your hair is soooo loooong!
Petra.
Posted by on 03/06 at 04:35 AM
Thank-you Chrissy! It is just so nice to “have” to wear sunglasses, finally!! I see that Louann and Suzanne (grayincali) have also sent in updates to the Newbies Graduate Gallery. They both seem to have much more silver than I do! Very lovely Louann and Suzanne!!
Posted by on 03/06 at 04:35 AM
Hello Petra, thankyou so much! How are you doing? Are you still growing your hair??
Posted by on 03/06 at 04:44 AM
lulubell,jen black and suzanne fun and lovely updates ...this should be LIVING PROOF to everyone out there in transition land that we never really stop “evolving”...our hair/attitude/look keep on changing!!no regrets ladies ...no regrets!!!
ps lulubell love the glasses
Posted by on 03/06 at 06:24 AM
Loving all the updates ladies! You all look BEAUTFUL!
Posted by on 03/06 at 06:37 AM
Erm… I only seem to have Lulubell’s update, even tho’ I have refreshed the page.....maybe coming soon?
Posted by on 03/06 at 07:48 AM
Ah, there you all are! I think they came the pretty route via the South pole!
Suzanne- you have grown your hair to a very pretty length, well worth waiting for!
Louanne- very glam, love the face framing silver, and the longer length!
Jen- saw your pic on fb, lovely neat pixie, the other style I love!, very nice!
I hope I havn’t missed anyone, you all look great!
Posted by on 03/06 at 08:01 AM
Lulubell, I love it, you look glam with the sunglasses but you look younger also.
Suzanne wow look how it’s grown, gorgeous dahling!
Louanne you too, gorgeous. Are you letting it grow? After all you’ve always said that short was your thing. You’ve peeked my interest.
Nadine, I posted elswhere about a week ago so I just want to say here that I absolutely love your hair and style.
Congrats to all the newer grads too, great job and you look great too.
Posted by on 03/06 at 08:39 AM
Hey Lulubell,well i am trying to grow, but always on a certain length i got so bored that i cut it again so i have now a bit the same as the update…
Suzanne,wooow your hair is grown very long…
Petra.
Posted by on 03/06 at 02:37 PM
Younger you say? Thanks Marisa, you certainly have a way of making a girl feel good!! How nice to read your recent posts, I’ve missed you.
Posted by on 03/06 at 03:38 PM
Thanks Leej!!
Posted by on 03/06 at 03:44 PM
Hi Petra! Your last update was so adorable, it really is a great length for you! I have somehow managed to stay focused on growing out my pixie. My new update doesn’t really show the length all that well, so I updated my Avatar in the Members Album with a back view of my hair as it looks right now. It has almost been one full year with no trimming at all!
Posted by on 03/06 at 03:54 PM
Wow, so its really very loong, i think with your curls you dont have t cut very oft!
Petra.
Posted by on 03/07 at 01:30 AM
Lulubell, i looked on your pfoto, for the back of your hair and its beautiful, and sooo healthy!
Petra.
Posted by on 03/07 at 01:35 AM
Thank-you Petra!
Posted by on 03/08 at 02:40 PM
Lulu, Dede, and Louann: Great updated pics! Hot hot hot!
Posted by on 03/20 at 09:41 PM
Thanks Lisa!!
Posted by on 03/21 at 07:12 AM
Sunnyliljude- Lovely! You have super, natural lowlights and highlights now!
Posted by on 03/28 at 08:53 AM
Hey Sunnyliljude, WHAT a beautiful transition....Very classy
Petra.
Posted by on 03/28 at 09:29 AM
O and Nadine...I think your curls are totally hot!!
Petra.
Posted by on 03/28 at 09:30 AM
Thanks, Petra! And congrats, Jude, you look fabulous (and actually much younger with your natural color)!
Nadine
Posted by on 03/28 at 01:12 PM
Also want to say thanks to everyone else who congratulated and complimented me! I have been MIA from GGLG (sorry, Diana) since setting up a Facebook account a couple of weeks ago when I became the Great Gray of the Day. It is just too addictive (addicting?) and I haven’t had a chance to keep up here as well!
Nadine
Posted by on 03/28 at 01:17 PM
Love your curls Nadine! You look so much younger with your natural hair! Love all the updates!
Posted by on 03/28 at 04:52 PM
Thanks so much!
Nadine
Posted by on 03/28 at 05:06 PM
Congratulations, Jude! You’re a beautiful silver. :o)
Lulubell - LOVE, love, the longer curls! So pretty!
Love all the new updates which I think I’ve gotten to compliment on Facebook. You all do gray proud! :o)
Posted by on 03/29 at 09:19 AM
jude you are here!! congrats!!! you look look lovely!!!
Posted by on 03/30 at 10:32 AM
Everyone looks beautiful! I love looking at everyone’s before and afters!
BethA
Posted by on 03/30 at 01:10 PM
So many new ‘graduates’ since my last visit. You all really look marvelous. Really, honestly - you all look just grayt!
Posted by on 03/30 at 03:43 PM
Greeneyes, I just now (I know....it’s 4;05 A.M. LOL!!) spotted your update here in the Grad Gallery and I just LOVE your cut!! It looks amazing!! YOU look amazing!!
Posted by on 04/05 at 12:07 AM
Well hello, Lulubell! Thank you! Don’t know if you saw my note above, but I love your longer silver curls! So pretty! And just what are you doing up at 4:05 AM!? You must be ready for a nap by now. :o)
Posted by on 04/05 at 06:47 AM
Hi Greeneyes! I have quite a headcold that keeps me up coughing all night long. The daytime isn’t nearly as rough, it seems the minute my head touches the pillow, the coughing starts. Last night I was up sipping hot tea and browsing the site!
Posted by on 04/05 at 07:24 AM
Bless your heart, Lulubell! Hope you get better quickly! Have you tried rubbing Vicks Vapo Rub on the bottom of your feet? My grandma used to rub it all over my chest and put one of my grandpa’s handkerchiefs around my neck, but I have a friend who swears by rubbing it on the bottom of her feet at bedtime. :o)
Posted by on 04/05 at 08:43 AM
Hey Dara, what a funky hip hairstyle you have!!!
Petra.
Posted by on 04/10 at 07:42 AM
Thanks Petra! :o)
Posted by on 04/11 at 02:32 PM
Nadine!! I love the curls, and I love how vibrant you look. It almost makes me want to continue letting my hair grow longer!! What an inspiration you are!!
Carolyn
Posted by on 04/12 at 07:35 AM
Beth A, Hello! CONGRATULATIONS on making it to the Grad Gallery!! I love the “new you!”
Posted by on 04/19 at 05:53 AM
Christie S. Hello to you also! Love the update! Your hair has grown so much, wow!
Posted by on 04/19 at 05:56 AM
Hi Beth A,
Congratulations! You’re looking good! Love the new style too!
Posted by on 04/19 at 07:52 AM
welcome back beth!!!! fantastic!!!
Posted by on 04/19 at 09:55 AM
Thanks so much! It feels wonderful to know that I will never have to color my hair again. I’m so happy to be here with all of you!
Beth A.
Posted by on 04/19 at 10:31 AM
Beth - so glad to see you are a graduate once again. Congrats - you look great! :o)
Christie - wow! Love the longer hair!
And Jamie - I think your photo is an update? Or at least it seems like one to me. Very pretty!
Posted by on 04/19 at 04:11 PM
Thanks greeneyes!
Posted by on 04/19 at 05:14 PM
Hi Lulubell and Greeneyes! Thanks!
And welcome back, Beth
Posted by on 04/19 at 07:01 PM
Thank you Christie!
Posted by on 04/20 at 04:39 PM
Ravenjourney, WELCOME TO THE GRAD GALLERY!!!! YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL!
Posted by on 05/01 at 04:30 AM
Congratulations Ravenjourney!! You are beautiful silver!!!!!
Beth A.
Posted by on 05/01 at 05:31 AM
What a wonderful testament this page is to the loveliness of naturally-hued hair. So many different shades of “gray” and such poise and pride in the faces of the grads. Ravensjourney, I can see why OZ “saved” this shot for the gallery. You look wonderful! Congrats to ALL here!
Beth/Shine-on
Posted by on 05/01 at 06:16 AM
Congratulations Ravenjourney, it’s lovely to see you on this page! What a beautiful photo, I agree with Beth, perfect for your graduation picture!
We’ll miss you in Newbies 09, but I know you’ll drop in to see us from time to time. Good luck in all your new ventures!
Posted by on 05/01 at 06:28 AM
Congratulations, Ravenjourney! You transitioned gracefully and I enjoyed watching every step of the way.
Posted by on 05/01 at 06:30 AM
Ravenjourney: Beautiful cut and colour!! Must check in here more often; I’ve missed some updates from Chrissy, Lulubell, and others--all looking so good! It’s great to watch everyone “growing into” their new looks.
Posted by on 05/01 at 06:35 AM
WOOOW, Ravenjourney, you look stunning, so beautiful is your natural color....A grayt transition!
Petra.
Posted by on 05/01 at 08:31 AM
Thanks Lisa!!
Posted by on 05/01 at 09:28 AM
I love it Ruth! you’re gorgeous - inside as well. I wish you the best in your newest journey.
Posted by on 05/01 at 09:47 AM
ruth you look great ..i realized i had not “acknowledged” your graduation...although i have been looking at your pics...doesn’t it just feel right???
Posted by on 05/08 at 05:54 AM
Ruth “Underneath it All” - great grad picture. Beautiful!
Posted by on 05/14 at 11:13 AM
Ruth - love your dark gray! I also enjoyed reading about your full, fun-filled life.
Posted by on 05/14 at 11:19 AM
ruth (underneath it all) so happy to see you here!! i have enjoyed watching your transition...love the edgy haircut and enjoyed your story!
welcome to the “other” side of the bottle!!
Posted by on 05/14 at 03:57 PM
Ruth - Underneath it All - you got a beautiful dark gray and what a beautiful haircut!
Good to read you are so content in your life and, that ailurophiles live all over the world.
Is there any video of your and your band’s music on Youtube?
Posted by on 05/15 at 02:38 AM
Congrats on your transition Ruth, you look so graceful and that is a very cool colour!
And Ravenjourney: Ah - stunning. That’s it, just stunning.
Posted by on 05/15 at 02:45 AM
Thanks all for the sweet comments--it is pretty great to finally be done with the transition and kind of a relief to not be so obsessed with my hair!
Here’s a youtube video of me playing drums and doing back up vocals for some good friends of mine (a husband and wife duo called Sequoya):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWfPP_T4MEE
This is not my music, though...there’s really no good youtube videos of my band (Sawteeth), but we are on reverbnation.com if anyone wanted to take a listen (I would recommend listening to a song I wrote called Wings, Wine and Cigarettes, it’s the best recorded song up that we have, or maybe Quaker Bridge Mall). Just search “Sawteeth McTweedy” and we’ll come up.
Thanks again everyone, for the support and kindness!
Ruth/Underneath It All/Summer 2009 Newbies
Posted by on 05/15 at 03:34 AM
Ruth E., “Underneath it All,” CONGRATULATIONS on making it to the Grad Gallery I love the video on “youtube!” It’s always so much fun to see one of “us” in person, so to speak!! Your hair looks fabulous........rock on!
Posted by on 05/19 at 05:07 AM
Ruth E , congratulations! Love the pewter highlights, very cool, and the style!
Posted by on 05/20 at 09:30 AM
christie...i just noticed your “update” pic here...looking great! length and all!!
Posted by on 05/24 at 05:06 AM
Congrats, Beth C.! You have transitioned beautifully! :o) You have such a pretty silver!
Posted by on 06/06 at 04:19 PM
Congratulations on your stunning transition Beth C.! Your natural silver hair is beautiful!
Beth A.
Posted by on 06/06 at 04:23 PM
Thanks so much, Dara and Beth A!! I have been so pleased by this whole experience. My 23 year old son, who has always been a big supporter, came home this week, and says that he thinks the silver makes me “look younger and looks so much better with my skin tone.” How about that!!
Thanks for your comments!
Beth/shine-on
Posted by on 06/08 at 12:30 PM
congrats to annie and sharon !!! and helen you look very GLAM....just scrolling down the page of the entire “before and afters” just continues to prove gray does NOT equal old...and finally GRAY IS A COLOR !!! everyone looks GRAYT…
now helen about the lakers…
Posted by on 06/13 at 06:43 AM
Ladies you all look great!
Posted by on 06/13 at 10:55 AM
Congratulations Anne and Sharon. I love your curls and beautiful silver hair!
Beth C—You son is right on!
Beth A.
Posted by on 06/13 at 01:22 PM
sorry Annie!--I saw the typo and fixed it but it didn’t take.
Posted by on 06/13 at 01:23 PM
Geesh! Miss a couple of days and miss all the fun!!! Annies, Hallrunner and Shine On......."CONGRATULATIONS".........
Posted by on 06/14 at 04:11 AM
Annies, Hallrunner and Shine On, you ladies fit in perfectly with all the other beautiful graduate ladies. Good job!
Posted by on 06/14 at 04:29 AM
Congratulations on your graduation Sharon H, Annie S, and Beth C, you all look fabulous!
Posted by on 06/14 at 07:21 AM
Wow!! Every single one of you ladies looks amazing. I’m sure no regrets. I can’t wait to be a graduate too.
Jane Summer Semester 1 2010
Posted by on 06/15 at 08:57 AM
Congrats to Sharon, Annie, and Beth! Y’all look wonderful and are inspirations to us all.
Posted by on 06/17 at 04:25 PM
This is the place to come when I am doubting my decision to go natural...what inspiration you all have provided. Thanks!!
Posted by on 06/19 at 04:09 PM
Hey Leenbean, it’s natural to have doubts. The biggest one is wondering what your particular pattern of gray will be. If only you had a crystal ball. But do hang in there. It’s going to be fun to see it all in its shining glory.
Posted by on 06/19 at 04:35 PM
Thanks Diana...I am committed to seeing it through to the point where I am full transitioned and can really see what is here (November hopefully). Hoping I like it...as I write this I realize that for the past several years I have struggled with my hair. I never felt like I hit on a color that looked ‘right’, then the texture went south, hair loss and dry scalp. So, as I remember that I can’t choose my naturally pigmented hair of younger years but would have to settle with the drawbacks of colored hair, I feel a surge of silver satisfaction.
Posted by on 06/19 at 09:40 PM
Gotta love that surge, leenbean!
Posted by on 06/19 at 09:57 PM
Annyo63, Congratulations! What a beautiful picture, you look gorgeous!
Posted by on 06/21 at 01:07 PM
Wow, how beautiful our three most recent grads are with their silver and curls. I am so amazed at the varieties of beauty I see here! Annie S, Ann, and Sharon, you look fabulous! Congratulations!
Thanks for the kindness and comments, my dear friends! I have been SO thankful to you all for your support and inspiration.
We are officially moved to a new town and I have “retired”, and finally I feel like I can take a deep breath and settle myself. I am in a place where I have met several lovely great grays, and where not a soul here apart from family knows of my transition. That is sort of a strange thought as I meet new people and realize that they never knew me as dark-headed (or multi-colored!!!) I am growing into this “self” with confidence that this step was exactly the right one at exactly the right time.
Lots of love to you all.
Leenbean, surge on, sister!
Beth/Shine-on
Posted by on 06/21 at 05:45 PM
annyo63...i love the way your natural color “softens” everything ...it really is radiant!! welcome to the bright side!!
Posted by on 06/22 at 05:05 AM
Hi Chrissy and louann. Thank you both for your kind comments. Just the fact that you scrolled all the way down this page to say something is sooooooo sweet!!!Hope you read this one day! So great to have your support. Anny
Posted by on 06/22 at 01:54 PM
Oh, thank you Beth. It sounds exciting, a new town and new gray hair! Here’s to new beginnings .Anny
Posted by on 06/23 at 12:13 PM
Elly and Tami B, Congrats on being the latest additions to the Newbie’s Gallery! All you grayt’s are so inspirational and helps me see a light at the end of the tunnel!
Diane M.
Summer 2010 1st Semester
Posted by on 06/30 at 09:34 AM
elly and tami...fantastic is all ther is to say ...there is no way you can NOT be happy with the outcome!!! welcome to the bright side!!
Posted by on 06/30 at 10:06 AM
Two New Graduates Elly, I can see your curls coming in already framing your face beautifully. It must feel great getting those compliments on YOUR color and better than that, you being thrilled with your color!
Tami, I am loving your funky new hairstyle and the chunky highlights around your face...very hip looking and you LOVING your hair...awesome!
Posted by on 06/30 at 01:56 PM
Wow you girls look great, Annie, Sharon and Ann. I know I’m behind the times, sorry!
Sharon, I especially love your result!
And now, Danielle and Tami, look at your stunning grey hair. (I love the straight hair on you too, Tami)
Posted by on 06/30 at 02:14 PM
All the new graduates look so wonderful! New cuts and new color and I have to say that with no exception each of you look happy with the results. You all lead such interesting and fullfilling lives, so much to be proud of.
Posted by on 06/30 at 02:55 PM
Wow, I’m behind on welcoming the graduates - and most of you are curly girls! Annie, Sharon, Ann, Tami and Danielle - you all have transitioned beautifully!
Posted by on 06/30 at 04:54 PM
I am als late to congratulate Annie Sharon Ann Tami and Danielle! Welcome to the grayt silver sister club! You all will love your natural color, and if there comes a day you dont like, remember the days that you were unhappy with your dyed hair....The freedom, the health, the autenticity, and the BEAUTY…
Petra.
Posted by on 07/02 at 02:45 AM
Hi Newbie Graduates!
Since I’m new to this website and just starting my 2nd month of not dyeing my hair I see that I have much to look forward to. I believe this page will become one of my favorite and will use it to rid myself of any lingering doubts about this journey.
The one thing that I kept noticing was that each of you looked so calm, relaxed, and self-confident - no matter what your hairstyle was and that you all looked happy! That’s the best incentive you could ever give those who come after you. Thank you so much for telling us your individual sagas in pictures.
I hope to have my “graduation” picture featured here as well on day.
I also hope that your life AT (After Transition) brings you everything you wish for and more.
Darlene (not officially a Newbie...yet)
Posted by on 07/07 at 11:49 PM
Ellenina,
I don’t know when this updated picture went up but your hair looks beautiful! Did you ever dream a buzz cut would lead to something so gorgeous? Wow!
Posted by on 07/08 at 05:04 AM
Elly, Au Naturelle, Annoy63, and Hallrunner, WELCOME TO THE GRAD GALLERY!!
Posted by on 07/08 at 05:40 AM
Elly and Au Naturelle (Tami), Your beauty really shines out in your graduation pics! I love the contrasting colors you both have, and the comments you have received from people who have watched you transition have been so right on! Congrats!
Beth/Shine-on
Posted by on 07/10 at 04:27 PM
Tami D. (AWESOME CUT--love it! Might even have to copy it!!!), Danielle (Elly), Ann, Hallrunner, Annie and Shine On...you all look SO GREAT!!!!! Awesome, incredible transitions, ya’ll!!
Posted by on 07/10 at 04:34 PM
Ellenina Gaston (Karate Mom) WOW, what a fantastic update! Your hair has grown so, so much and, of course, the color is just gorgeous! It is so nice to see how you have progressed!
Posted by on 07/18 at 04:26 AM
everyone looks so much better with their natural hair color!
Posted by on 07/18 at 12:23 PM
Lainey G...Congratulations on your graduation! You look beautiful!!
Posted by on 07/21 at 09:32 PM
YUP.
You gals look the best!
Barbara
Posted by on 07/22 at 12:22 AM
Lainey, CONGRATULATIONS!! Mother Nature surely does know best! Lovely!
Posted by on 07/22 at 04:33 AM
Congrats, Lainey! Your coloring is so much softer now - so pretty! :o)
Posted by on 07/22 at 05:20 AM
well done lainey!!! there is no way anyone can say anything but praises about your real look!! welcome to the bright side…
Posted by on 07/22 at 05:25 AM
lulubell,greeneyes and louann...thank you so much! It means a lot to get congrats from the three of you since you had transitiones already when I started. I remember looking at your pictures and being SO encouraged, but felt like I would never get there. Thank you..thank you!!
Posted by on 07/23 at 08:14 AM
How would you describe my hair color??
Posted by on 07/23 at 08:54 AM
Soft silver, Lainey
Posted by on 07/23 at 09:00 AM
Lainey~ So beautiful! This color really suits you. Can’t believe how quickly you have transitioned. Don’t you just love your new hair color? Congratulations!
Posted by on 07/23 at 10:02 AM
Thanks Aziza, It really does go fast when you have short hair. I really do like it, and I guess it will continue to change. It really changed from when I transitioned 3 years ago.. a lot more white/silver.
Posted by on 07/24 at 06:53 AM
WOW! Such beautiful transitions. I was just amazed to see the transformations that everyone went through. All of you have beautiful hair!
Congratulations.
Posted by on 07/26 at 06:31 PM
Well I love this page- it’s quite inspirational! I haven’t even started my journey yet- I’m here for the ideas first. My plan is to make next year the year of transition so that by the end of next year, when I plan to retire, I will have beautiful silver hair! The idea is a bit scary at the moment so I will keep reading!
Posted by on 07/30 at 06:20 PM
maryannen
looks perfect!!! congrats and enjoy!!
Posted by on 08/19 at 09:07 AM
Maryannen - love your hair! The cut, color, everything! So cute…
Posted by on 08/19 at 10:16 AM
Simply smashing Maryanne....you look fantastic!!
Posted by on 08/19 at 11:06 AM
Wow, MaryAnne! You look fantastic! What a fascinating life you live and so full. You are quite an inspiration. BRAVO! Best of luck to you as you dip back into your artistic side.
Posted by on 08/19 at 11:28 AM
Wow what awesome updates. You ladies all look fabulous!
Posted by on 08/20 at 03:00 AM
ruth ..soooo happy to see an update...look how great you look!!
marissa your whole look is fantastic!!!
staci!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love it...you have just proved it’s all attitude...i would love to hear the story about you looking like your friends mom ...but man oh man that has changed ...KEEP the purple streak!!! love love the haircut....
really great to see the updates!!
in all honesty ladies you can not look at the before and after and not think that the natural looks sooo much softer ...healthier…
it’s all in the eyes...lok how happy everyone looks!!
Posted by on 08/20 at 06:15 AM
Everyone looks soooooo much better natural!
Posted by on 08/20 at 08:12 AM
Congatulations lainey and maryannen my classmates and you fab beauties that started before us. Thanks to all for your positive feedback especially gals from previous years...lulubell, catweezle, greeneyes and anyone I missed. Your pics have all inspired me and I review them often. Stay true and have fun...Anny
Posted by on 08/21 at 09:21 AM
oops...Congratulations… 
Posted by on 08/21 at 09:24 AM